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kalyaanam seivadhum seiyaamal iruppadhum—baibilin karutthu
sila kalaachaarangalil, kalyaanam seidhaaldhaan sandhōsham kidaikkum endru nambugiraargal. unmaiyil, kalyaanamaana ellaarumē sandhōshamaaga iruppadhum illai, kalyaanamaagaadha ellaarumē sōgatthil iruppadhum illai. kalyaanam seivadhum sari, seiyaamal iruppadhum sari, baibilinpadi irandumē oru varam!
1. kalyaanam seiyaamal iruppadhaal enna nanmaigal kidaikkindrana?
‘thirumanam seivadhu nalladhudhaan, aanaal thirumanam seiyaamal iruppadhu adhaivida nalladhu.’ (1 korindhiyar 7:32, 33, 38-ai vaasiyungal.) adhu eppadi? kalyaanamaagaadha nabargalukku thunaiyai gavanitthukkollum poruppu irukkaadhu. adhanaal, adhiga sudhandhiram irukkum. udhaaranatthukku, silaraal pudhu pudhu valigalil sēvai seiya mudigiradhu. oruvēlai, vēroru idatthukku pōi ūliyam seiya mudigiradhu. ellaavatraiyumvida mukkiyamaaga, yegōvaavidam nerungippōga avargalukku niraiya nēram kidaikkiradhu.
2. sattappadi kalyaanam seivadhaal enna nanmaigal kidaikkindrana?
kalyaanam seivadhaalum nanmaigal kidaikkindrana. “thaniyaaga iruppadhaivida irandu pēraaga sērndhiruppadhu nalladhu.” (prasangi 4:9) kurippaaga, baibil arivuraigalpadi nadakkiravargalin vishayatthil idhu rombavē unmai. sattappadi kalyaanam seigiravargal thangal bandhatthai kattikkaakkum poruppai ētrukkondu, oruvarukku oruvar anbum paasamum mariyaadhaiyum kaattugiraargal. adhanaal, kalyaanamaagaamal sērndhu vaalgiravargalaivida romba paadhugaappaaga unarugiraargal. avargaludaiya pillaigalum appadi unarugiraargal.
3. kalyaanatthai patri yegōvaa enna ninaikkiraar?
aadhaamukku yegōvaa manaiviyai kodutthapōdhu, ‘manidhan than appaavaiyum ammaavaiyum vittu than manaiviyōdu sērndhiruppaan’ endru sonnaar. (aadhiyaagamam 2:24) thambadhigal oruvarai oruvar nēsikkavum, kaalamellaam sērndhu vaalavum vēndum endru avar virumbugiraar. manatthunai dhrōgam seidhaal mattumdhaan vivaagaratthai avar anumadhikkiraar. adhēsamayatthil, vivaagaratthu seiyalaamaa vēndaamaa endru mudivedukkum urimaiyai thavaru seiyaadha thunaikku avar thandhirukkiraar. a (matthēyu 19:9) oruvanukku orutthi enbadhudhaan kristhavargalukku avar thandhirukkum sattam.—1 thīmōtthēyu 3:2.
aaraaindhu paarkkalaam!
nīngal kalyaanamaanavarō illaiyō, eppadi sandhōshamaaga vaalalaam? yegōvaavin manadhai eppadi sandhōshappadutthalaam? paarkkalaam.
4. kalyaanamaagaamal irukkum varatthai nandraaga payanpadutthikkollungal
kalyaanamaagaamal iruppadhu oru varam endru yēsu sonnaar. (matthēyu 19:11, 12) matthēyu 4:23-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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kalyaanamaagaamal irukkum varatthai yegōvaavukkum matravargalukkum sēvai seiya yēsu eppadi payanpadutthinaar?
yēsuvai pōlavē kristhavargalum, kalyaanamaagaamal irukkum sūlnilaiyai nandraaga payanpadutthikkondu sandhōshamaaga irukka mudiyum. vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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kalyaanamaagaamal irukkum sūlnilaiyai ennenna vidhangalil kristhavargal nandraaga payanpadutthikkollalaam?
ungalukku theriyumaa?
kalyaana vayadhai patri baibil solvadhillai. aanaal, “ilamai malarum paruvatthai” kadakkumvarai kaatthiruppadhu nalladhu endru solgiradhu; andha paruvatthil paaliyal unarchigal adhigamaaga irukkum enbadhaal sariyaaga yōsitthu mudiveduppadhu kashtam.—1 korindhiyar 7:36.
5. manatthunaiyai gavanamaaga thērndhedungal
thunaiyai thērndheduppadhu romba mukkiyamaana oru mudivu. matthēyu 19:4-6, 9-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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kristhavar than thunaiyai ēn avasarappattu thērndhedukka kūdaadhu?
thunaiyaaga varappōgiravaridam ennavellaam edhirpaarkka vēndum endru therindhukolla baibil ungalukku udhavum. mukkiyamaaga yegōvaavai nēsippavaraiyē thunaiyaaga thērndhedungal. b 1 korindhiyar 7:39-aiyum 2 korindhiyar 6:14-aiyum paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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naam ēn yegōvaavai vanangum oruvarai mattumē kalyaanam seiya vēndum?
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yegōvaavai nēsikkaadhavarai kalyaanam seidhaal yegōvaa enna ninaippaar?
porutthamillaadha irandu vilangugalai orē nugatthil pūttinaal irandumē kashtappadum. adhēpōl, oru kristhavar yegōvaavai vanangaadhavarai kalyaanam seidhaal niraiya prachinaigal varum
6. yegōvaavai pōl nīngalum thirumanatthukku madhippu kodungal
isravēlil irundha sila aangal suyanalatthukkaaga thangal manaiviyai vivaagaratthu seidhaargal. malkiyaa 2:13, 14, 16-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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aniyaayamaaga vivaagaratthu seivadhai yegōvaa ēn verukkiraar?
manatthunaikku dhrōgam seivadhum vivaagaratthu seivadhum, thavaru seiyaadha thunaiyaiyum pillaigalaiyum baadhikkum
vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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ungal thunai yegōvaavai vanangaadhavaraaga irundhaalum, avarōdu sandhōshamaaga vaalvadharku nīngal enna seiyalaam?
7. yegōvaavin sattangalai kadaippidiyungal
kalyaana vishayatthil yegōvaa thandhirukkum sattangalai kadaippidikka oruvar kadinamaaga muyarchi seiya vēndiyirukkalaam. c aanaal, appadi muyarchi seigiravargalai yegōvaa aasīrvadhikkiraar. vīdiyōvai paarungal.
ebireyar 13:4-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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kalyaana vishayatthil yegōvaa thandha sattangal ungalukku nyaayamaaga padugiradhaa? ēn?
kristhavargalin thirumanam alladhu vivaagaratthu sattappadi sellubadiyaaga vēndumendru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar. thītthu 3:1-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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nīngal thirumanamaanavaraaga irundhaal, ungal thirumanam sattappadi sellubadiyaagumaa? adhu ungalukku urudhiyaaga theriyumaa?
yaaraavadhu ippadi kētkalaam: “kalyaanam pannaama sērndhu vaalradhula enna thappu?”
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nīngal enna badhil solvīrgal?
surukkam
kalyaanam seivadhum sari, seiyaamal iruppadhum sari, irandumē yegōvaa thandhirukkum varamdhaan. yegōvaa solgirapadi nadandhaal irandumē sandhōshatthaiyum mananiraivaiyum tharum.
nyaabagam varugiradhaa?
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kalyaanamaagaadha oruvar thannudaiya sūlnilaiyai eppadi nandraaga payanpadutthikkollalaam?
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yegōvaavai vanangum oruvaraitthaan kalyaanam seiya vēndumendru baibil ēn solgiradhu?
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enna kaaranatthukkaaga mattumdhaan vivaagaratthu seiya mudiyum endru baibil solgiradhu?
alasi paarungal
“nam ejamaanai pinpatrugira oruvaraiyē” thirumanam seiya vēndum endraal enna?
“vaasagaridamirundhu varum kēlvigal” (kaavarkōburam, jūlai 1, 2004)
dētting sambandhamaagavum thirumanam sambandhamaagavum sariyaana mudivedukka ungalukku udhavum irandu chinna chinna vīdiyōkkalai paarungal.
yegōvaa kodutthirukkira aasīrvaadhangalai ninaitthu paarkkumpōdhu thaan vittukkoduttha vishayangal ondrumē illai endru oru sagōdharar ninaikkiraar. ēn endru paarungal.
vivaagaratthai patriyō pirindhupōvadhai patriyō mudivu seivadharkumun oruvar ennenna vishayangalai yōsitthu paarkka vēndum?
“kadavul ērpadutthiya thirumana bandhatthai madhiyungal” (kaavarkōburam, disambar 2018)
a dhrōgam nadakkaadha sūlnilaiyil pirindhu vaalalaamaa enbadhai patri pinkurippu 4-il paarungal.
b sila kalaachaarangalil, petrōrdhaan pillaigalukkaaga thunaiyai thērndhedukkiraargal. pillaigalmēl unmaiyilēyē anbu vaitthirukkum petrōr, yegōvaavai nēsippavaraitthaan mukkiyamaaga thērndheduppaargal. panatthaiyō andhasthaiyō peridhaaga ninaikka maattaargal.
c nīngal kalyaanam seiyaamal oruvarōdu sērndhu vaalndhuvandhaal, avarai kalyaanam seivadhaa alladhu pirindhupōvadhaa enbadhai nīngaldhaan mudivu seiya vēndum.
