Muvikhalidwe vinango, wanthu achakhulupirira kuti munthu angakhalerilini wokondwa akakhala kuti alirini pabanja. Koma chaivo ni vakuti, sikuti wanthu wose omwe ali pabanja achakhala wokondwa, ndipo niwoselini omwe alilini pabanja omwe niwosakondwa. Chaivo ni vakuti Baibolo ichafotokoza pose pawiri, omwe ali pabanja na omwe alilini pabanja kuti ni mphaso.

1. Ko ubwino wosakhala pabanja ni uponi?

Baibolo ichati: ‘Womwe walowola wachita bwino, koma yemwe alibe kulowola wachita bwino maninge.’ (Lewengani 1 Akorinto 7:32, 33, 38.) Ko ni mwanjira iponi yomwe munthu wosalowola achakhala kuti wachita ‘bwino maninge’? Akhrisitu omwe alilini pabanja achakhala alibe udindo wosamalira mwanzawo wa mu ukwati. Mwevi, vichachitisa kuti akhale na ufulu uzinji. Mwakulinganiza, anango achakwanisa kuingizira utumiki wawo mu njira yabwino maninge, iwo achafulukira kumalo yanango kuti akalalikire ntontholo wabwino. Kuposha vose, iwo achakhala na nthawe izinji yofenderera kwa Yahova.

2. Ko ni ubwino uponi wokhala pabanja mwalamulo?

Ali pabanja, na omwe alirini pabanja, achakhala na madaliso yosiyanasiyana. Baibolo ichati: ‘Awiri alibwino kuposha m’bodzi.’ (Mlaliki 4:9) Mwevi nichaivodi makamaka kwa Akhrisitu omwe achaphatisa basa mpfundo za m’Baibolo m’banja mwawo. Mabanja yomwe niyolowolana mwa lamulo, achachita polomisi yakuti nthawe zose ambadzakondane, kulemekezana na kuona mwanzake kuti niwakudikana maninge. Phindu yake niyakuti iwo achakhala motetezeka maninge kuposha mabanja yomwe yakundokhalira pabodzi koma osalembesa mwalamulo. Ndipo mabanja ninge mwaya yachakhala malo yotetezeka na yabwino yolerela wana.

3. Ko Yahova achayawona tani mabanja?

Pomwe Yahova adakonza banja yakuyambirira iye adati: ‘Mwamuna adzasiye ababa wake na amayi wake nkudzilumikiza kwa nkazi wake.’ (Genesis 2:24) Yahova achada kuti mwamuna na nkazi ambakondane nakuti akhale pabodzi mpakana moyo wawo wose. Iye achabvuma kuti wanthu amalise banja akakhala kuti m’bodzi wachita chimo yachigololo. Vikakhala tene, Yahova achapereka mwayi kwa wophonyerewa ule m’banja kuti asalule peno achada kumalisa banja. a (Mateyu 19:9) Yahova achabvumalini chipali pakati pa Akhrisitu.—1 Timoteyo 3:2.

 PFUNZIRANI VIZINJI

5. Salulani mwanzanu wa mu ukwati mwanzeru

Kusalula mwanzanu womanga naye ukwati ni chosalula chakudikana maninge chomwe imwepo mungachite. Lewengani Mateyu 19:4-6, 9, ndipo patsogolo pake kambiranani mbvunzo uyu:

• Ndawa chani Mkhrisitu achadekanalini kuthamangira m’banja?

Baibolo ingakuthandizeni kudziwa chomwe ni chakudikana pakufaga mwanzanu wa mu ukwati. Kuposha vose, fagani mwanzanu wa mu ukwati yemwe achakonda Yahova. b Lewengani 1 Akorinto 7:39 na 2 Akorinto 6:14. Patsogolo pake kambiranani mibvunzo aya:

• Ndawa chani tichadikana kulowolana na Mkhrisitu mwanzathu basi?

• Ko munkuganiza kuti Yahova achabva tani, imwepo mukasalula munthu yemwe achamukondalini iye?

 6. Onani ukwati ninge momwe Yahova achawonera

Mu nthawe za Aizirayeli amuna anango angalamba azikazi wawo ndawa ya kudzikonda. Lewengani Malaki 2:13, 14, 16, patsogolo pake kambiranani mbvunzo uyu:

• Ndawa chani Yahova achazonda kumalisa ukwati palibe chifukwa chobveka?

Wonesani VIDIYO, patsogolo pake kambiranani mbvunzo uyu.

• Peno imwepo munamunzanu wa muwukwati yemwe niwosakhulupirira, ko mungachitetani kuti mukhale na banja yabwino?

7. Phatisirani basa malangizo ya Yahova pa nkhani ya ukwati

 CHIGWATO

Kusakhala pabanja, kukhala pabanja ni mphaso yochokera kwa Yahova. Ndipo munthu angakwanise kukhala wokondwa akakhala ankutewedza mpfundo za Yahova pamoyo wake.

Kubwerezera

• Ko munthu angaphatisetani basa bwino nthawe yomwe alilini pabanja?

• Ndawa chani Baibolo ichanena kuti tichadekana kulowolana na Akhrisitu anzathu?

• Ko ni chifukwa chiponi cha m’Malemba chomwe chichabvumiza kumalisa ukwati?