paadam 41
seks—baibil solvadhu enna?
seks patri pēsavē niraiya pēr kūchappaduvaargal. aanaal, baibil adhai patri velippadaiyaagavum ganniyamaagavum pēsugiradhu. baibil sollum vishayangal namakku romba prayōjanamaaga irukkindrana. ēnendraal, nammai padaittha yegōvaadhaan adhaiyellaam solliyirukkiraar. namakku edhu nalladhu endru avarukkutthaan nandraaga theriyum. adhanaal, namakku prayōjanamaana sattathittangalai kodutthirukkiraar. avatrinpadi nadandhaal avarudaiya manadhai sandhōshappaduttha mudiyum. adhōdu, indrum endrum sandhōshamaaga vaala mudiyum.
1. seks patri yegōvaa enna ninaikkiraar?
thambadhiyaaga irukkum aanukkum pennukkum yegōvaa thandhirukkum parisudhaan seks. idhu pillaigalai petredukka udhavugiradhu. adhumattumalla, oruvarmēl oruvar vaitthirukkum anbaiyum paasatthaiyum iyalbaana muraiyil... inbamtharum vidhatthil... velikkaattavum udhavugiradhu. adhanaaldhaan, “ilavayadhil kaippidittha un manaiviyōdu sandhōshamaaga iru” endru baibil solgiradhu. (nīdhimoligal 5:18, 19) kalyaanamaanavargal oruvarukku oruvar dhrōgam seiyaamal unmaiyaaga irukka vēndumendru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar.—ebireyar 13:4-ai vaasiyungal.
2. paaliyal muraikēdu endraal enna?
“paaliyal muraikēttil īdupadugiravargal . . . kadavuludaiya arasaangatthukkul anumadhikkappada maattaargal” endru baibil solgiradhu. (1 korindhiyar 6:9, 10) baibilin grēkka vēdhaagama pagudhiyai eludhiyavargal paaliyal muraikēttukku pōrniyaa endra vaartthaiyai payanpadutthinaargal. andha vaartthai idhaiyellaam kurikkiradhu: (1) kalyaanamaagaadha aanum pennum udaluravu vaitthukkolvadhu, a (2) aanōdu aanum pennōdu pennum udaluravu vaitthukkolvadhu, (3) mirugangalōdu udaluravu vaitthukkolvadhu. ippadippatta ellaa vidhamaana ‘paaliyal muraikēttukkum vilagiyirukkumpōdhu’ naam sandhōshamaaga vaala mudiyum, yegōvaavin manadhaiyum sandhōshappaduttha mudiyum.—1 thesalōnikkēyar 4:3.
aaraaindhu paarkkalaam!
nīngal eppadi paaliyal muraikēttil sikkaamal irukkalaam endrum, adhanaal ungalukku enna nanmai kidaikkum endrum paarkkalaam.
3. paaliyal muraikēttilirundhu vilagi ōdungal
yōsēppu eppadi olukkanketta aasaigalukku idamkodukkaamal irundhaar endru baibil solgiradhu. aadhiyaagamam 39:1-12-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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ōdippōvadharku yōsēppai edhu thūndiyadhu?—vasanam 9-ai paarungal.
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yōsēppu sariyaana mudivedutthadhaaga nīngal ninaikkirīrgalaa? ēn?
indru ilainyargal eppadi yōsēppai pōlavē paaliyal muraikēttilirundhu vilagi ōdalaam? vīdiyōvai paarungal.
naam ellaarumē olukkanketta vishayangalai verutthu odhukka vēndumendru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar. 1 korindhiyar 6:18-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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enna maadhiriyaana sūlnilaigal oruvarai paaliyal muraikēttil vila vaikkalaam?
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nīngal eppadi paaliyal muraikēttilirundhu vilagi ōdalaam?
4. ketta aasaiyai ungalaal adakka mudiyum
paaliyal muraikēttil īdupadum aasaiyai adakkuvadhu ēn silasamayam kashtamaaga irukkalaam? vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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vīdiyōvil vandha sagōdharar, thannudaiya yōsanaigalum nadatthaiyum than manaivikku dhrōgam seiya vaitthuvidalaam endru unarndhavudan enna seidhaar?
kadavulukku unmaiyaaga iruppavargalkūda ketta yōsanaigalai thavirkka silasamayam pōraada vēndiyirukkiradhu. olukkanketta vishayangalai patriyē yōsippadhai thavirppadharku nīngal enna seiyalaam? pilippiyar 4:8-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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enna vishayangalai naam yōsikka vēndum?
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baibilai vaasippadhum yegōvaavukku mummuramaaga sēvai seivadhum, paavam seiya thūndum aasaiyai adakka eppadi udhavum?
5. yegōvaavin arivuraigal namakku nanmai tharum
namakku edhu nalladhu endru yegōvaavukkutthaan nandraaga theriyum. naam eppadi olukkamaaga irukkalaam endrum, adhanaal enna nanmaigal kidaikkum endrum avar solliyirukkiraar. nīdhimoligal 7:7-27-ai padiyungal alladhu vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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andha vaaliban eppadi aabatthai thēdippōnaan?—nīdhimoligal 7:8, 9-ai paarungal.
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nīdhimoligal 7:23, 26 solgirapadi, paaliyal muraikēttinaal vibarīdhamaana vilaivugaldhaan ērpadum. naam olukkamaaga nadandhukondaal enna prachinaigalai thavirkkalaam?
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olukkamaaga vaalvadhaal naam eppadi indrum endrum sandhōshamaaga irukka mudiyum?
ōrinachērkkai thavaru endru baibil solvadhu nyaayam kidaiyaadhu endru silar ninaikkalaam. aanaal, yegōvaa anbaana kadavul. indrum endrum naam sandhōshamaaga vaala vēndum endru avar virumbugiraar. avar solgirapadi naam nadandhaal appadi sandhōshamaaga vaala mudiyum. 1 korindhiyar 6:9-11-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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matra ketta kaariyangalai pōlatthaan ōrinachērkkaiyaiyum kadavul verukkiraar endru eppadi sollalaam?
kadavulai piriyappaduttha naam ellaarumē maatrangal seiya vēndum. nam muyarchigal orunaalum vīnpōgaadhu. sangīdham 19:8, 11-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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olukka vishayatthil yegōvaa tharum arivuraigal ungalukku nyaayamaaga therigiradhaa? ēn?
olukkamaaga vaala yegōvaa niraiya pērukku udhavi seidhirukkiraar. avar ungalukkum udhavi seivaar
silar ippadi solgiraargal: “orutthar yaarkūda seks vechukkittaa enna, manasu otthuppōnaa pōdhum.”
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nīngal enna badhil solvīrgal?
surukkam
kanavanum manaiviyum sandhōshamaaga iruppadharku yegōvaa thandhirukkum parisudhaan seks.
nyaabagam varugiradhaa?
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paaliyal muraikēttil edhuvellaam adangiyirukkiradhu?
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paaliyal muraikēttai thavirkka edhu namakku udhavi seiyum?
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olukka vishayatthil yegōvaa thandhirukkum arivuraigalinpadi nadappadhaal enna nanmaigal kidaikkum?
alasi paarungal
sērndhu vaala aasaippadum ōr aanum pennum kalyaanam seidhukolla vēndumendru kadavul ēn solgiraar endru therindhukollungal.
“kalyaanam seiyaamal sērndhu vaalvadhai patri baibil enna solgiradhu?” (aanlain katturai)
ōrinachērkkai thavaru endru baibil solgiradhu. aanaal, adhil īdupadugiravargalai naam verukka vēndum endru adhu solvadhillai. vivarangalai paditthu paarungal.
“ōrinachērkkai thavaraa?” (aanlain katturai)
seks sambandhamaaga kadavul thandhirukkum sattangal nammai eppadi paadhugaakkum endru therindhukollungal.
“vaaivali seks enbadhum seksthaanaa?” (aanlain katturai)
ōrinachērkkaiyil īdupatta oruvar kadavulukku pidittha maadhiri vaala eppadi thannai maatrikkondaar endru “ennai mariyaadhaiyaaga nadatthinaargal” endra katturaiyil paditthu paarungal.
“baibil aalaiyē maatrum sakthi padaitthadhu” (aanlain katturai)
a saadhaarana udaluravu mattumallaamal, vaai valiyaaga alladhu aasanavaai valiyaaga seks vaitthukkolvadhu, paaliyal inbatthukkaaga innoruvarin pirappuruppai kilarchiyadaiya seivadhu pōndra pala vishayangal idhil adangum.
