1. Edhan adippadeiyil sila aangal thangaludeiya maneiviyeiyum pilleigaleiyum nadatthugiraargal?

THALEIMEI sthaanatthei patri nīngal enna nineikkirīrgal? Sila aangal, thangaludeiya kalaachaaratthilirundhum kudumbatthilirundhum katrukkonda vishayangalin adippadeiyil thangal maneiviyeiyum pilleigaleiyum nadatthugiraargal. Airōppaavil vaalgira Yaanittaa endra sagōdhari ippadi solgiraar: “Naan vaalra idatthula, aangalavida pengal thaalvaanavanganu makkal nineikkuraanga. Pengala verumanē vēleikkaaranga maadhiridhaan paarkkuraanga. Indha ennam avangalōda manasula aalamaa padhinjiduchu.” Amerikkavil vaalgira Lūk endra sagōdharar ippadi solgiraar: “Pengalōda karutthellaam avvalavu mukkiyam illanum, avanga solradheiyellaam kaadhula pōttukka vēndiyaadhillanum sila appaamaargal pasangalukku sollikkodukkuraanga.” Aanaal, kudumba thaleivargal thangaludeiya maneivigalei ippadi nadattha vēndumendru Yegōvaa nineikkavillei. (Maarku 7:13-ei oppidungal.) Appadiyendraal, aangal eppadi nalla kudumba thaleivargalaaga nadandhukollalaam?

2. Kudumba thaleivargal edhei therindhu vaitthirukka vēndum, ēn?

² Nalla kudumba thaleivargalaaga iruppadharku, thangalidamirundhu Yegōvaa edhei edhirpaarkkiraar endru mudhalil aangal therindhukolla vēndum. Thaleimei sthaanatthei avar ēn ērpadutthinaar endrum, indha vishayatthil avareiyum Yēsuveiyum pōl eppadi nadandhukollalaam endrum therindhukolla vēndum. Idhei therindhukolvadhu ēn mukkiyam? Ēnendraal, kudumba thaleivargalukku ōralavu adhigaaratthei Yegōvaa kodutthirukkiraar. Adhei avargal sariyaaga payanpaduttha vēndumendru edhirpaarkkiraar.—Lū. 12:48b.

3. Thaleimei sthaanatthei patri 1 Korindhiyar 11:3-ilirundhu enna therindhukolgirōm?

³ Ondru Korindhiyar 11:3-ei vaasiyungal. Paralōgatthilum bumiyilum irukkira thannudeiya kudumbatthei Yegōvaa eppadi olungupadutthiyirukkiraar enbadhei indha vasanam kaattugiradhu. Indha prabanjatthukkē Yegōvaa thaleivaraaga iruppadhaal, avarukku ellaa adhigaaramum irukkiradhu. Thaleimei sthaanam endra ērpaattin mūlam Yegōvaa silarukku ōralavu adhigaaratthei kodukkiraar. Andha adhigaaratthei petrukkondavargal, adhei eppadi payanpadutthugiraargal  enbadharku avarukku kanakku kodukka vēndum. (Rō. 14:10; Ebē. 3:14, 15) Sabeiyin mīdhu Yēsuvukku avar adhigaaram kodutthirukkiraar. Nam ovvoruvareiyum Yēsu eppadi nadatthugiraar enbadharku avar Yegōvaavukku kanakku kodukka vēndum. (1 Ko. 15:27) Maneivi Makkalin mīdhu kanavargalukku Yegōvaa adhigaaram kodutthirukkiraar. Kudumbatthei eppadi nadatthugiraargal enbadharku Yegōvaavukkum Yēsuvukkum avargal kanakku kodukka vēndum.—1 Pē. 3:7.

4. Yegōvaavukkum Yēsuvukkum enna adhigaaram irukkiradhu?

⁴ Paralōgatthilum būmiyilum irukkira kudumbangalukku Yegōvaa thaleivaraaga iruppadhaal, thannudeiya pilleigalukku sattangalei pōduvadharkum avatrei nadeimureippadutthuvadharkum avarukku adhigaaram irukkiradhu. (Ēsaa. 33:22) Sabeikku Yēsu Kristhu thaleivaraaga iruppadhaal, sattangalei pōduvadharkum avatrei nadeimureippadutthuvadharkum avarukku urimei irukkiradhu.—Galaa. 6:2; Kolō. 1:18-20.

5. Kudumba thaleivargalukku enna adhigaaram irukkiradhu, enna varambugal irukkindrana?

⁵ Yegōvaavukkum Yēsuvukkum iruppadhei pōlavē, kudumba thaleivargalukkum thangal kudumbatthukkaaga sila mudivugalei edukkira adhigaaram irukkiradhu. (Rō. 7:2; Ebē. 6:4) Aanaal, andha adhigaaratthukku varambugalum irukkindrana. Udhaaranatthukku, Baibilin adippadeiyildhaan avargal mudivugalei edukka vēndum, sattangalei pōda vēndum. (Nīdhi. 3:5, 6) Thangaludeiya kudumbatthaaraaga illaadhavargalukku sattam pōdugira adhigaaram avargalukku illei. (Rō. 14:4) Adhōdu, pilleigal valarndhu vītteivittu pōi thaniyaaga vaalndhuvandhaal, thangal appaavukku thodarndhu mariyaadhei kodutthaalum avarudeiya thaleimei sthaanatthin kīl vara maattaargal.—Mat. 19:5.

6. Thaleimei sthaanatthei ērpaadu seidhadharku enna kaaranam?

⁶ Thannudeiya kudumbatthin mēl anbu iruppadhaaldhaan thaleimei sthaanam endra ērpaattei Yegōvaa seidhirukkiraar. Idhu avaridamirundhu kideittha parisu! Indha thelivaana ērpaadu mattum illeiyendraal Yegōvaavin kudumbatthil kulappamdhaan minjum. Sandhōshamum irukkaadhu. (1 Ko. 14:33, 40) Udhaaranatthukku, yaar mudivugalei eduppaargal... Yaar avatrei seyalpadutthuvaargal... Enbadhil oru thelivu illaamal pōividum.

7. Ebēsiyar 5:25, 28-inbadi kanavargal thangal maneivigalei eppadi nadattha vēndumendru Yegōvaa solgiraar?

⁷ Thaleimei sthaanam enbadhu ivvalavu arumeiyaana ōr ērpaadaaga irundhum, indru nireiya pengal thangal kanavargalaal adakki odukkappadugiraargal. Ēn? Ēnendraal, appadippatta kanavargal Yegōvaa solvadhupōl thangal kudumbatthei nadatthaamal ullūr kalaachaaramum paarambariyamum solvadhu pōl nadatthugiraargal. Adhōdu, thangaludeiya suyanalatthukkaaga maneivigalei thavaraaga nadatthugiraargal. Udhaaranatthukku, thangalei periya aalaaga kaattikkolvadharku alladhu ‘Thaan oru aambala’ enbadhei nirūbippadharku maneivigalei adakki odukkugiraargal. Thannudeiya maneiviyei varpurutthi anbei sambaadhikka mudiyaaadhu enbadhaal, avalei bayamurutthi thannudeiya kattuppaattukkul vaikka vēndum endru oru kanavar nineikkalaam. * Ippadi yōsikkumbōdhum nadandhukollumbōdhum pengalukku kodukka vēndiyaa madhippu mariyaadheiyei ōr aan kodukkaamal pōividalaam. Pengalei ippadi nadattha vēndumendru Yegōvaa nineikkavē illei.—Ebēsiyar 5:25, 28-ei vaasiyungal.

8. Nalla kudumba thaleivargalaaga iruppadharku enna seiya vēndum?

⁸ Adhigaaratthei payanpadutthugira vishayatthil Yegōvaavei pōlavum Yēsuvei pōlavum nadandhukollumbōdhu aangal nalla kudumba thaleivargalaaga irukka mudiyum. Yegōvaavum Yēsuvum kaattugira irandu gunangalei ippōdhu paarkkalaam. Andha gunangalei kudumba thaleivargal eppadi kaattalaam endrum paarkkalaam.

9. Yegōvaa eppadi manatthaalmeiyei kaattugiraar?

⁹ Manatthaalmei. Yegōvaadhaan ellaareiyumvida  nyaanamullavar! Irundhaalum thannudeiya ūliyargal solvadhei avar kaadhukodutthu kētkiraar. (Aadhi. 18:23, 24, 32) Thannudeiya adhigaaratthin kīl iruppavargal karutthu solvadharkum idamkodukkiraar. (1 Raa. 22:19-22) Yegōvaa paribūranamaanavaraaga irundhaalum, nammidamirundhu paribūranatthei edhirpaarppadhillei. Naam nallabadiyaaaga vaalvadharku avar udhavugiraar. (Sang. 113:6, 7) Sollappōnaal, avar namakku ‘thuneiyaaga’ iruppadhaaga, adhaavadhu nammudeiya udhaviyaalaraaga iruppadhaaga, Baibil solgiradhu. (Sang. 27:9; Ebi. 13:6) Yegōvaavin manatthaalmeiyaaldhaan thannaal periya periya vēleigalei seiya mudindhadhu endru Dhaavīdhum otthukkondaar.—2 Saa. 22:36.

10. Yēsu eppadi manatthaalmeiyei kaattinaar?

¹⁰ Ippōdhu Yēsuvei patri paarkkalaam. Thannudeiya sīshargalukku avar ejamaanaraaga irundhabōdhum avargaludeiya paadhangalei kaluvinaar. Indha sambavatthei Yegōvaa padhivu seidhu vaitthadharku oru kaaranam enna? Kudumba thaleivargal utpada, naam ellaarum avaridamirundhu katrukkolla vēndum enbadharkaagatthaan! “Naan ungalukku seidhadhu pōlavē nīngalum seiya vēndum enbadharkaaga ungalukku munmaadhiri vaitthēn” endru Yēsu Sonnaar. (Yōvaa. 13:12-17) Avarukku nireiya adhigaaram irundhabōdhum matravargal thanakku sēvei seiya vēndum endru edhirpaarkkavillei. Avardhaan matravargalukku sēvei seidhaar.—Mat. 20:28.

11. Manatthaalmei kaattuvadhil kudumba thaleivargal Yegōvaavidamirundhum Yēsuvidamirundhum enna katrukkollalaam?

¹¹ Paadangal: kudumba thaleivargal nireiya valigalil manatthaalmeiyei kaattalaam. Udhaaranatthukku, thannudeiya maneiviyum pilleigalum thavarē seiya maattaargal endru avar edhirpaarkka kūdaadhu. Avargal solgira karutthu thannudeiya karutthōdu otthuppōgavillei endraalum avargal solvadhei avar kētpaar. Amerikkaavil irukkira Maarli ippadi solgiraar: “Sila samayangalla enakkum en kanavarukkum sila vishayangal otthu pōgaadhu. Aanaa, oru mudivu edukkuradhukku munnaadi avar ennōda karuttha kētpaaru. Adha patthi nallaa yōsichu paarppaaru. Ippadi seiradhunaala avar ennei madhikkiraarungradha ennaala purinjikka mudiyudhu.” Manatthaalmeiyulla oru kanavar vīttu vēleigalei sandhōshamaaga seidhu koduppaar. Appadi seivadhu pengalin vēlei endra karutthu avar vaalgira pagudhiyil irundhaalum avar appadi seivaar. Aanaal, idhu ellaa samayatthilum sulabam kideiyaadhu. Ēn? Idhei patri Rēchal enna solgiraar endru paarungal. “Enga ūrla, aambileinga paatthirattha kaluvi kodutthaavō vītta suttham senjaavō akkampakkatthula irukkiravangalum sondhakkaarangalum ‘Ivar oru aambalayaa?’nu kētpaanga. Maneiviya adakkiveikka theriyaadhavannu solluvaanga.” Ungal ūrilum idhē nileimeidhaan irukkiradhaa? Appadiyendraal, ōr adimei seiya vēndiya vēleiyei Yēsu seidhaar enbadhei, adhaavadhu sīshargalin paadhangalei avar kaluvinaar enbadhei, marandhuvidaadhīrgal.  Oru nalla kudumba thaleivar thannei patri matravargal enna nineippaargal endru yōsippadharku badhilaaga, thannudeiya maneiviyeiyum pilleigaleiyum eppadi sandhōshamaaga vaitthukkollalaam endrudhaan yōsippaar. Manatthaalmei mattumalla innoru gunamum kudumba thaleivargalukku thēvei. Adhu enna?

12. Anbu iruppadhaal Yegōvaavum Yēsuvum enna seigiraargal?

¹² Anbu. Yegōvaa enna seidhaalum adharku pinnaal iruppadhu anbudhaan! (1 Yō. 4:7, 8) Baibileiyum ameippeiyum kodutthu, avaridam nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolvadharku namakku udhavuvadhan mūlam andha anbei avar kaattugiraar. Avar nammēl vaitthirukkira anbei purindhukolvadharku udhavuvadhan mūlam nam manadhukku sandhōshattheiyum nimmadhiyeiyum tharugiraar. Ippadi, nammudeiya unarchigalei karutthil edutthukkolgiraar. Nammudeiya porulaadhaara thēveigaleiyum gavanitthukkolgiraar. ‘Nammudeiya sandhōshatthukkaaga ellaavatreiyum vaari valangugiraar.’ (1 Thī. 6:17) Naam thavarugal seiyumbōdhu nammei thirutthugiraar. Adharkaaga, anbu kaattuvadhei avar nirutthividuvadhillei. Anbu iruppadhaaldhaan namakkaaga mītpuvileiyei ērpaadu seidhaar. Yēsuvum nammīdhu alavukadandha anbu vaitthirukkiraar. Adhanaalthaan namakkaaga thannudeiya uyireiyē kodutthaar. (Yōvaa. 3:16; 15:13) Thangalukku unmeiyaaga iruppavargalmīdhu Yegōvaavum Yēsuvum kaattugira anbukku vēru yaaraalum vēru evatraalum aneipōda mudiyaaadhu.—Yōvaa. 13:1; Rō. 8:35, 38, 39.

13. Kudumba thaleivargal kudumbatthin mīdhu anbu kaattuvadhu ēn mukkiyam? (“ Pudhidhaaga kalyaanam aanavargal maneiviyin mariyaadheiyei sambaadhippadhu eppadi?” endra pettiyeiyum paarungal.)

¹³ Paadangal: Kudumba thaleivargal enna seidhaalum adharku pinnaal iruppadhu anbaagatthaan irukka vēndum! Idhu ēn mukkiyam? “Thaan paarkkira sagōdharanmēl [alladhu, kudumbatthin mēl] anbu kaattaadhavan thaan paarkkaadha Kadavul mēl anbu kaatta mudiyaaadhu” endru appōsthalan Yōvaan sonnaar. (1 Yō. 4:11, 20) Oru kudumba thaleivar thannudeiya kudumbatthei nēsitthaal, Yegōvaaveiyum Yēsuveiyum pōlavē nadandhukolla virumbinaal, idheiyellaam seivaar: (1) Kudumbatthil iruppavargal Yegōvaavōdu nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolla udhavuvaar. (2) Avargaludeiya unarchigalei karutthil edutthukkondu adharku thagundhabadi nadandhukolvaar. (3) Avargaludeiya porulaadhaara thēveigalei gavanitthukkolvaar. (1 Thī. 5:8) (4) Thannudeiya pilleigalukku payirchi koduppaar, avargalei kanditthu thirutthuvaar. (5) Yegōvaavukku pugal sērkkum vidhatthilum  kudumbatthukku prayōjanamaana vidhatthilum mudivugalei eduppadharku thodarndhu katrukkolvaar. Kudumba thaleivargal indha vishayangalei eppadi seiyalaam endru ippōdhu paarkkalaam.

14. Kudumbatthil iruppavargal Yegōvaavōdu nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolla oru kudumba thaleivar enna seiyalaam?

¹⁴ (1) Kudumbatthil iruppavargal Yegōvaavōdu nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolla udhava vēndum. Thannidam oru nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolla Yegōvaa matravargalukku udhavugiraar. Yegōvaavei pōlavē, Yēsuvum thannudeiya sīshargal Yegōvaavōdu nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolla udhavinaar. (Mat. 5:3, 6; Maar. 6:34) Adhēpōl, thannudeiya kudumbatthil iruppavargal Yegōvaavōdu nalla bandhatthei vaitthukkolla kudumba thaleivargal udhava vēndum. (Ubaa. 6:6-9) Idhudhaan avargaludeiya mukkiya kurikkōlaaga irukka vēndum! Idharkaaga enna seiya vēndum? Baibil padippadhu... kūttangalil kalandhukolvadhu... ūliyam seivadhu... Yegōvaavōdu nerungiya natpei vaitthukkolvadhu... ena ivatreiyellaam kudumba thaleivargal seiya vēndum. Kudumbatthil irukkiravargalum seigiraargalaa enbadhei urudhippadutthikkolla vēndum.

15. Kudumbatthil iruppavargalin unarchigalei purindhu nadandhukolvadhei oru kudumba thaleivar eppadi kaattalaam?

¹⁵ (2) Kudumbatthil iruppavargalin unarchigalei karutthil edutthukkondu adharku thagundhabadi nadandhukolla vēndum. Yēsumēl vaitthirundha anbei Yegōvaa velippadeiyaaga sonnaar. (Mat. 3:17) Yēsu, thannudeiya sollaalum seyalaalum than sīshargalmēl vaitthirundha anbei velippadeiyaaga kaattinaar. (Yōvaa. 15:9, 12, 13; 21:16) Sīshargalum Yēsumēl vaitthirundha anbei velippadeiyaaga kaattinaargal. Adhēpōl, kudumba thaleivargalum thangaludeiya maneiviyin mīdhum pilleigalin mīdhum vaitthirukkira anbei seyalgal mūlam kaattalaam. Adharku oru vali, avargalōdu sērndhu thavaraamal Baibil padippadhu! ‘Naan ungamēla uyireiyē vechirukkurēn. Nīngadhaan enakku ellaamē’ endru vaaivittu solvadhan mūlamum thangaludeiya anbei kaattalaam. Porutthamaana samayangalil, matravargalukku munbaagavum avargalei paaraattalaam.—Nīdhi. 31:28, 29.

16. Kudumba thaleivargal vēru enna seiya vēndum, ēn jaakkiradheiyaagavum irukka vēndum?

¹⁶ (3) Kudumbatthil iruppavargalin porulaadhaara thēveigalei kudumba thaleivargal gavanitthukkolla vēndum. Isravēlargalin thēveigalei Yegōvaa paartthukkondaar. Avargalei thandittha samayatthilkūda avargaludeiya adippadei thēveigalei seidhu kodutthaar. (Ubaa. 2:7; 29:5) Indru, nammudeiya thēveigaleiyum avar paartthukkolgiraar. (Mat. 6:31-33; 7:11) Yēsuvum thannudeiya sīshargalukku unavu kodutthaar. (Mat. 14:17-20) Avargaludeiya nōigalei gunamaakkinaar. (Mat. 4:24) Yegōvaavei sandhōshappaduttha vēndumendraal kudumba thaleivargalum thangaludeiya kudumbatthaarin thēveigalei gavanitthukkolla vēndum. Adhēsamayatthil jaakkiradheiyaagavum irukka vēndum. Kudumbatthil iruppavargal Yegōvaavōdu nalla bandhatthei valartthukkolla udhava mudiyaadhalavukku... Avargaludeiya unarchigalei purindhukolla mudiyaadhalavukku... Vēleiyilēyē mūlgivida kūdaadhu.

17. Yegōvaavum Yēsuvum namakku eppadi payirchi kodukkiraargal?

¹⁷ (4) Payirchi thara vēndum. Nammudeiya nanmeikkaaga Yegōvaa payirchi tharugiraar, nammei thirutthugiraar. (Ebi. 12:7-9) Thannudeiya appaavei pōlavē, Yēsuvum thannudeiya adhigaaratthin kīl  iruppavargalukku payirchi tharugiraar. (Yōvaa. 15:14, 15) Naam paavigalaaga iruppadhaal, thavarugal seidhuviduvōm enbadhu avarukku theriyum. (Mat. 26:41) Adhanaal, sila samayangalil kadumeiyaana aalōsaneigalei kodukkiraar. Aanaal, adhei anbōdu kodukkiraar.—Mat. 20:24-28.

18. Oru nalla kudumba thaleivar edhei manadhil vaitthiruppaar?

¹⁸ Yegōvaaveiyum Yēsuveiyum pōla nadandhukolgira oru kudumba thaleivar, kudumbatthil iruppavargal thavaru seigira iyalbullavargal enbadhei manadhil vaitthukkolvaar. Thannudeiya maneiviyidamum pilleigalidamum “Kadugaduppaaga” nadandhukolla maattaar. (Kolō. 3:19) Avarum thavaru seibavardhaan enbadhei manadhil vaitthu, Galaatthiyar 6:1-il sollappattirukkirabadi avargalei “saandhamaaga sarippaduttha” muyarchi seivaar. Thannudeiya nadattheiyin mūlam avargalukku payirchi koduppadhudhaan sirandhadhu enbadhei purindhuveitthiruppaar. Ippadi, Yēsuvei pōlavē nadandhukolvaar.—1 Pē. 2:21.

19-20. Mudivugal edukkumbōdhu oru kudumba thaleivar Yegōvaaveiyum Yēsuveiyum eppadi pinpatralaam?

¹⁹ (5) Suyanalamillaadha mudivugalei edukka vēndum. Matravargaludeiya nanmeikkaagatthaan Yegōvaa mudivugalei edukkiraar. Udhaaranatthukku, manidhargalei padeippadharku avar ēn mudivedutthaar? Avarudeiya nanmeikkaagavaa? Illei! Naam vaalkkeiyei sandhōshamaaga anubavikka vēndum enbadharkaagatthaan! Mītpuvileiyei edharkaaga kodutthaar? Yaaraavadhu avarei kattaayappadutthinaargalaa? Illei! Nammudeiya nanmeikkaaga adhei koduppadhendru avaraagavē mudivedutthaar. Yēsuvum matravargalei manadhil vaitthu mudivugalei edutthaar. (Rō. 15:3) Udhaaranatthukku, avarukku ōivu thēveippattabōdhum matravargalukku katrukkodutthaar.—Maar. 6:31-34.

²⁰ Iruppadhilēyē romba kashtamaana vishayam kudumbatthukkaaga nalla thīrmaanangal eduppadhudhaan enbadhu oru nalla kudumba thaleivarukku theriyum. Adhanaal, andha poruppei avar lēsaaga edutthukkolla maattaar. Ēnōdhaanōvendru alladhu unarchivasappattu endha mudiveiyum edukka maattaar. Valinadatthudhalukkaaga Yegōvaavei nambiyiruppaar. * (Nīdhi. 2:6, 7) Thannei patri yōsikkaamal matravargalei manadhil vaitthu mudivugalei eduppaar.—Pili. 2:4.

21. Aduttha kattureiyil edhei patri paarppōm?

²¹ Kudumba thaleivargalukku Yegōvaa kodutthirukkira poruppu savaalaanadhudhaan! Andha poruppei avargal sariyaaga seiya vēndum endru avar edhirpaarkkiraar. Illeiyendraal, avargal avarukku kanakku kodukka vēndum. Yegōvaaveiyum Yēsuveiyum pōlavē kanavargal nadandhukollumbōdhu nalla kudumba thaleivargalaaga irukka mudiyum. Maneivigalum thangaludeiya poruppei sariyaaga seiyumbōdhu kudumbam sandhōshamaaga irukkum. Appadiyendraal, thaleimei sthaanatthei maneivigal eppadi paarkka vēndum? Avargalukku ennenna savaalgal irukkalaam? Idhei patriyellaam aduttha kattureiyil paarppōm.