KuMaría, uRaúl no-Arne, nakwabanye abaningi, umthandazo uyisipho esikhethekile. Banomuzwa wokuthi ngomthandazo, bangakwazi ukukhuluma noNkulunkulu, bambonge, bacele nosizo lwakhe. Bayaqiniseka ukuthi lokho okushiwo yiBhayibheli mayelana nokuthandaza kuNkulunkulu kuyiqiniso: “Yilokhu esiqiniseka ngakho ngaye, ukuthi noma yini esiyicelayo evumelana nentando yakhe, uyasizwa.”—1 Johane 5:14.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu abaningi bakuthola kunzima ukukukholelwa lokho okushiwo yiBhayibheli ngomthandazo. USteve uchaza indlela ayezizwa ngayo ngokuthandaza: “Lapho ngineminyaka engu-17, abangane bami abathathu bashona ezingozini ezahlukene oyedwa washona engozini yemonto, ababili baminza olwandle.” Wenzani  uSteve? Uthi: “Ukuze ngithole ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka ngathandaza kuNkulunkulu, kodwa angizange ngizithole izimpendulo. Ngazibuza ukuthi pho ngithandazelani?” Kubonakala sengathi abantu abaningi lapho imithandazo yabo ingaphendulwa, babona singekho isidingo sokuthandaza.

Kunezinye izizathu ezenza abanye babone sengathi akubasizi ukuthandaza. Abanye bathi njengoba uNkulunkulu azi zonke izinto, uyazazi kakade izidingo zethu nezinkinga zethu, ngakho asikho isidingo sokumtshela ngalezi zinto.

Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi empeleni uNkulunkulu uyenqaba ukulalela imithandazo yabo ngenxa yamaphutha abawenza esikhathini esidlule. UJenny wathi: “Inkinga yami enkulu ukuthi ngizizwa ngingelutho. Kunezinto engazenza engizisola ngazo, ngakho ngazitshela ukuthi uNkulunkulu akufanele ayilalele imithandazo yami.”

Uzizwa kanjani ngokuthandaza? Uma kuwukuthi nawe wake wazibuza ukuthi umthandazo uyasiza yini, kungakududuza ukwazi ukuthi iBhayibheli linezimpendulo ezanelisayo mayelana nomthandazo. Singakwethemba lokho iBhayibheli elishoyo mayelana nomthandazo, * lingakusiza uthole izimpendulo zale mibuzo elandelayo:

• Ingabe uNkulunkulu uyayizwa ngempela imithandazo yethu?

• Kungani eminye imithandazo ingaphendulwa?

• Ungathandaza kanjani ukuze uNkulunkulu akuzwe?

• Kungakusiza kanjani ukuthandaza?