Interest in Others

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Interest in Others

Principle: “Love . . . does not look for its own interests.”—1 Cor. 13:4, 5.

What Jesus Did

VIDEO: Jesus and the Woman at the Well

1. Watch the VIDEO, or read John 4:6-9. Then consider the following questions:

What did Jesus observe about the woman before starting a conversation?
Jesus said: “Give me a drink.” Why was this an effective way to begin the conversation?

What Do We Learn From Jesus?

2. We are more likely to have a good conversation if we start with a topic that interests the other person.

Imitate Jesus

3. Be flexible. Do not insist on starting a conversation on a topic you had in mind. Start with something that others are thinking about today. Ask yourself:

‘What is in the news?’
‘What are my neighbors, coworkers, or classmates talking about?’

4. Be observant. Ask yourself:

‘What is the person currently doing? What might he be thinking about?’
‘What do the person’s clothing, appearance, or home tell me about his beliefs or culture?’
‘Is this a good time to talk to the person?’

5. Listen.

Don’t talk too much.
Encourage the other person to express himself. When appropriate, ask questions.