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Ko e akonaki kua takitaki e tama ke he puhala ne fakahakohako he muivaka e poti

MA E TAU MATUA

6: Akonaki

6: Akonaki

KO E KAKANO

Ko e kupu akonaki kua kakano ke takitaki po ke fakaako. He falu mogo, putoia e fakatonu he mahani nakai omaoma he tama. Ka e fa foaki e fakaakoaga he tau mahani ke lagomatai e tama ke iloa ke taute e tau fifiliaga mitaki he kamataaga.

KAKANO NE AOGA

He tau tau loga kua mole, kua teitei galo e akonaki he falu magafaoa ha kua matakutaku e tau matua neke fakalolelole e tama ka fakatonu. Ka ko e tau matua lotomatala kua fakatoka e tau matafakatufono lagotatai ti fakaako e tau fanau ke omaoma ki ai.

“Ko e tau fanau kua lata ke fai fakakaupā ke lagomatai a lautolu ke tutupu hake ko e tau tagata lalahi kua mitaki. Ka nakai akonaki, ko e fanau kua tuga e poti ne nakai fai muivaka ti fakahiku tafea po ke lifa.”​—Pamela.

MENA KE TAUTE E KOE

Ua hikihiki fano. Ka nakai muitua e tama ke he tau matafakatufono haau ti tala age e tau fua ka moua. Kaeke ke omaoma e tama haau ti nava lahi ki a ia.

“Nava tumau e au e fanau haaku pete ni ko e omaoma kua lavea he lalolagi nei. Ko e nava kua mukamuka lahi ki a lautolu ke talia e fakatonuaga kua lata.”​—Christine.

MATAPATU FAKAAKOAGA HE TOHI TAPU: “Ha ko e mena kua gana he tagata, ko e mena ia ni ke helehele mai ai e ia.”​—Kalatia 6:7.

Kia fakalatalata. Ka akonaki, manamanatu ke he tau moui he tama mo e lotomatala mo e lekua. Fa mahani ke lauia mitaki e akonaki ka matutaki mo e lekua, tuga ka fakaaoga fakahehē e telefoni to utakehe fakakū ai mai ia lautolu. He magaaho taha, kalo kehe he eke e tau lekua ikiiki mo tau lekua lalahi.

“Lali au ke mailoga ko e nakai omaoma pauaki e tama haaku po ke hehē e onoonoaga haana. Kua kehekehe e taute he mena hepe lahi ti lata ke huo kehe mo e hehē ne lata ke fakalaga.”​—Wendell.

MATAPATU FAKAAKOAGA HE TOHI TAPU: “Aua neke fakalagalaga e tau fanau ha mutolu, neke fakalolelole e tau loto ha lautolu.”​—Kolose 3:21.

Kia fakaalofa. Ko e akonaki kua mukamuka lahi he fanau ke talia mo e fakagahua ka iloa e lautolu kua fakaalofa mooli e matua.

“He taute he tama taane ha maua e tau hehē, tala age a maua kua matalahi a maua ke he tau fifiliaga mitaki ne taute e ia kua mole. Fakamaama e maua ko e hehē kua nakai tumau ka taute e ia e tau hikihikiaga kua hako mo e ko maua ke lagomatai a ia ke taute e mena ia.”​—Daniel.

MATAPATU FAKAAKOAGA HE TOHI TAPU: “Kua fakauka e fakaalofa, to totonu.”​—1 Korinito 13:4.