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kadavuludaiya paarvaiyil eppadi sutthamaaga irukkalaam?
oru ammaa thannudaiya kutti paiyanai eppadi skūlukku anuppuvaar? avanai kulikka vaitthu, nandraaga thuvaittha sutthamaana thunimaniyai pōttuvittu anuppuvaar. adhanaal paiyan aarōkkiyamaaga iruppaan. avanudaiya ammaa appaa avanai nandraaga gavanitthukkolgiraargal endru matravargalum ninaippaargal. nammudaiya anbaana appaa yegōvaavum naam udalilum ullatthilum sutthamaaga irukka vēndumendru ninaikkiraar. sutthamaaga iruppadhu namakku nanmai tharum, yegōvaavukkum pugal sērkkum.
1. nammai eppadi sutthamaaga vaitthukkollalaam?
‘nīngal parisutthamaaga irukka vēndum’ endru yegōvaa solgiraar. (1 pēdhuru 1:16) ingē parisuttham enbadhu olukka sutthatthai mattumalla, udal sutthatthaiyum kurikkiradhu. sutthamaaga iruppadharku naam dhinamum kulikka vēndum. adhōdu, nam thunimanigalaiyum vīttaiyum vandiyaiyum sutthamaagavum nērtthiyaagavum vaitthirukka vēndum. raajya mandratthai sutthamaaga vaitthiruppadharkum naam udhavi seiya vēndum. ippadiyellaam seiyumpōdhu yegōvaavukku pugal sērppōm.—2 korindhiyar 6:3, 4.
2. sutthamaaga iruppadharku ennenna palakkangalai naam thavirkka vēndum?
‘udalilirundhum ullatthilirundhum ellaa karaigalaiyum nīkki nammai sutthappadutthikkolla’ vēndumendru baibil solgiradhu. (2 korindhiyar 7:1) appadiyendraal, nammudaiya udalaiyō ullatthaiyō kedukkum edhaiyum naam seiya kūdaadhu. nam yōsanaigalkūda yegōvaavukku pidittha maadhiri irukka vēndum. adhanaal, ketta vishayangal edhaiyum naam yōsikkavē kūdaadhu. (sangīdham 104:34) adhēpōl, ketta vaartthaigalai naam pēsavum kūdaadhu.—kolōseyar 3:8-ai vaasiyungal.
vēru ennenna vishayangal nam udalaiyum ullatthaiyum kedukkum? bōdhaipporul, pugaiyilai, paakku pōndra porulgal nam udalai kedukkum. idhaiyellaam naam thavirkkumpōdhu aarōkkiyamaaga iruppōm, uyir endra arpudhamaana parisukku madhippum kaattuvōm. olukka vishayatthilum naam sutthamaaga irukka vēndum. adhanaal, suya inba palakkam, aabaasatthai paarkkum palakkam pōndravatrai thavirkka vēndum. (sangīdham 119:37; ebēsiyar 5:5) idhupōndra palakkangalai viduvadhu kashtamdhaan. aanaal, yegōvaa kandippaaga namakku udhavi seivaar.—ēsaayaa 41:13-ai vaasiyungal.
aaraaindhu paarkkalaam!
naam sutthamaaga iruppadhu eppadi yegōvaavukku pugal sērkkum? ketta palakkangalai naam eppadi vidalaam? paarkkalaam.
3. suttham kadavulukku pugal sērkkum
isravēlargalukku yegōvaa koduttha sattangalai padikkumpōdhu, avarudaiya makkal sutthamaaga iruppadhu endhalavu mukkiyam endru therindhukolgirōm. yaatthiraagamam 19:10-aiyum 30:17-19-aiyum paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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sutthatthukku yegōvaa mukkiyathuvam tharugiraar enbadhai indha vasanangal eppadi kaattugindrana?
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sutthamaaga iruppadharku enna nalla palakkangalai naam valartthukkollalaam?
nammai sutthamaaga vaitthukkolvadharku nēramum muyarchiyum thēvai. aanaal, naam engu vaalndhaalum sari, namakku vasadhi irundhaalum sari, illaiyendraalum sari, nammaal sutthamaaga irukka mudiyum. vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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nam porulgalai sutthamaagavum nērtthiyaagavum vaitthukkolvadhu nam ūliyatthukku eppadi madhippu sērkkum?
4. kettadhai vittuvidungal
yegōvaavin udhaviyōdu eppadippatta ketta palakkatthaiyum naam vida mudiyum
sigaret alladhu bōdhaipporul payanpadutthugira palakkam ungalukku irundhaal adhai vittuviduvadhu evvalavu kashtam endru ungalukku theriyum. aanaal, andha palakkatthaal varum baadhippugalai patri yōsippadhu ungalukku udhaviyaaga irukkum. matthēyu 22:37-39-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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indha ketta palakkangal yegōvaavudan ungalukku irukkum natpai eppadi baadhikkum?
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indha ketta palakkangal ungal kudumbatthaiyum ungalai sutriyiruppavargalaiyum eppadi baadhikkum?
ketta palakkatthai vittuviduvadharku thittam pōdungal. a vīdiyōvai paarungal.
pilippiyar 4:13-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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thavaraamal jebippadhum baibil padippadhum kūttangalukku pōvadhum, ketta palakkatthai vittuvida eppadi udhavum?
5. olukkanketta vishayangalai yōsikkaadhīrgal, seiyaadhīrgal
kolōseyar 3:5-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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aabaasam, seksting, b suya inbam c pōndravai yegōvaavin paarvaiyil asutthamaanavai endru eppadi sollalaam?
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olukka vishayatthil naam sutthamaaga irukka vēndumendru yegōvaa edhirpaarppadhu ungalukku nyaayamaaga padugiradhaa? ēn?
ketta yōsanaigalai naam eppadi vittuvidalaam endru therindhukollungal. vīdiyōvai paarungal.
olukka vishayatthil sutthamaaga irukka naam urudhiyaaga irukka vēndum. idhai puriyavaikka yēsu oru udhaaranatthai sonnaar. matthēyu 5:29, 30-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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nam udalai nijamaagavē sēdhappaduttha vēndumendru yēsu sollavillai, aanaal naam urudhiyaana nadavadikkai edukka vēndumendru sonnaar. olukkanketta yōsanaigal varaamal iruppadharku enna urudhiyaana nadavadikkaiyai oruvar edukkalaam? d
ketta yōsanaigalai vittuvida nīngal pōraadugirīrgalaa? nīngal edukkum muyarchigalai yegōvaa madhikkiraar. sangīdham 103:13, 14-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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oru ketta palakkatthai vittuvida nīngal pōraadugirīrgal endraal, muyarchiyai kaividaamal iruppadharku indha vasanam eppadi ungalukku urchaagam tharugiradhu?
thadumaari viluvadhu thōlvi alla!
‘evvalavō muyarchi panniyaachu, inimēl ennaala mudiyaadhu’ endru nīngal oruvēlai ninaikkalaam. aanaal idhai konjam yōsitthu paarungal: ōttappandhayatthil ōdugiravar thadumaari vilalaam. aanaal, avar pandhayatthil thōtruvittaar endru solla mudiyaadhu, avar thirumbavum aarambatthilirundhu ōda vēndumendrum kidaiyaadhu. adhēpōl, ketta palakkatthil thadumaari vilundhuvittaal orēyadiyaaga thōtruppōivittōm endru arttham kidaiyaadhu. idhuvaraikkum seidha munnētramellaam vīn endru sollavum mudiyaadhu. vaalkkai endra ōttappandhayatthil ippadi thadumaari viluvadhu sagajamdhaan. adhanaal, sōrndhuvidaadhīrgal! yegōvaavin udhaviyōdu ungalaal kandippaaga jeyikka mudiyum!
silar ippadi solgiraargal: “naan adhukku adimaiyaayittēn, ennaala niruttha mudiyumnu thōnala.”
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yegōvaavin udhaviyōdu ketta palakkatthai vittuvida mudiyum enbadhai endha vasanatthilirundhu nīngal kaattuvīrgal?
surukkam
nam udalum ullamum palakkangalum sutthamaaga irundhaal yegōvaavai sandhōshappaduttha mudiyum.
nyaabagam varugiradhaa?
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sutthamaaga iruppadhu ēn romba mukkiyam?
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nīngal eppadi sutthamaaga irukkalaam?
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ungal yōsanaigalaiyum palakkangalaiyum eppadi sutthamaaga vaitthukkollalaam?
alasi paarungal
vasadhi kuraivaaga irundhaalum sutthamaaga irukka enna elimaiyaana vishayangalai seiyalaam endru paarungal.
pugai pidippadhai nirutthuvadharku ennenna seiya vēndumendru therindhukollungal.
“pugai pidippadhai nirutthuvadhu eppadi?” (aanlain katturai, vilitthelu!, aktōbar-disambar, 2010)
aabaasatthai paarppadhaal varum baadhippugalai therindhukollungal.
aabaasatthukku adimaiyaagiyirundha oruvar eppadi andha palakkatthai vittolitthaar endru therindhukollungal.
“pala dhadavai thōlvi adaindhēn... kadaisiyil vetri petrēn” (kaavarkōburam en 4 2016)
a indha paadatthil “alasi paarungal” pagudhiyil irukkum “pugai pidippadhai nirutthuvadhu eppadi?” endra katturai, ketta palakkangalai vittuvida ennenna seiyalaam endru solgiradhu.
b seksting enbadhu olukkanketta seidhigalaiyō padangalaiyō vīdiyōkkalaiyō oru elektraanik saadhanam mūlam innoruvarukku anuppuvadhu.
c suya inbam enbadhu paaliyal inbatthai anubavippadharkaaga oruvar thannudaiya pirappuruppai kilarchi adaiya seivadhu.
d suya inba palakkatthai vittuvida, “suya inba palakkatthilirundhu velivaruvadhu eppadi?” endra aanlain katturaiyai paarungal.
