“Hari abanyeshure bamwebamwe usanga biyicariye mw’ishure ata n’amakaye canke ibitabu bafise, bariko biyumviririza umuziki umwigisha ariko arigisha. Kandi abo banyeshure baribaza igituma bananirwa. Ariko hari abandi bameze nkanje biga uko bashoboye kwose, yamara bakaronka amanota mabi. Mvugishije ukuri, simbona igituma ivyo bintu bishika. Birambabaza kuronka amanota mabi igihe mba namaze indwi yose niga kandi nkaza ndaryama bwije.”​—Yolanda.

 Woba umaze kwibaza nka Yolanda? Tuvugishije ukuri, kuronka amanota mabi birashobora gutuma ucika intege.

 Abakiri bato bamwebamwe bananirwa kw’ishure boshobora kwumva umengo bohagarika kugira utwigoro ngo baronke amanota meza. Abandi boshobora guheba ishure. Naho wumva umengo wogerageza ubwo buryo bwompi, hariho ikindi kintu wokora. Raba ibintu bitanu wokora kugira uronke amanota meza.

•  Ivyo wokora

•  Ivyo urunganwe rwawe ruvuga

•   Nutonde imisi yose. Woshobora kwibwira uti: “Ivyo nta wutabizi.” Ariko uko usiba cane ni ko uzoronka amanota make.

   “Kw’ishure nigako, abanyeshure batitaho kuronka amanota meza ni bo bama basiba, kandi ivyo nta co bibamarira.”​—Matthew.

   Ingingo ngenderwako: “Ico umuntu abiba cose [ni] co nyene azokwimbura.”​—Abagalatiya 6:7.

•   Nukurikire buri cigwa uko ushoboye kwose. Gutonda ni vyiza ariko urakeneye no gukurikira icigwa kimwekimwe cose. Niwimure ivyigwa vyose. Nugerageze gukurikira umwigisha ariko arigisha. Nimba vyemewe, nubaze ibibazo akiriko arigisha.

   “Igihe tuba turiko turiga, ndabaza ibibazo vyinshi kubera nasanze umwigisha asigura neza kuruta igihe azi yuko hari umunyeshure atabitahura neza.”​—Olivia.

   Ingingo ngenderwako: “Mwitwararike ukuntu mwumviriza.”​—Luka 8:18.

•   Niwirinde gutirisha. Gutirisha ni ugukora amanyanga. Hari uburyo bwinshi bwo gutirisha kw’ishure. Uburyo bumwe ni ukwimura ivyo uwundi yakoze. Kurabira ku wundi si amanyanga gusa, ariko kandi bituma utamenya ibintu.

   “Igihe hari ivyo udatahura, ntiwigere wimura ivyo abandi bikoreye. Gutirisha nta na kimwe bikumarira. Ntivyigera bikwigisha kwironderera umuti w’ingorane, ahubwo bikumenyereza kwitega ivy’abandi.”​—Jonathan.

   Ingingo ngenderwako: “Umwe wese yerekane ico igikorwa ciwe bwite kimaze, ni ho azogira imvo yo kwirata ku bimuraba ubwiwe wenyene.”​—Abagalatiya 6:4.

•   Nukore udukorwa two kw’ishure twose uhabwa. Nimba bishoboka, nukore udukorwa two kw’ishure imbere y’ibindi bintu canecane nk’ibijanye no kwisamaza. a Niwabigira ukwo, uzoryoherwa n’ako kanya ufashe ko kuruhuka.

   “Nakora udukorwa two kw’ishure imbere y’ibindi bintu kandi vyaramfashije kuronka amanota meza. Ntashe i muhira, akenshi narumva nshaka kuruhuka canke kwumviriza umuziki. Ariko naragerageje gutangura gukora udukorwa two kw’ishure hanyuma nkaruhuka.​—Calvin.

   Ingingo ngenderwako: “Mwiyemeze neza ibihambaye kuruta ibindi ivyo ari vyo.”​—Abafilipi 1:10.

•   Nurondere uwogufasha. Ntuterwe isoni no kwemera ko abandi bagufasha. Niwegere abavyeyi bawe bagufashe. Nubaze umwigisha wawe ukuntu woronka amanota meza. Rimwe na rimwe woshobora gusaba umwigisha canke uwundi munyeshure abizi agusigurire.

   “Niwegere umwigisha umusabe agusigurire yongere akubwire ico wokora kugira uronke amanota meza. Nta gukeka ko umwigisha azokorwa ku mutima no kuba wipfuza kumenya kandi azogufasha.”​—David.

   Ingingo ngenderwako: “Mu bajanama indiri haragira igishitsweko.”​—Imigani 15:22.