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Tiheeni Piipiliya Onaloceiye sa Othela ni Okhala Muciye?

Tiheeni Piipiliya Onaloceiye sa Othela ni Okhala Muciye?

Mu sookhovelela ikina, achu anuupuwela wi muchu onahaala ohakalala pahiru wakhala wi oothela. Mwawiihiiha, tahi wi atheli oothene toohakalala naari wi aciye hanahakalala. Mweeparipari Piipiliya onaloca wi okhala mutheli naari okhala muciye soothene samahala sa Yehova.

1. Tisivi siri miphurelo sa okhala muciye?

Piipiliya onii: ‘Yoole onathela naari onatheliwa onneerano phaama, nyenya yoole oni ahithele naari ahitheliwe onamweerano phaamasha.’ (Mwaalakhanye 1 Korinto 7:32, 33, 38.) Mmukhalelo taani muchu yoowo ori muciye ‘oneereiyeno phaamasha?’ Akristu yaawo ari aciye haniipiwa murima ni soothowa sa iyaya naari mwaaraya. Mwawiihiiha awo annakhalano otaphuwa wawaaca. Ntoko yootakiherya awo annapharihela elukuluku aya mmuteko wa Yehova, akhweya moorweela wa oya elapo ekina wi yalaleerye michaka yaphaama. Opwaha soothene, awo annakhalano elukuluku yawaaca wi emwaacamele Yehova.

2. Tisivi siri miphurelo sa orepiha othela?

Okhala muciye, othela naari otheliwa, soothene sookhalano miphurelo saya. Piipiliya onaloca wi “okhala eeli onnareera opwaha okhala muchu meekheiye.” (Eklesiyaste 4:9) Eyo eparipari xaxaxa wa Akristu yaawo anapharihela miruku sa Mpiipiliyani vooloca sa othela. Vaavaa mulopwana ni muthiyana anarepihaaya othela waya awo annapaka nlakano na osivelana, ocicimihana ni okhapelelana mukina ni mukhweiye. Eyo ennavaha okhapeleleya waapwaha yaale anakhala vamoha ehirepinhe othela waya. Nave orepiha othela onneeriha wi anamwane ephwiiwe mookhapeleleya.

3. Tuuvi ori moonelo wa Yehova vooloca sa othela?

Vaavaa Yehova aatikithenryeiye othela woopacerya, owo aahi: “Mulopwana aahiyeke atiithinya ni amannya, aphitaane ni mwaariye.” (Maphatxuwelo 2:24) Yehova onaachuna wi mulopwana ni muthiyana athelanne, esivelaneke nave ekhaleke vamoha mmahiku oothene a okumi aya. Owo oneemererya omwalana wakhala wi mulopwana naari muthiyana oopaka mararuwo. Mmukhalelo yoola, Yehova oomvaha yoowo ochekeliwe olakelela omwalana naari omulevelela. a (Mateu 19:9) Yehova haneemererya waaceya, eyo tiwi Mukristu okhalano mulopwana opwaha mmoha naari muthiyana opwaha mmoha.—1 Timóteo 3:2.

OHUSERYA MWAWIISEELA

Moone ti mwawiihai aciye ni atheli aneeraaya ekhale oohakalala—ni mukhalelo anahaalaaya omuhakalaliha Yehova.

4. Mukhalelo aciye aneeraaya epharihele phaama okumi aya

Yesu aanoona ociye okhala ntoko yamahala. (Mateu 19:11, 12) Mwaalakhanye Mateu 4:23, nave voocharela muthokororye nikoho nla:

  • Ti mwawiihai Yesu aapharihenleiye otaphuwa wa okhala muciye wi aarumeele Atiithi awe ni waakhaviherya akina?

Akristu ari aciye ananwerya opaka ichu hiiha ntoko Yesu eenreiye. Moone EXILEMA, nave voocharela muthokororye nikoho nla.

  • Ti mwawiihai Mukristu ori muciye onahaaleiye opharihela otaphuwa wawe, wi akhaleno yootaphulela ya ekumi mmuteko wa Yehova?

Nyuwaano mwaanasuwela?

Piipiliya hanaloca iyaakha muchu onaphwaneleiye othela naari otheliwa. Nyenya owo onnamuceenyerya muchu oweherya ophiyerya osuwela wi “nchuno nawe na okonihana” noovukuwa, eyo ti wi elukuluku yeeyo nchuno na okonihana nnakhalaaya noolipa nave nnamweerihaaya muchu opaka yoolakelela yoohiphwanelela.—1 Korinto 7:36.

5. Mmuthanle mwamiruku yoowo munayaanyu opakano othela

Omuthanla yoowo nnayaahu opakano othela yoolakelela yoochuneya nnaphwanelaahu opaka. Mwaalakhanye Mateu 19:4-6, 9, nave muthokororye nikoho nnacharela:

  • Ntakhara heeni Mukristu ohinaphwaneleiye waakuvela othela?

Piipiliya onamookhaviheryaani osuwela mikhalelo saphaama sa mulopwana oophwanelela naari sa muthiyana oophwanelela. Opwaha soothene, munaphwanela omwaavya muthiyana naari mulopwana onamusivela Yehova. b Mwaalakhanye 1 Korinto 7:39 ni 2 Korinto 6:14. Nave voocharela muthokororye makoho ala:

  • Ntakhara heeni nnaphwanelaahu omuthela naari otheliwa ni muchu yoowo onamurumeela Yehova?

  • Munuupuwela wi Yehova onoona hai vaavaa nnapakaahu othela ni muchu yoowo ohinamusivela Yoowo?

Wakhala wi asinama eeli oohiyana aaphitaanyiwa vamoha, awo anahaala ohooxeya. Moolikana, Mukristu yoowo onapaka othela ni muchu yoowo ohinamurumeela Yehova, onahaala tho ohoolela makacamiho mancipale

6. Mukhaleno moonelo wa Yehova vooloca sa othela

Mu Isarayeli akhalai, alopwana akina yaanamwalana ni asaaraya ni mathowa oohiphwanelela. Mwaalakhanye Malakiya 2:13, 14, 16, nave voocharela muthokororye nikoho nla:

  • Ntakhara heeni Yehova onniica omwalana ehirivo mathipelo a Mpiipiliyani?

Oraruwa ni omwalana onnatannya makacamiho wa muchu ohirino nthowa ni wa anamwane

Moone EXILEMA, nave voocharela muthokororye nikoho nla.

  • Waakhanle wi nyuwaano mpanke othela ni muchu ohinamurumeela Yehova, tiheeni munaphwanelaanyu weera wi othela wanyu okhale woohakalala?

7. Mpharihele muteko yeeyo Yehova onaloceiye vooloca sa othela

Akhweya onamuchuneya wiilipiserya wi muchu aphariheleke malakiheryo a Yehova vooloca sa othela. c Nyenya Yehova onnaareeliha yaawo aniilipiserya weerano hiihaa. Moone EXILEMA.

Mwaalakhanye Ahebri 13:4, nave voocharela muthokororye makoho ala:

  • Mmoonelo anyu munoona wi ti yoophwanelela opharihela muteko yeeyo Yehova onaloceiye sa othela? Waakhanle wi aa, ntakhara heeni, naari waakhanle wi hooye, ntakhara heeni?

Mu ilapo sincipale, alamuleli annaalamulela achu orepiha othela waya naari omwalana. Yehova onaweherya wi Akristu yiiweleleke malamulo yaala. Mwaalakhanye Tito 3:1, nave voocharela muthokororye nikoho nla:

  • Waakhanle wi moothela naari mootheliwa, munnaroromela wi moorepiha othela mwawiiwanana ni malamulo?

ACHU AKINA ANANWERYA OKOHA: “Ntakhara heeni orepiha othela? Tahi yaphaama okhala vamoha pahiru?”

  • Mwaahaala waakhula hai?

MUKWASU

Othela ni okhala muciye samahala inarweela wa Muluku. Atheli ni aciye ananwerya okhalano oohakalala wakhala wi annakhala mwawiiwanana ni yookhwela ya Yehova.

Makoho awuuluulela

  • Ti mwawiihai muciye onahaaleiye opharihela phaama okumi awe?

  • Ntakhara heeni Piipiliya onaloceiye wi pahiru nnaphwanela othelana ni muchu yoowo onamurumeela Yehova?

  • Nthowa taani nimoha Piipiliya oneemereryeiye omwalana?

Yoolakelela

OTHOLATHOLA

Enataphulela eheeni othela pahiru “mwa Apwiyaru”?

“Perguntas dos leitores” (A Sentinela, 1.º de julho de 2004)

Moone ixilema raru ikhaani seiyo inahaala wookhaviheryaani opaka yoolakelela yaphaama vooloca sa waakamela ni othela.

Para quem pensa em se casar (11:53)

Moone ntakhara heeni munna mmoha onuupuweleiye wi Yehova omvaha ichu sincipale soochuneya opwaha seiho ohin’yeiye muculi.

Kuupuwela wi Owo Aahaala Ohuserya Eparipari (1:56)

Waakhanle wi muchu onnuupuwela omwalana naari omwalamwala, ichu taani onaphwaneleiye othokororya?

“Mucicimihe ‘Yeeyo Muluku Ophitaannyeiye’” (Mulipeleli a Tesempuru a 2018)

a Moone Yooleeliherya 4 yeeyo enaloca sa omwalamwala ohirivo mararuwo.

b Mu sookhovelela ikina, asitiithi tanamuthanla yoowo onahaala opaka othela ni mwanaya a mwaamulopwana naari mwaamuthiyana. Mmikhalelo ntoko seiya, yoolakelela ya asitiithi oosivela ori woona waakhanle wi muchu owo onnamusivela Yehova, ohiya ikhorowa naari muhakhu.

c Waakhanle wi munakhala ni mulopwana naari muthiyana muhirepinhe othela, omuhiya muchu owo naari orepiha othela ni yoowo yoolakelela ya nyuwo mukhatiinyu.