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Ov, Uyikwatin Amband Mud Muyikwatinau Kud Yehova?

Ov, Uyikwatin Amband Mud Muyikwatinau Kud Yehova?

TUKWET katok ka kusal mudimu pamwing nau amband ashinshamena. Tumusangaredin ni tumukatin umwing ni umwing wa amband inay ashinshamean ni asadina mudimu ukash! a Chawiy akadivar, yisadinany amboku nich rukat, pakad kasolikany, nich kalimish. Mulong tud antu akad kuwanyin, chikutwish kutukasiken kusal mwamu. Akadivar amwing arishin ni chikokujol chikwau.

Amwing apamina ku jindond kuyikwatiningau amband mud antu a mwinshin. Chilakej, Mukadivar Hans uda kalam wa munyingumuku mu Bolivi ulondin anch: “Amakundj amwing ayilidina mu yishankur yiyikasikeshining amakundj kwikwat nich usey nakash. b Amakundj inay ikwatining anch ad a usey nakash kuyisutamu amband ni yisu yivud akat kuyisadinang mu mutapu wakad kalimish” Shengxian uda mukurump mu Tayiwan, ulondin anch: “Kwi ndond nishicha, amakundj avud itiyining anch amband kafanyidinap kupan chitongijoku mu yom yau yisadinau. Anch muntu ikundj walejan chitongijok cha muntu mband, akat kumukwat mud chisup.” Amakundj akwau akat kuyimekeshinang amband kasolikany mu mitapu yikwau. Chilakej, akutwish kusal maswimbu mamwing mayipipejina amband.

Musangar ud anch, kwikil muntu ulamatining kamu ku yishankur yapamay nich. Ukutwish kupandakan chitongijok chakwel anch amakundj ad a piur kusutamu amband. (Efes 4:22-24) Ukutwish kusal mwamu anch wimburij chilakej cha Yehova. Mu mutu wa mulong winou tukwisambin piur pa mutapu Yehova uyimeningay amband, mutapu ukutwishau akadivar kwilej kuyiman amband mud muyimenau kud Yehova, ni mutapu ukutwishau amakurump kusha chilakej mu kuyilimish anambaz.

MUTAPU IK UYIMENINGAY YEHOVA AMBAND?

Yehova ushil chilakej chiwamp nakash mu mutapu uyimeningay amband. Ud Tatuku wa ranaken uyikatina anend awonsu. (Yoh. 3:16) Ni anambaz ashinshamena ad mud anend amband akweta usey nakash. Shinshikin mu mitapu kushalijan yikatay Yehova kuyilimish amband.

Ukat kuyisadin pakad kasolikany. Yehova wayitanga amakundj nau amband mu chifu chend. (Dis. 1:27) Kayinkishap amakundj manangu nakash ap ukaliweny kuyisutamu amband. (2 Js. 19:7) Wayitanga awonsu nich mutapu umwing wa kutesh nawamp uyakin wa mu Bibil ni kumekesh mikadil yend yiwamp. Yehova ukwatining kand mutapu umwing ritiy ra amakundj nau amband​—chikalap nchik ruchingej rau rid ra kushakam chikupu mu paradis pa divu ap ra kusadin mwiur mud ant ni anzuj. (2 Pita 1:1) Chakin kamu, Yehova kakwetap kasolikany pantaliken ni amband.

Ukat kuyitesh. Yehova ubangidining yovil ni milong yirishinau nich amband. Chilakej, watesha ni kwakul ku malembil ma Rechel ni Ana. (Dis. 30:22; 1 Sam. 1:10, 11, 19, 20) Yehova wayipepila kand in kufund Bibil chakwel afunda jinsangu ja antu ayitesha amband. Chilakej, Aburaham walondula mbil yamwinkishau kud Yehova ya kumutesh mukajend Sara. (Dis. 21:12-14) Mwant David wamutesha Abigayil. Wajingunina anch Yehova wamutuma mband winou mulong wa kwambamb nend. (1 Sam. 25:32-35) Yesu, muntu wimburijang nawamp nakash mikadil ya Tatukwend, niyend wamutesha makwend Mariy. (Yoh. 2:3-10) Yilakej yiney yimekeshin patok anch mutapu umwing ukatay Yehova kuyilimish amband ud kusutin kuyitesh.

Ukat kuyichingejin. Chilakej, Yehova wamuchingejina Ev mulong wa kukwash kulam divu. (Dis. 1:28) Kusutin kusal mwamu, Yehova wamekesha anch kamukwatinap Ev mud ud mwinshin mwa nfumwend Adam, pakwez mud nkwash wend umuwanyidina. Yehova wamuchingejina kand muprofet Debora ni Hulida anch akuyibabesh antwend, kuwejinaku nzuj ni mwant. (Ank. 4:4-9; 2 Ant 22:14-20) Nlel Yehova uyichingejidin amband in Kristu mulong wa kusal mudimu wend. Anambaz inay ashinshamena akat kusal mud in kulejan, ayibol, ni amishoner. Akat kukwash mu mudimu wa kutung, ni kutenchik Yot ya Want ni yikumbu ya mutiy. Amwing pakach pau akat kusadin ku Betel; akwau ku mabiro ma kukarumwin. Anambaz inay ad mud amasalay asadinay Yehova mulong wa kuwanyish rusot rend. Kus. 68:12) Chakin kamu, Yehova kakatap kuyiman amband mud ayisup.

MUTAPU IK UKUTWISHAU AKADIVAR KWILEJ KUYIMAN AMBAND MUD MUYIMENAU KUD YEHOVA?

Akadivar, mulong wakuman anch tuyimen anambaz in Kristu mud muyimenau kud Yehova, tufanyidin kushinshikin nich win kashinsh yitongijok yetu ni yisal yetu. Mulong wa kusal mwamu, tuswirikedin ukwash. Dokter ukutwish kusadin aparey kampand mulong wa kujingunin anch muchim wa muntu uyedin ap ud ukash. Chilik chimwing, murund muwamp ni Dizu da Nzamb yikutwish kutukwash kujingunin anch mutapu tuyimena amband umusangareshin Yehova ap bwat. Chom ik tukutwisha kusal mulong wa kutambul ukwash winou?

Mwipula murund muwamp. (Jnsw. 18:17) Chid cha usey kumwipul murund wakuchingejin wijikena mud muntu wa rukat ni wisikena ni mwipula yipul mud: “Kukwatijan niyey, mutapu ik niyisadidining anambaz? Ov, atongining anch niyilimishing? Ov, kud chom nikutwisha kusal mulong wa kuyisadin mu mutapu upandakena kuwap?” Anch murund ney wakulej chom ufanyidina kuwapish, ipuk kwiyingish nich. Pakwez sal usu wa kuswimp.

Ileja Dizu da Nzamb. Mutapu uwamp tukutwisha kwijik anch tuyisadidin anambaz mu mutapu uwamp ud wa kusadin Dizu da Nzamb mulong wa kushinshikin mwikadil ni yisal yetu. (Heb. 4:12) Anch twilej Bibil, tukujingunin jinsangu ja amakundj ayisadina amband mu mutapu uwamp ni ja akwau alika kusal mwamu. Kupwa tukutwish kwilakej yisal yau ni yetwetu. Chikwau kand, kufanakesh ma verse mavud ma Bibil kukutukwash kwipuk kusadin mifund yimwing mulong wa kukasikesh chitongijok chiyimp tukweta pantaliken nau amband. Chilakej, kukwatijan ni 1 Pita 3:7, Bibil ulondin piur pa amband anch “yilimishany mulong awiy kakwetap usu mudi amakundj.” c Ov, chinech chirumburikin anch mband ud mwinshin​—kakwetap manangu ap kakutwishap kusal yom—​mud ikundj? Chidap kamu mwamu! Ilakej mazu ma Pita ni yom tutangina mu Galatiya 3:26-29, umekeshina anch Yehova wayitonda amband ni amakuny mulong wa kuyikel pamwing ni Yesu mwiur. Anch twilej Dizu da Nzamb ni twamwipul murund muwamp chakwel atulej chitongijok chend piur pa mutapu tuyisadidina amband, tukutwish kwilej kuyimekeshin anambaz netu kalimish kawanyidina.

MUTAPU IK UKUTWISHAU AMAKURUMP KUYIMEKESHIN ANAMBAZ KALIMISH?

Akadivar mu chikumangen akutwish niyau kwilej mutapu wa kuyisadin anambaz nich kalimish anch alondul chilakej cha amakurump a rukat. Mutapu ik ushilau amakurump chilakej chiwamp mu kuyimekeshin anambaz kalimish? Shinshikin mitapu yimwing.

Akat kuyijikitish anambaz. Kambuy Paul wayishila amakurump chilakej chiwamp cha kwimburij. Wayijikitisha patok anambaz avud mu mukand wafunday ku chikumangen cha Rom. (Rom 16:12) Ov, ukutwish kutongin musangar wovau anambaz inay chisu chatangau mukand wa Paul mu chikumangen? Mutapu wawiy umwing kand, amakurump akat kuyijikitish anambaz mulong wa mikadil yau yiwamp ni mulong wa mudimu umusadidinau Yehova. Kusal mwamu kukat kuyikwash anambaz kuman mutapu uyilimishinau ni kuyisangarel. Mazu makasikeshina ma mukurump mawiy makutwishau anambaz kuswiriken padandamedinau kumusadin Yehova nich kushinshaman.​—Jnsw. 15:23.

Kujikitish

Chisu chiyijikitishinau anambaz, amakurump afanyidin kwikal in kashinsh mu mazu mau ni kuyilej yiyijikitishidinau. Mulong wak? Nambaz Jessica ulondin anch: “Chiding chiwamp anch mukadivar wamwel nambaz anch ‘wajikit nakash.’ Pakwez tusangering nakash anch mukadivar watujikitish mulong wa chom cha pakampwil, mud kuyifundish anetu kulik kulet masok ku yikumangan ap anch mulong twasadinang chisu chetu mulong wa kumusend mwin kwilej wetu kuya nend ku yikumangan.” Anch amakurump ayijikitish anambaz mulong wa chom cha pakampwil, akuyikwash anambaz kuman anch ayiswirikedin ni akwet usey mu chikumangen.

Akat kuyitesh anambaz. Amakurump ikepishina itiyining anch kadap ching kusu awiy akweta yitongijok yiwamp. Amakurump mud inay akat kuyilej anambaz kulet yitongijok yau ni akat kuyitesh nich nkeu chisu chilondinau. Kusutin kusal mwamu, amakurump akat kuyikasikesh anambaz ni akat kutaninamu ayinau. Mutapu ik? Gerardo, mukurump umwing usadidina ku Betel, ulondin anch: “Kuyit anambaz yitongijok kukat kwinkwash kusal nawamp mudimu wam. Amwing asala kal mudimu mu chisu chilemp kusutamu akadivar.” Mu yikumangen, anambaz avud asadin mud ayibol, chawiy ij yom yivud piur pa antu ada kwi ndond yishichau. Mukurump umwing utazukinau anch Bryan ulondin anch: “Anambaz netu akutwish kusal yom yivud mu dirijek. Chawiy sal usu wa kutaninamu mu ukaliweny wau!”

Kutesh

Amakurump akweta ukaliweny kakatap kudiul kapamp kamwing yitongijok ya anambaz. Mulong wak? Mukurump umwing utazukina anch Edward ulondin anch: “Chitongijok ni ukaliweny wa nambaz yikutwish kumukwash mukadivar kutesh nawamp mulong, ni kumukwash kukudish ranaken.” (Jnsw. 1:5) Ap anch mukurump kakusadinap chitongijok cha nambaz, ukutwish kumujikitish mulong wa chitongijok chend ni ukaliweny wend.

Akat kuyifumb anambaz. Amakurump akweta ukaliweny wa kujingunin akat kukimb mitapu ya kuyifumb anambaz. Chilakej, akutwish kuyifundish anambaz mutapu wa kutakel chikumangan cha mudimu wa kulejan anch kwikil mukadivar wabatishinau kal. Akutwish kuyifumb kusadin yamu ap ma mashin mamwing mulong wa kurijek yom ya uteokras ni kukwash mu mudimu wa kutung. Ku Betel, Antakel akat kuyifumb anambaz mulong wa kuwanyish yisend kushalijan, mud kurijek yom, kuland yom, kuchind nfalang, informatik, ni yom yikwau. Anch amakurump ayifumb anambaz akat kumekesh anch ad a usey ni akuchingejin.

Kufumb

Anambaz avud akat kusadin kufumb kutambwilau kud amakurump mulong wa kuyikwash nich antu akwau. Chilakej, anambaz amwing akat kusadin kufumb kutambwilau mu mudimu wa kutung mulong wa kuyikwash antu akwau kutung yikumbu yisheshikina kupwa kwar mar ma yom yatangau. Anambaz akwau akat kusadin ukaliweny wijau wa kupan uman pa ndond ya antu avud mulong wa kuyifumb akwau mu mulad winou wa kulejan. Mutapu ik ukatau kwiyov anambaz piur pa amakurump ayifumbina? Nambaz Jennifer ulondin anch: “Chisu nasala mu proje wa kutung Chot cha Want, ntakel witekina chisu cha kwinfumb. Wamana mudimu nasala, ni wanjikitisha mulong wa mudimu winou. Nakata kusal pamwing ni ndiy mulong niyova anch winkwatin nich usey ni winchingejidin.”

SAL USU WA KUTANINAMU MU KUFUMB KWA ANAMBAZ A MUCHIKUMANGEN CHETU

Tuyikatin anambaz netu inay ashinshamena mud muyikatinau ku Yehova! Chawiy tuyikwatin mud antu a dijuku dietu. (1 Tim. 5:1, 2) Tuyilimishin ni tukwet musangar wa kusal nau pamwing. Ni tusanger kand nakash anch ijik anch tuyikatin ni tuyikwashin. Nambaz Vanessa ulondin anch: “Nimujikitishin Yehova mulong wa kwikal mu dirijek diend, dizwila nau akadivar akata kwinkasikesh nakash.” Nambaz umwing uda mu Tayiwan ulondin anch: “Nimujikitishin Yehova nakash mulong Ndiy ni dirijek diend ayikwatin amband nich usey nakash ni kuyilimish. Chinech chikat kukasikesh ritiy ram ni kwinsal anch nikal mwin kujikitish nakash mulong wa dilau nikweta dia kwikal mu dirijek da Yehova.”

Yehova ukat kwov musangar nakash anch waman mwin Kristu ushinshamena ukat kusal usu wa kuyiman amband mud muyimenay ndiy. (Jnsw. 27:11) Benjamin uda mukurump mu Skotiland ulondin anch: “Mu mangand ma nlel amakundj avud kayikwatiningap amband nich usey. Chawiy anch anambaz netu ad ku Chot cha Want, tufanyidin kusal iyova anch tuyilimishin ni tuyikatin.” Tusalany amboku etu awonsu usu wa kumwimbuij Yehova mu kuyisadin anambaz netu akatish nich rukat ni kalimish kayiwanyidina.​—Rom 12:10.

a Mu mutu wa mulong winou, mazu “anambaz” mamekeshin anambaz in Kristu kadap amband awonsu.

b Mazu “macho,” ap “machismo,” mamekeshin amakundj akweta yovil yipandakena ya chibud yimekeshina usu ukwetay ikundj. Amakundj inay akat kutumbish yitongijok yau ya amakundj ni akat kupipesh amband.

c Mulong wa kwijik yom yivud piur pa mazu “Chom chiziyina,” tal mitu ya milong yilondina anch “La valeur d’“ un vase plus faible’” mu Chinong cha Kalam cha 15 Ngond wa 5, 2006, ni “De sages conseils pour les couples” mu Chinong cha Kalam cha, 1 Ngond wa 3, 2005.