• izimpi

• imikhuhlane

• izingozi zemvelo

• ubuyanga

• ubandlululo

• ubugebenga

Nxa kungaba lomonakalo abantu abanengi bayethuka futhi baphelelwe lithemba. Abanye bangehlelwa zinhlupho bahle baswele ukuthi benzeni. Kodwa lokho kungenza isimo siqhubeke sisiba nzima ukwedlula lokho ebesivele siyikho.

Nxa ungehlelwa zinhlupho kumele udinge indlela zokuvikela impilakahle yakho lalabo obathandayo. Kumele udinge lokuthi ungenzani ukuze uqhubeke uthola okokuziphilisa futhi uhlale uthokoza.

Kuyini ongakwenza ukuze inhlupho ohlangana lazo khathesi zingakuthwalisi nzima kakhulu?