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Litsini LiBhayibheli Ngekushada Nangekuhlala Ungakashadi?
Kulamanye emasiko, bantfu bakholelwa kutsi kuze ujabule kufanele ushade. Nobe kunjalo, akusibo bonkhe bantfu labashadile labajabulako njengobe kungasibo bonkhe bantfu labangakashadi labangajabuli. Liciniso likutsi liBhayibheli litsi kokubili kushada nekuhlala ungakashadi kutipho letivela kuJehova.
1. Ngutiphi letinye tinzuzo tekuhlala ungakashadi?
LiBhayibheli litsi: “Loyo loshadako wenta kahle, kodvwa loyo longashadi utawube wenta kahle kakhulu.” (Fundza 1 KubaseKhorinte 7:32, 33, 38.) Umuntfu longakashadi angenta “kahle kakhulu” ngatiphi tindlela? EmaKhristu langakashadi ete balingani lokudzingeka anakekele tidzingo tabo. Ngako, akhululekile. Sibonelo nje, lamanye ayakhona kwenta lokunyenti emsebentini waJehova, njengekutfutsela kulelinye live kuze ayoshumayela khona tindzaba letimnandzi. Ngetulu kwako konkhe, angacitsa sikhatsi lesinyenti enta tintfo letitawenta asondzele kuJehova.
2. Ngutiphi letinye tinzuzo tekushada ngalokusemtsetfweni?
Njengobe kungashadi kunetinzuzo tako, nekushada nako kunetinzuzo. LiBhayibheli litsi “bantfu lababili bancono kunamunye.” (Umshumayeli 4:9) Loko kuliciniso kakhulu kumaKhristu lasebentisa timiso teliBhayibheli emishadweni yawo. Bantfu nabashada ngalokusemtsetfweni basuke benta setsembiso sekutsi batawutsandzana, bahloniphane, futsi baphatsane kahle. Loko kubenta bative bavikeleke kwendlula bantfu labahlala ndzawonye bangakashadi, futsi nebantfwababo batawutiva bavikelekile.
3. Uyini umbono waNkulunkulu ngemshado?
Ngesikhatsi Jehova ashadisa bantfu bekucala, watsi: “Indvodza itawushiya babe wayo namake wayo inamatsele kumkayo.” (Genesisi 2:24) Jehova ufuna kutsi indvodza nemfati batsandzane futsi bahlale ndzawonye kuphila kwabo konkhe. Uvumela kutsi badivose kuphela nangabe munye wabo aphingile. Etimeni letikanjalo, Jehova uniketa lomlingani lote licala lilungelo lekuncuma kutsi uyamcolela yini nobe uyamdivosa. a (Matewu 19:9) Jehova akawavumeli emaKhristu kutsi atsatse sitsembu.—1 KuThimothi 3:2.
CHUBEKA UFUNISISA
Fundza kutsi ungajabula njani uphindze wente Jehova ajabule ngisho ushadile nobe ungakashadi.
4. Sisebentise kahle sipho sekungashadi
Jesu bekatsatsa kungashadi njengesipho. (Matewu 19:11, 12) Fundza Matewu 4:23, bese nicoca ngalombuto:
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Jesu wasisebentisa njan sipho sekungashadi kuze akhonte Babe wakhe futsi asite labanye?
EmaKhristu langakashadi angajabulela kusebentisa lesipho sawo sekungashadi njengaJesu. Dlala le-VIDEO, bese nicoca ngalombuto lolandzelako.
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EmaKhristu langakashadi angasisebentisa njani lesipho ngendlela lezuzisako?
Bewati yini?
LiBhayibheli alisho kutsi kufanele sishade sesineminyaka lemingakhi. Kunaloko, likhutsata bantfu labasha kutsi balindze kuze kwendlule sikhatsi “sekuvutselwa yinkhanuko yebusha,” lokusikhatsi lapho emandla enkhanuko angenta kube matima ngemuntfu lomusha kutsi ente tincumo letihlakaniphile.—1 KubaseKhorinte 7:36.
5. Khetsa umuntfu lotawushada naye ngekuhlakanipha
Kukhetsa umuntfu lotawushada naye kungulesinye setincumo letibaluleke kakhulu loyawuke usente. Fundza Matewu 19:4-6, 9, bese nicoca ngalombuto:
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Kungani umKhristu kungakafaneli ajake kushada?
LiBhayibheli lingakusita wati kutsi yini lokufanele uyibuke kumuntfu lofuna kushada naye. Ngetulu kwako konkhe, buka umlingani wemshado lotsandza Jehova. b Fundza 1 KubaseKhorinte 7:39 na-2 KubaseKhorinte 6:14, bese nicoca ngalemibuto:
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Kungani kufanele sishade kuphela nemKhristu lesikholwa naye?
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Ucabanga kutsi Jehova angativa njani nasishada nemuntfu longamtsandzi yena?
Nakuboshelwe tilwane letimbili letingafani, totimbili titawuhlupheka. Ngendlela lefanako, umKhristu loshada nemuntfu longamtsandzi Jehova utawuba netinkinga letinyenti
6. Bani nembono lofana newaJehova ngemshado
Ka-Israyeli wasendvulo, lamanye emadvodza adivosa bomkawo ngetizatfu tebugovu. Fundza Malakhi 2:13, 14, 16, bese nicoca ngalombuto:
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Yini leyenta Jehova ayenyanye idivosi yebantfu labehlukana ngetizatfu letingakasekelwa eBhayibhelini?
Kuphinga nekudivosa kumvisa buhlungu kakhulu umlingani wemshado longenacala kanye nebantfwana
Dlala le-VIDEO, bese nicoca ngalombuto lolandzelako.
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Yini longayenta kuze ujabule emshadweni wakho nawushade nemuntfu longamtsandzi Jehova?
7. Sebentisa timiso taJehova letimayelana nemshado
Umuntfu kungadzingeka ente imetamo kute asebentise timiso taJehova letimayelana nemshado. c Jehova uyawubusisa lometamo. Dlala le-VIDEO.
Fundza KumaHebheru 13:4, bese nicoca ngalemibuto:
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Ucabanga kutsi tikahle yini timiso taJehova letimayelana nemshado? Usho ngani?
Jehova ulindzele kutsi emaKhristu abhalise imishado nemadivosi, njengobe bohulumende emaveni lamanyenti bafuna kwentiwe njalo. Fundza KuThithusi 3:1, bese nicoca ngalombuto:
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Nangabe ushadile, uyaciniseka yini kutsi umshado wakho ubhaliswe ngalokusemtsetfweni?
LOMUNYE ANGASE AKUBUTE: “Sikhona yini sidzingo sekushada? Bantfu labatsandzanako ngeke yini sebahlale ndzawonye ngisho bangakashadi?”
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Ungaphendvula utsini?
LOKO LESICOCE NGAKO
Kushada nekuhlala ungakashadi kutipho letivela kuJehova. Kokubili bantfu labashadile nalabangakashadi bangajabula futsi benetiseke nabaphila ngekuvumelana nentsandvo yaJehova.
Yini Loyifundzile?
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Nguyiphi indlela lekahle yekusebentisa sipho sekungashadi?
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Yini leyenta LiBhayibheli litsi kufanele sishade kuphela nalabo labatsandza Jehova?
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LiBhayibheli litsi ngusiphi sizatfu lokukuphela kwaso lesingenta bantfu labashadile badivose?
LOKUNYE LONGAKUHLOLA
Kusho kutsini kushada “eNkhosini kuphela”?
“Imibuzo Evela Kubafundi” (Sicongosekulindza, saJuly 1, 2004 lesitfolakala ngesiZulu)
Bukela ema-video lamatsatfu langakusita wente tincumo letikahle endzabeni yekuganana nemshado.
Fundza kutsi yini leyenta lomunye umzalwane weva ngatsi loko Jehova lamupha kona kuligugu kakhulu kwendlula loko lokwamlahlekela.
Ngutiphi letinye tintfo umuntfu lokufanele acabange ngato ngaphambi kwekutsi adivose nobe bahlale ngekwehlukana?
Hlonipha “Loko Nkulunkulu Lakuhlanganisile” (Sicongosekulindza, saDecember 2018)
b Kulamanye emasiko, batali ngibo labakhetsela bantfwana babo bantfu labatawushada nabo. Etimeni letikanjalo, batali labanelutsandvo, ababuki kutsi loyo lotawushada nemtfwana wabo unemali yini, kodvwa babuka kutsi uyamtsandza yini Jehova.
c Nawuhlala nemuntfu longakashadi naye, kufanele utentele sincumo sekutsi uyashada naye nobe uyamshiya.
Lokunye Longatsandza Kukuhlola
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