vadiya galbat odo hundi hai jado tusi te tuhade bache ik-dooje naal apnia bhavnava atey vichaar sanjhe karde ho.

allarh umar de bachya naal gal karni mushkal ho sakdi hai. jado tuhade bache chhote si, ta oh tuhanu sabh kujh dassde san. par hun oh allarh umar de han te laggda ki oh tuhade naal ziada galbat nahi karni chahunde. is layi tusi ohna de vichaar atey bhavnava nahi jaande. eh is tarha hai jive tusi vaddi sari nadi de ik kinare te kharhe ho atey tuhade bache dooje kinare te. par yaad rakho jado idda hunda hai, ta bachya naal hor vi ziada galbat karan di lorr hundi hai!

odo gal karo jado bache chahunde. apne bache naal gal karan layi tyaar raho bhave oh adhi raat nu hi kyo na gal karni chahe.

“shayad tusi apne mann vich socho, ‘tainu hun sama milya? mai sara din tere naal hi si?’ par ki sanu pareshan hona chaheeda je sadda bacha apne dil di gal karni chahunda hai? nahi, harek mata-pita ehi ta chahunda.”​—lisa.

“bhave mainu meri neend bahut pyaari hai, par meriya apne bachya naal sabh to vadiya galla-bata adhi raat to baad hi hoiya.”​—herbert.

bible da asool: “har koi apna hi faida na soche, sago hamesha doosrya de bhale bare soche.”​—1 kurinthiya 10:24.

dhyaan na bhatkan dyo. ik pita dassda hai: “jado mere bache mere naal gal kar rahe hunde han, ta naal di naal mai mann vich hor galla vi soch reha hunda. mai ohna nu moorakh nahi bana sakda. ohna nu pata lagg janda hai ki mai ohna di gal dhyaan naal nahi sunn reha!”

je tuhade naal vi idda hunda hai, ta t.v. band karo atey phone vagaira ik pase rakh dyo. apne bache di gal dhyaan naal suno. dikhao ki tuhade layi ohna di gal sunni sabh to zaroori hai, bhave tuhanu ohna di gal mamooli jehi kyo na lagge.

“bachya nu eh ehsas karauna bahut zaroori hai ki asi ohna diya bhavnava nu samjhde ha. je ohna nu laggda hai ki asi ohna di parvah nahi karde, ta oh apni chintava dabi rakhange, ja shayad kise hor kol ja ke dil haula karange.”​—miranda.

“bhave tuhade bache di soch nu sudharan di lorr kyo na hove, fir vi jaldbazi vich kujh galat na bolo.”​—anthony.

bible da asool: “dhyaan naal suno.”​—luka 8:18.

roz de kamm-kaar karde vele galbat karo. kayi vaar bache mapya de aamo-samne baith ke khull ke gal nahi kar paunde.

“kaar vich kite jandya sadde kol gal karan da vadiya mauka hunda. aamo-samne baithan di bajaye asi ik-dooje de naal-naal baithe hunde ha te idda saddi kayi vaar vadiya galbat hoi hai.”​—nicole.

khana khaan vele vi gal karan da vadiya mauka hunda hai.

“khana khande same parivar da harek member din dauran vapari sabh to maarri atey sabh to changi gal dassda hai. idda karan naal asi ik-dooje de hor nerre hunde ha atey is to pata laggda hai ki mushkla da samna karan vich dooje vi sadda saath denge.”​—robin.

bible da asool: ‘har koi sunan layi tyaar rahe atey bolan vich kaahli na kare.’​—yakoob 1:19.