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Rukundo netukwasa kwehanganira abari kutwanga

Rukundo netukwasa kwehanganira abari kutwanga

‘Ebi nimbibaragira ngu mukundane. Ensi ku eribanga, mumanye ngu ekabanza kunyanga etakabangire’ —YOH 15:17, 18.

ECESHONGORO CA 129 Nitwija Kugumizamu Nitugumisiriza

EMPINYE *

1. Tukuratize ebiri omuri Matayo 24:9, abantu batwanga ahabw’enki kitashemerire kututangaza?

YEHOVA akatuhanga ngu twereke abandi rukundo kandi ngu batukunde. Obwe rero omuntu yatwanga nitushasha munonga nangwa tugira n’obwoba. Ecokureberaho: Omunyanyazi ori kwetwa Georgina, otwire omuri Buraya, akagamba ati: “Obu nabire nyine emyaka 14, mama akanyanga ahabw’okuba ndi kuhereza Yehova. Kikatuma nahurira ndi nyenka kandi natandika kutekateka ngu ni inye omuntu mubi.” * Mwenetata ori kwetwa Danylo akahandika ati: “Obu abasirikare banterire, bakanjuma, kandi bakantinatinisa ahabw’okuba ndi Omuhamya wa Yehova, nkahurira nagira obwoba bwingi kandi nahemuka.” Mazima abantu batwanga nitushasha, konka tikiri kututangaza. Yesu akaba yagambire ku baritwanga.—Shoma omuri Matayo 24:9.

2-3. Ahabw’enki ensi eri kwanga abakurasi ba Yesu?

2 Ensi neyanga abakurasi ba Yesu. Ahabw’enki? Ni ahabw’okuba, nka Yesu, ‘tituri ab’ensi.’ (Yoh 15:17-19) Ni yo nshonga tutari kuramya ab’eby’obutegeki ninga shi ngu turamye ebirango byabo. Nituramya Yehova wenka. Nitushagika Obukama bwa Ruhanga obu Sitaane n’‘oruzaro’ rweye bari kuhakanisa. (Kut 3:1-5, 15) Nituburira ku Obukama bwa Ruhanga ari bwo oburi kubasa kuturetera emigisha myingi kandi ku burije kumaraho abantu bona abari kubuhakanisa. (Dan 2:44; Kush 19:19-21) Obwo butumwa nibushemeza abantu barungi, konka bushasha abantu babi.—Zab 37:10, 11.

3 Nambwenu ensi netwanga ahabw’okuba turi kugendera aha misinge ya Ruhanga ehikirire. Eyo misinge netanira kimwe n’ey’abantu b’omuri egi nsi eyasisikire. Ecokureberaho: Abantu bingi tibari kureba ebikorwa by’obushambani ebyatumire Ruhanga yacwecereza Sodoma na Gomora nka bibi! (Yud 7) Ahabw’okuba turi korobera emisinge ya Bibuli y’eby’emicwe, abantu bingi nibatujuma kandi bagira ngu tituri kukwatanisa na bo!—1 Pet 4:3, 4.

4. Ni eha mitwarize eri kutukwasa abantu baba bari kutwanga?

4 Ni enki ekiri kubasa kutukwasa kwehangana abantu baba bari kutwanga kandi bari kutujuma? Nitwetenga kwesigira kimwe ku Yehova arije kutukwasa. Okwikiriza kwitu kuri nk’engabo ahakuba nikutukwasa ‘kurarisa emyambi y’omuriro yona y’omubi.’ (Efe 6:16) Konka nitwetenga ekiri kukira aha kwikiriza. Nitwetenga rukundo. Ahabw’enki? Ni ahabw’okuba ‘rukundo teri kurahuka kugubwa kubi.’ Neyemera byona kandi eyehanganira ebintu byona ebiri kutushasha. (1 Kor 13:4-7, 13) Reka turebe oku rukundo eyi turi kukunda Yehova, Abakristo bagenzi bitu n’abangi bitu eri kutukwasa kwehanganira abari kutwanga.

RUKUNDO EYI TURI KUKUNDA YEHOVA NETUKWASA KWEHANGANIRA ABARI KUTWANGA

5. Ni bata oku rukundo eyi Yesu ari kukunda Ishe yamukwasize?

5 Aha kiro ecabandize okufa kwa Yesu, akagambira abakurasi beye ati: ‘Nyowe nkora nk’oku Tata yandagire, ngu ensi emanye ku mukunda.’ (Yoh 14:31) Rukundo eyi Yesu ari kukunda Yehova ni yo eyamukwasize kwehanganira ebigezo ebi yabugine. N’itwe rukundo eyi turi kukunda Yehova netukwasa kwehanganira ebigezo.

6. Tukuratize ebiri omu Barooma 5:3-5, ni bata oku abahereza ba Yehova bari kwehurira n’obu ensi yakuba eri kubanga?

6 Rukundo eyi abahereza ba Yehova bari kumukunda ekaguma nebakwasa kwehanganira okuhiigwa. Ecokureberaho: Ishengero rikuru ry’Abayudaya ku ryaragirire entumwa ngu zireke kuburira, rukundo ekatuma ‘zayorobera Ruhanga okukira abantu.’ (Byak 5:29; 1 Yoh 5:3) Nambwenu eyo rukundo egumire ni yo eri kukwasa benetata na banyanyazi kuguma bahamire omuri obu bwire n’obu ab’eby’obutegeki bari kubatwariza kubi. N’obu ensi eri kutwanga, tituri kuhwamu amani, ahobwe nitugutwara nk’omugisha g’okwereka ku turi kwehangana.—Byak 5:41; shoma omu Barooma 5:3-5.

7. Ni bata oku tushemerire kutwaza abanyabuzare batuhakanisa?

7 Okugezibwa okugumire kwehanganira ni okuri kuruga aha banyabuzare bitu. Twatandika kukunda amazima, abamwe omu banyabuzare bitu nibabasa kutekateka ngu tuhabire. Abandi nibabasa kutekateka ngu twashara. (Geranisa n’ebiri omuri Mako 3:21.) Nambwenu nibabasa kutukorera ebintu bibi munonga. Ebyo tibishemerire kututangaza. Yesu akagamba ati: ‘Abazigu b’omuntu baryaba ab’omu ka yeye.’ (Mat 10:36) Abanyabuzare n’obu bakutuhiganisa, itwe tituri kubanga. Ahobwe, oku rukundo yitu eri kukizaho kukura ni ko turi kukizaho kukunda abantu. (Mat 22:37-39) Konka titurireka korobera emisinge y’omuri Bibuli ngu ni okugira ngu tushemeze abantu.

Nitubasa kubugana ebizibu ebiri kutushasha, konka Yehova naguma aturi aha rubaju kugira ngu atugumye kandi atuhumurize (Reba paragurafu ya 8-10)

8-9. Ni enki ecakwasize omunyanyazi omwe kuguma ahamire n’obu yabire ari kuhiigwa?

8 Georgina owu tubire tugambireho, akaguma ahamire obu nyina yabire ari kumuhakanisa. Georgina akashoborora ati: “Nyowe na mama tukatandika kwega Bibuli n’Abahamya ba Yehova. Bwanyima y’amezi mukaga ndi kwenda kutandika kwekwatanisa omu nterane, emitwarize yeye ekahindukira kimwe. Nkija kumanya ku ari kukorengana n’abahakani, kandi akaba nakoresa enyegesa zabo omu kumpakanisa. Nambwenu akaba nanjuma, ankurura ishoki aniga kandi anaga aheru ebitabo byange. Ku nahikize emyaka ikumi n’itano, nkabatizibwa. Mama akagezaho kunzibira kuhereza Yehova ari kunta ahantu ahu babire bari kurerera abana kandi abamwe omuri bo bakaba nibanywa ebitabura bwonko kandi bari kukora ebikorwa by’obugomi. Okuhiigwa nikukizaho kuguma kwaba kuri kuruga aha muntu oshemerire kukukunda kandi akakufaho.”

9 Ni enki ecakwasize Georgina kwehangana? Akagamba ati: “Ah’izoba eri mama yatandikire kumpiganisa, nkaba namazire kushoma Bibuli yona. Omuri obwo bwire nkatunga ekihamya ekiri kwereka ku nabona amazima kandi nkahurira nagira obunywani burungi na Yehova. Nkaba nimushaba kandi na we ampurira. Omunyanyazi omwe akanyeta omu ka yeye, rero twayegera hamwe Bibuli. Benetata na banyanyazi bakangumya aha Nju y’Obukama. Bakandeba nk’o’w’omu maka gabo. Mazima nkerebera ekihamya ekiri kwereka ku Yehova ayine amani agari kukira ag’abari kutuhakanisa, oku bakuba bari kona.”

10. Ni enki eki turi kwesiga ku Yehova Ruhanga witu arigumizamu kutukorera?

10 Entumwa Pawulo akahandika ku hatine ekintu na kimwe ekiri kubasa ‘kututanisa n’okukunda kwa Ruhanga okuri omuri Kristo Yesu Mukama witu.’ (Rom 8:38, 39) N’obu twakuba turi kuraba omu mbera zigumire, Yehova naba ari aha rubaju rwitu kugira ngu atugumye kandi atuhumurize. Kandi ecokureberaho ca Georgina nicereka ku Yehova ari kutukwasa akoresize benetata na banyanyazi b’omu kibina.

RUKUNDO EYI TURI KUKUNDA ABAKRISTO BAGENZI BITU NETUKWASA KWEHANGANIRA ABARI KUTWANGA

11. Ni bata oku rukundo eyi Yesu yagambire omuri Yohaana 15:12, 13 yakwasize abegi beye? Gamba ecokureberaho.

11 Omu kiro ecabandize okufa kwa Yesu, akijusa abegi beye kukundana. (Shoma omuri Yohaana 15:12, 13.) Akaba namanya ku rukundo erimu okweferereza yabire erije kubakwasa kuguma bine obumwe n’okwehanganira abari kubanga. Tekateka aha byahikire aha kibina c’omuri Tesalonika. Kwiha obu catandikire, benetata na banyanyazi bakaguma nibahiigwa. Konka abo benetata na banyanyazi bakaguma bari abesigwa kandi bari kukundana. (1 Tes 1:3, 6, 7) Pawulo akabahiga ngu bagume ‘beyongere’ kukundana. (1 Tes 4:9, 10) Rukundo ekatuma bagumya abahahire emitima kandi baramira abatine amani. (1 Tes 5:14) Bakakuratiza obuhabuzi bwa Pawulo, ahabw’okuba omu baruha ya kabiri eyi yabahandikire hahwire omwaka gumwe, akabagambira ati: ‘Okukunda kwa buri omwe omuri imwe oku muri kukundana ni kwingi buzima.’ (2 Tes 1:3-5) Rukundo eyi babire bari kukundana ekabakwasa kwehanganira ebizibu n’okuhiigwa.

Rukundo eyi turi kukundana netuma tweyehanganira abari kutwanga (Reba paragurafu ya 12) *

12. Ni bata oku benetata na banyanyazi bayerekire ku nibakundana omu bwire bw’orutaro?

12 Tekateka aha byahikire ahari Danylo, owu tugambireho, n’omukazi weye. Omu bwire obu etawuni yabo yabire erimu orutaro, bakagumizamu kwekwatanisa omu nterane, kukora omurimo g’okuburira oku babire bari kubasa n’okuha benetata na banyanyazi aha byokurya ebi babire bine. Izoba rimwe, abasirikare bine embunda bakatahirira eka ya Danylo. Danylo akagamba ati: “Bakangema ngu nyehakane okwikiriza kwange. Ku nayangire, bakantera kandi bayeshushaniriza nk’abari kwenda kundasha bari kutumurira amasasi ah’iguru yange. Batakagenzire, bakantinisa ngu baraze kugaruka bashambanise omukazi wange kifuba. Konka benetata bakahika bari kutuhungiza omu ndijo tawuni bakoresize gari ya moshi. Tindiyebwa rukundo eyi abo benetata banyerekire. Kandi ku twahikire omuri eyo tawuni, benetata abatwireyo bakatuha ebyokurya kandi batukwasa kubona omurimo n’ah’okutura! Ebyo bikatuma twabasa kuha ah’okutura abandi benetata na banyanyazi ababire bari kuhunga orutaro.” Ebyokureberaho nk’ebi nibitwereka ku rukundo eyi turi kukundana eri kutukwasa kwehanganira abari kutwanga.

RUKUNDO EYI TURI KUKUNDA ABANGI BITU NETUKWASA KWEHANGANIRA ABARI KUTWANGA

13. Ni bata oku omwika oguri kwera guri kutukwasa kwehangana n’obu abantu bakuba bari kutwanga?

13 Yesu akagambira abakurasi beye ngu bakunde abangi babo. (Mat 5:44, 45) Mbwenu shi eco corobi? Ingaha mazima! Konka nikibasika ahabw’omwika oguri kwera. Ebyana by’omwika oguri kwera harimu, rukundo, okwehangana, embabazi, okutwaza ge, n’okwerinda. (Gal 5:22, 23) Eyo mitwarize netukwasa kwehanganira abari kutwanga. Abantu bingi abari kutuhakanisa bakahindura oku bari kutwaza ahabw’okureba emitwarize mirungi y’abashija babo b’Abakristo, abakazi babo, abana babo, n’abatahi. Abingi omu babire bari kutuhakanisa bakahinduka baba benetata na banyanyazi abu turi kukunda. Obwe rero caba kiri kukugumira kukunda abari kukwanga ahabw’okuba ori kuhereza Yehova, omushabe omwika gweye oguri kwera. (Luk 11:13) Kandi ogume oyesige otari kubanganisa ku emitwarize ya Ruhanga eri kutuura eri mirungi.—Enf 3:5-7.

14-15. Ni bata oku ebiri omu Barooma 12:17-21 byakwasize Yasmeen kwereka omushija weye rukundo n’obu yabire ari kumuhiganisa?

14 Tekateka aha cokureberaho c’omunyanyazi ori kwetwa Yasmeen. Ku yabire Omuhamya wa Yehova, omushija weye akatekateka ngu ahabire, rero yagezaho kumuremesa kuhereza Ruhanga. Akamujuma kandi yagambira abanyabuzare, pasita hamwe n’omufumu ngu bamutinatinise kandi yamugira ngu nayenda kushenya eka. Omushija weye akajuma benetata bari omu nterane. Ebyo bikaba nibituma Yasmeen yatura ari kurira ahakuba akaba natwarizibwa kubi.

15 Obu Yasmeen yabire ari aha Nju y’Obukama benetata na banyanyazi bakaba nibamugumya, bamugaruramu amani kandi bamuhumuriza. Abazehe bakamushaba kuta omu nkora ebigambo ebiri omu Barooma 12:17-21. (Hashome.) Yasmeen akagamba ati. “Mazima kikaba kigumire, konka nkashaba Yehova ngu ankwase nte omu nkora ebi Bibuli eri kugamba. Obwe rero, omushija wange ku yabire nashisha omu ifumbiro nkaba nimpaboneza kandi ku yabire nangambira kubi nkaba nimugarukamu ge. Nambwenu ku yabire ari kurwara nkaba nimufaho.”

Ku turi kwereka rukundo abari kutuhiganisa, nikituma bahindura oku babire bari kututwariza (Reba paragurafu ya 16-17) *

16-17. Ni enki eki wayegera aha cokureberaho ca Yasmeen?

16 Yasmeen akatunga ebihembo ahabw’okuguma ari kwereka rukundo omushija weye. Akagamba ati: “Omushija wange akatandika kunyesiga ahakuba akaba namanya ku burijo ndi kumugambira amazima. Akatandika kumpurikiza ge twaba turi kuganira aha bintu by’edini, kandi akaretaho obusinge omu ka. Hati nangambira ngu ngume nyekwatanise omu nterane. Tukakizaho kugira obunywani burungi kandi twine obusinge. Nyine amasiko ku omushija wange arije kwigura omutima gweye akakunda amazima, kandi akekwatanisa nanye omu kuhereza Yehova.”

17 Ecokureberaho ca Yasmeen nicereka ku rukundo ‘eri kwikiriza byona, ekagira amasiko ahari byona, kandi ekagumisiriza byona.’ (1 Kor 13:4, 7) Rwango eyine amani kandi neshasha, konka rukundo yo eyine amani mingi. Nebasa kutuma abantu bahindura oku babire nibatutwariza, kandi etuma Yehova yashemererwa. N’obu abari kutuhakanisa bakugumizamu kutwanga, nabwo nituguma tushemerirwe. Bata?

NITUGUMA TUSHEMERIRWE N’OBU BAKUBA BARI KUTWANGA

18. Ni ziha nshonga eziri kutuma twashemererwa n’obu abantu bakuba bari kutwanga?

18 Yesu akagamba ati: ‘Mwine omugisha abantu ku barabange.’ (Luk 6:22) Nituba tutari kwenda ngu abantu batwange. Kandi batuhiganisa ahabw’okwikiriza kwitu tituri kushemererwa. Mbwenu shi ni ziha nshonga eziri kutuma twashemererwa n’obu abantu bakuba bari kutwanga? Enshonga y’okubanza: Ku turi kwehangana nitushemeza Ruhanga. (1 Pet 4:13, 14) Enshonga ya kabiri: Okwikiriza kwitu nikuba okw’amazima kandi kuhama. (1 Pet 1:7) Enshonga ya kashatu: Nitwija kutunga ekiconco c’amagara agatahwaho.—Rom 2:6, 7.

19. Ahabw’enki entumwa zagumire zishemerirwe bwanyima y’okuterwa enkoni?

19 Hahwireho obwire buce Yesu azokire, entumwa zikatunga okushemererwa oku Yesu yabire ari kumanyisa. Ku zamazire kuterwa kandi bakaziragira ngu zireke kuburira, zikashemererwa. Ahabw’enki? ‘Ni ahabw’okuhebwa ekitinisa ec’okuhemurwa niziturwa izina rya Yesu.’ (Byak 5:40-42) Bakaba nibakunda Mukama wabo kukira oku babire nibatina abangi babo. Kandi bakereka rukundo yabo ‘batari kureka’ kuburira obutumwa burungi. Benetata bingi omuri obu bwire nibagumizamu kuhereza Yehova bari abesigwa n’obu bari kubugana ebizibu. Nibamanya ku Yehova atarije kwebwa emirimo eyi bari kumukorera, na rukundo eyi bari kwereka izina ryeye.—Heb 6:10.

20. Ni enki eki turishwijuma omu kicweka ekiri kukurataho?

20 Ensi eryagumizamu kutwanga kuhisa aha muheru gwayo. (Yoh 15:19) Konka titushemerire kutina. Nk’oku turije kukireba omu kicweka ekiri kukurataho, Yehova aryagumya abahereza beye kandi abarinde. (2 Tes 3:3) Obwe rero, ni mureke tugumizemu kukunda Yehova, tukunde benetata na banyanyazi, kandi tukunde abangi bitu. Ku turakuratize obwo buhabuzi, nitwija kuguma twine obumwe, okwikiriza kwitu kukizeho kuhama, kandi twereke ku rukundo eri kukirira kimwe rwango.

ECESHONGORO CA 106 Okugira Omutwarize gwa Rukundo

^ par. 5 Omuri eki kicweka, twaza kureba oku rukundo eyi turi kukunda Yehova, Abakristo bagenzi bitu n’abangi bitu eri kutukwasa kwehanganira abari kutwanga. Nambwenu twaza kureba enshonga ahabw’enki Yesu yagambire ngu nitubasa kushemererwa n’obu bakuba bari kutwanga.

^ par. 1 Amazina gakahindurwa.

^ par. 58 EKISHUSHANI: Abasirikare ku bamara kutinatinisa Danylo, benetata bamukwasa n’omukazi weye bari kubahungiza omu ndijo tawuni, kandi babakira bashemerirwe.

^ par. 60 EKISHUSHANI: Omushija wa Yasmeen akamuhakanisa, konka abazehe bakamuha obuhabuzi burungi. Akereka ku ari omukazi murungi ari kumukorera ebirungi kandi yamufaho obu yabire arwire.