Ikal Nich Chitongijok Chiwamp Piur pa Uruw Udia mu Ubaj

“Nikwet chijil kudi angachik nau angatan, chawiy cha Nsalejetu kichidiap chamam.”—1 KOR. 7:10.

OV, UKUTWISH KURUMBURIL?

Ov, mutapu ik chisend cha Nzamb cha uruw chiyiteken ambay a uruw pamwing?

Mutapu ik ukutwishau amakurump kuyikwash in Kristu akweta milong mu uruw?

Ov, mutapu ik tufanyidina kuman uruw?

1. Ov, mutapu ik umenau in Kristu uruw, ni mulong wak?

 PAKATAU in Kristu kwatijan, akat kushilamu kudi Nzamb—chisend chinech chidi cha kukwat nich usey. (Mul. 5:4-6) Mulong ndiy Musul wa ditenchik dia uruw, Yehova ‘wayibombakesha’ antu inungina mu uruw. (Mar. 10:9) Chisend chinech chidiaku ku mes kwa Nzamb chikalap nchik yijil yitakedila uruw. Atushalapol a Yehova afanyidin kuman uruw mudi ditenchik dia usey ap anch ading in kwifukwil end ap bwat pa chisu chatijanau.

2. Ov, yipul ik tukeza kushinshikin mu mutu wa mulong winou?

² Uruw Utwishikina ukutwish kulet musangar ujim. Ov, chom ik chifanyidina kusal anch uruw udia mu ubaj? Ov, uruw usotina kuyip akutwish kuukasikesh? Ov, ukwash ik udiaku anch chisambu cha uruw chidi mu ubaj?

OV, UKWIKAL WA MUSANGAR ANCH WA MAR?

3, 4. Ov, chom ik chikata kushiken anch muntu wakwat mupak uyimp pa chisu cha kumutond mbay wa uruw?

³ Kutwish kwa uruw wa mwin Kristu kukat kumusangaresh ni kumulimish Yehova. Kuyip kwa uruw, kukat kulet runeng rikash. Mwin Kristu mujich uchingejina kwatan ukutwish kusambish nawamp mwom wend wa uruw kusutil ku kulondul umutakel wa Nzamb. Ku mutambu ukwau, muntu ukwatina mupak uyimp pa chisu cha kumutond ikundj ap mband ukutwish kushiken ku kuburen musangar ni ku kutan mar. Chilakej, ansand amwing asambishining kwiyendil pa chisu chakad awiy kwikal tayad mulong wa kuwanyish yisend ya uruw. Antu amwing akat kutan mbay wa uruw usotinau kwat pa Internet ni akat kuwil mu uruw wakak kwikal ni musangar. Antu akwau asadil chitil chijim pakatau kwiyendil ni kushiken ku kwatijan, pakwez akutwish kusambish mwom wau wa uruw pakad kalimish kajim kudi umwing ni mukwau.

 ⁴ In Kristu amwing alikininga kwat ‘ching mwin Kristu’ amening yisu yivud mar ma yibudikin yisansena ya dijiku diaurikina mu ritiy. (1 Kor. 7:39) Anch udi mu mwikadil winou, mwita Nzamb dilikishin ni ukwash. Ndiy kukatap kudiosh yibudikin yiyimp ya kurumbuk kwa pasak kwa muntu, pakwez ukat kuyikwash antu akarumukina chakwel arisha nich yoziu? (Kus. 130:1-4) Sal usu chakwel muchim wey umusangaresha ndiy katat ni chikupu, ni ‘musangar wa [Yehova] ukez kwikal usu wen.’—Neh. 8:10.

ANCH URUW WASAMBISH KUSHESHIK

5. Piur pa uruw wakad musangar, ov, yitongijok ik yifanyidina kwipuk?

⁵ Antu amena mar mu uruw akutwish kusambish kulond anch: ‘Ov, chidi cha usey kukwol uruw wam wakad musangar? Anch nachirikin kusu kwinyim ni kutond kand mbay mukwau wa uruw!’ Akutwish kusot anch ajipa kwau uruw—‘O, nisotin kwikal kand ni want ipau! Mulong wak nikutwishap kwam kujip uruw? Ap anch nikutwishap kujip uruw kwambatan nich Mukand wa Nzamb, mulong wak nikutwishap kwiyauril kwam ni kusanger kand mwom?’ Pa ndond pa kutongin pa milong yiney ap kutongijokin pa yom yela kushiken, in Kristu afanyidin kusadil nawamp mwikadil wau kusutil ku kukimb umutakel wa Nzamb ni kuulondul.

6. Rumburil yalonday Yesu, mudi mwafundau mu Mateu 19:9.

⁶ Anch mwin Kristu ukimbin kujip uruw, ndiy ukutwish ap kakutwishap kulikidil Mifund chakwel atana kand. Chawiy, Yesu walonda anch: “Muntu wawonsu ukumulika mukajend wakad kusotan, wakachik kudi muntu windjing, ndiy wasotan kal; ni yend ukumwata pachimulikilau wamusot kal wakusot.” (Mat. 19:9) Pinap, “kusochik” kurumburikin kusotan ni yitil yikwau yikash ya kumanijan kwa ikundj ni mband. Chidi cha usey kutek mu malembil chitongijok chawonsu cha kujip uruw anch mbay umwing wa uruw wasadil masandj.

7. Ov, chom ik chikezau kutong antu akwau anch uruw wa mwin Kristu wafa?

⁷ Kuyip kwa uruw kukutwish kumekesh anch mwikadil wa muspiritu wa ambay a uruw uwapinap. Kambuy Paul walangwisha chipul chinech chikash: “Ov, anch muntu katwishilap kulam dijuku diend amwinend, ing, ukutwish nchik kuyilam in Chikumbu cha Nzamb?” (1 Tim. 3:5) Chawiy lel, anch ikund ni mband alondin anch adi in Kristu pakwez uruw wau ufil, antu akwau akutwish kutong anch antu inay kakatap kusadil chakin kamu yom yifundishinau.—Rom 2:21-24.

8. Ov, chom ik chikutwisha kwikal chiyimp anch ambay a uruw in Kristu akwat mupak wa kwiyauril?

⁸ Pakatau ambay a uruw abatishau kal kwitenchik mulong wa kwiyauril ap kujip uruw, pakad kwimedin pa mifund, chimeken anch chom chimwing chiwapinap  muspiritu mu mwom wau. Chimeken pamwing ap anch muntu umwing pakach pau ap awonsu aad kakatap kusadil yany ya Bibil. Anch ‘amukungamena [Yehova] nich muchim wau wawonsu,’ chinech chikutwishap kusal anch akanganya kukangesh kufa kwa uruw.—Tang Jinswir 3:5, 6.

9. Ov, in Kristu amwing atambula mutapu ik chiyukish mulong wa usu wasalau wa kushimpish muchim mu uruw?

⁹ Uruw uvud wamekana anch wading piswimp ni kufa, mu kusut kwa chisu ma uruw minam mawapa nakash. In Kristu adandamedina kusal usu mulong wa kupwish milong mu uruw amana yisu yivud yibudikin yiwamp. Tal pa yikutwisha kushiken mu dijuku diaurikina mu ritiy. Kambuy Pita wafunda anch: “Niyen amband, yiziyilany anfumwen, ap anch amwing a pakach pau kitiyinap nchik dizu dia Nzamb, ukutwishany kuyipwitany ku ritiy pakumanau yisalijok yen yiwamp. En kiukwikalanyap nich kuswir kwa kulond dizu, mulong awiy akez kuman yaku yen ya zwang ni kalimish ken.” (1 Pita 3:1, 2) Mwaning, mulong yaku yiwamp ya mbay wa uruw yikutwish kusal anch muntu wakad kwitiyij winunga ku ritiy rakin! Kukwol kwa uruw winou kumulimishin Nzamb ni kukutwish kulet chiyukish chikash kudi ikundj, kudi mband, ni kudi aan awonsu akutwishau kwikal nau.

10, 11. Ov, milong ik yakad kuchingejin yikutwisha kulank mu uruw, pakwez chom ik chikutwishay mwin Kristu kwikal nich kashinsh?

¹⁰ Nich rusot ra kumusangaresh Yehova, in Kristu avud ajich atonda ambay a uruw akaritiy ipanina kal chakwel ikala ambay nau a uruw. Pakwez, ap mwamu, mikadil yikutwish kuswimp mu mutapu wakad kuchingejin. Chilakej, yisu yimwing, mbay wa uruw ukutwish kukudish milong yikash muyovil. Ap chisu chimwing kupwa kwa uruw, mband ukutwish kwikal mwin kulejan wakad kusalang. Chilakej: Linda, a mwin Kristu ukweta mushiku ni maku wipanina, watala pakad usu wa kukwash mutapu wasambishay nfumwend ubatishinau kusal yom yiyimp pakad kukarumuk kupwa amwopata. Ov, chom ik chifanyidinay kusal mwin Kristu anch uruw wend umeken anch udi mu ubaj mulong wa diyingish dined?

¹¹ Ukutwish kwiyipul anch: ‘Ov, nifanyidin kupakish kudandamen kukwol uruw wam chikalap nchik chikutwisha kushiken?’ Kwikil muntu ukutwish ap ufanyidina kukwat mupak winou pa ndond yey. Chikwau kand, kudi mayingish makin makutwisha kusal anch udandamena kusal usu anch uruw udi mu ubaj. Ikundj ap mband umwakamina Nzamb ukat kujijaman mu yoziu ya uruw ukash mulong wa kulam kom kend ukwet usey ku mes kwa Nzamb. (Tang 1 Pita 2:19, 20.) Kusutil ku Dizu ni ku Spiritu wend, Yehova ukez kumukwash mwin Kristu usadina usu wend wawonsu mulong wa kukasikesh uruw udia mu ubaj.

ADI TAYAD MULONG WA KUKWASH

12. Ov, mutapu ik ukezau amakurump kutuman anch twakimb ukwash kudi awiy?

¹² Piukata kurish ni milong mu uruw, kangal widjidjek kukimb ukwash wa in Kristu akudila mu spiritu. Amakurump asadil mudi atufung a chisak cha amikoku ni akez kusanger kupwitin manangu mau pa chiyul chapepilau kudi Nzamb chidia mu Mukand wa Nzamb. (Mid. 20:28; Jak. 5:14, 15) Kangal walond anch ey ni mbay ney wa uruw ukuburenany kalimish kurutu kwa amakurump anch wakimbany ukwash wa muspiritu ni wisambinany piur pa mulong ukash wa uruw pamwing nau.  Akez kudandamen kukukwash pakezau kuman anch usotin nakash kumusangaresh Nzamb.

13. Ov, chiyul ik chidia mu 1 Korint 7:10-16?

¹³ Pakatau kuyit chakwel ayikwasha kudi in Kristu ashicha mu uruw pakwez adia mu marelijon kushalijan, amakurump akat kulondul chiyul cha Paul, wafunda anch: “Nikwet chijil kudi angachik nau angatan, chawiy cha Nsalejetu kichidiap chamam, mband udia ku uruw kangal walikijan nend nfumwend, bwat. Pakwez anch wadiokal ku uruw, kangal kand wachirik, ching anch wachirik kudi nfumwend. Chawiy chimwing, niyend ikundj kafanyidinap kulikijan nend mukajend. . . . Ov, ey mband mwin Kristu wij nchik anch ukez kumupandish nfumwey? Ap niyey ikundj mwin Kristu wij nchik anch ukez kumupandish mukajey?” (1 Kor. 7:10-16) Chidi chiyukish mud ik anch mbay wa uruw wakad kwitiyij amupwitin ku difukwil diakin!

14, 15. Ov, chisu ik chikutwishay mbay wa uruw kwiyauril, pakwez mulong wak kutek yom mu malembil ni kutongin nawamp kudi kwa usey?

¹⁴ Ov, mu mikadil ik mukutwishay mbay wa uruw mband mwin Kristu “kwiyauril” ni nfumwend? Antu amwing atonda kwiyauril mulong ambay nau a uruw alika kuyikwash kwa kwisotil. Akwau iyaurila mulong wa kuyimesh mar nakash ku mujimbu ap ateka mwikadil wau wa muspiritu mu ubaj.

¹⁵ Pakwez, kwiyauril ap kulik kwiyauril udi mupak wa muntu amwinend. Chawil lel, mbay wa uruw wabatishau kal ufanyidin kutek mulong winou mu malembil ni ku ushinshikin nawamp. Chilakej, ov, mbay wa uruw wakad kwitiyij wading nich chisend piur pa kuyipish mwikadil wa muspiritu, ap mwin Kristu katekap muchim pa dilejan dia Bibil, pa kukumangan pakad kujing, ni kuburen kulejan mu chingand?

16. Ov, chom ik chifanyidina kumukangesh mwin Kristu kukwat swaa mupak wa kujip uruw?

¹⁶ Mulong tukwatin nich usey urund wetu ni Nzamb ni tujikitishin mulong wa chipan chend cha uruw tufanyidin kwipuk kukwat swaa mupak piur pa kujip uruw. Etu atushalapol a Yehova, tufanyidin kubangin piur pa kushiman kwa dijin diend ditumbila. Mwaning, tukezap kukwat mupak wa kwatan pakwez tutenchikin kand uruw ukwau mu muchim wetu.—Jer. 17:9; Mal. 2:13-16.

17. Ov, mu mwikadil ik chitwishikina kulond anch Nzamb wayitazuka ambay a uruw in Kristu mu chisambu?

¹⁷ Mwin Kristu watinau kudi muntu wakad kwitiyij ufanyidin kusal usu wend wawonsu chakwel alama uruw wend. Chikwau kand, mwin Kristu kafanyidinap kwikal nich yovil ya kwifish nich, anch chikalap nchik usu usadilay mwin Kristu mulong wa kulam uruw, mbay wa uruw wakad kwitiyij ulikin kushakam ni mukaritiy. Paul wafunda anch: “Anch ngachik ap ngatan  wakad kal kumwitiyij Kristu usotil kumulik mwin Kristu mband ap ikundj, mwitiyany kwend asala mwamu. Mu chom mudi chinech ngachik ap ngatan mwin Kristu kamukasinap ku chijil cha uruu, mulong Nzamb watutazuka etu in Kristu kushakam mu chisambu.”—1 Kor. 7:15. b

MUCHINGEJINA YEHOVA

18. Ap anch chitwishikinap kupandish uruw, ov chibudikin ik chiwamp chikutwisha kudiokal ku kwikasikesh kusal mwamu?

¹⁸ Piurishina ni milong yawonsu mu uruw, mukimba Yehova chakwel akukasikesha ni muchingejina ndiy yisu yawonsu. (Tang Kuseng 27:14.) Shinshikin piur pa Linda, wisambinau kwinsambishil. Uruw wend washikena ku kufa ap anch ndiy wasala usu mu mivu yivud chakwel anch aukwola. Ov, ndiy wiyova anch washadisha chisu chamwamu? Ndiy ulondin anch: “Bwat kwau, usu nasala wapana uman uwamp kudi antu akwau. Nikala nich kom katok. Chom chiwapina nakash chidi anch, mivu yiney yamukwasha mwanetu mband chakwel imana dang mu uyakin. Ndiy wakudisha mushiku wend, ni wikala Kaman wipanina kudiay Yehova.”

19. Ov, chom ik chikutwisha kushiken anch usu wawonsu usadikin mulong wa kupandish uruw?

¹⁹ Mwin Kristu umwing watazukau anch Marilyn usanger mulong wamuchingejina Nzamb ni wasala usu nakash chakwel apandisha uruw wend. Ndiy ulondin anch: “Napakisha kwiyauril ni nfumwam mulong wading ulikin kulet nfalang ni kuwanyish maswir mam ma muspiritu. Chikwau kand, nfumwam wading mukurump kurutu asambisha kwiyandjik mu kwisak kwa mafef. Ndiy wasambisha kukangany kukumangan, ni twimika kwambamb nend. Pasambishau aterrorist kusal njit mu musumbu wetu, am nova wom, kupwa najingama mwin ndond ya amwinam. Kupwa namana anch niyam narumbuka. Twasambisha kand mambamb, dilejan dietu dia dijuku, ni twasambisha kukumangan kuyikumangan pakad kujing. Amakurump ading awamp ni atukwasha nakash. Uruw wetu wasambisha kwikal kand usu. Pa chisu chinicha, nfumwam wawanyisha kand yitinau mulong wa kwikal ni yisend mu chikumangen. Dined diading dilejan dimwing dikash nich yibudikin yisangareshina.”

20, 21. Mulong wa uruw, ov chom ik tufanyidina kusal?

²⁰ Ap anch tudi ajich ap angatan, tusalany amboku yom ni mushiku ni kumuchingejin Yehova. Anch twaman yikokujol mu uruw, tufanyidin kusal usu wa kuyipwish, ni kuvurik anch antu adia mu uruw “kadiap kand antu aad, pakwez ikal kal muntu umwing.” (Mat. 19:6) Ni ijikany anch ang twadandamen kusal usu mu chikumbu chaurikina mu ritiy chikalap nchik mar, tukutwish kuman musangar wa kumuwin mbay wa uruw chakwel inunga ku difukwil diakin.

²¹ Chikalap nchik mikadil yetu, tukutwish kusal usul wa kwend nawamp chakwel tupana uman uwamp kudi antu atumena adia pol pa chikumangen. Anch uruw wetu udi mu ubaj, lembilany nakash, shinshikinany nawamp pa yibachikin yetu, tangany mu nawamp Mukand wa Nzamb, ni kimbany ukwash wa muspiritu wa amakurump. Kupwa, salany usu wa kumusangaresh Yehova Nzamb mu yom yawonsu ni kumemesh kusanger kwetu mulong wa chipan chend chamushena cha uruw.

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In Kristu adandamedina kusal usu mu uruw udia mu ubaj amening yisu yivud yibudikin yiwamp

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Muchingejina Yehova chisu chawonsu ni kimb dikasikesh kudiay ndiy

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Yehova ukat kuyiyukish ambay a uruw asadila usu wa kukasikesh uruw udia mu ubaj

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Chikumangen cha in Kristu chikutwish kwikal musul wa dikasikesh ni ukwash wa muspiritu