ilainyar kētkindranar . . .

en manasil iruppadhai eppadi avaridam solvēn?

“‘unnai kaadhalikkirēn’ endru yaar mudhalil solla vēndum, aanaa? pennaa? indha kēlvikku badhil kidaikkumaa?—laaraa. a

avarai nīngal samībatthil sandhitthirukkalaam alladhu konja kaalamaagavē avarai ungalukku therindhirukkalaam. avarai jast oru frendaaga nīngal ninaippadhillai. adharkum mēlaaga, avarudan nerungi palaga virumbugirīrgal. avarukkum adhē aasai irukkiradhendru nambugirīrgal. avar vetkappaduvadhaal solvadharku kūchappaduvadhaaga ninaikkirīrgal. adhanaal nīngalē mudhalil pōi avaridam pēsa ninaikkirīrgal. aanaal adhu sariyaaga irukkumaa endru theriyaamal kulambugirīrgal. b

mudhalil ungal kudumbatthaarudaiya unarchigalaiyum sutriyullavargaludaiya unarchigalaiyum yōsitthu paarkkalaam. udhaaranatthirku, petrōr paartthu kalyaanam seidhu vaippadhudhaan nīngal vasikkum idatthil valakkamaa? c unmaidhaan, kaadhal, kalyaanam idhellaam sondha vishayam endru nīngal ninaikkalaam. aanaalum, kristhavargal matravargaludaiya unarchigalai anaavasiyamaaga punpadutthaamalirukkavē muyarchi seigiraargal. adhōdu kudumbatthinarin unarchigalaiyum anbaanavargalin unarchigalaiyum avargal madhikka virumbugiraargal.

endraalum kalyaanam seidhukolvadharku mun aanum pennum pēsi palagi paarppadhu indru anēga naadugalil romba sagajam. appadiyaanaal, aanidam pen mudhalil than kaadhalai sollalaamaa? ingu marubadiyum kudumbatthinar matrum samudhaayatthinarin unarchigal mugamkaattalaam. mudhalil oru pen than kaadhalai solvadhu palarukku adhirchiyaagavō punpadutthuvadhaagavō irukkumaa?

oru pen valiyappōi than kaadhalai solvadhu sariyaaga irukkumaa enbadhai patri baibil vērenna solgiradhu? baibil kaalangalil, dhēva bakthiyulla rūth endra oru pen kalyaana vishayam pēsa bōvaas endra manidhanai anuginaal. yegōvaa dhēvan avaludaiya muyarchigalai aasīrvadhitthaar! (rūth 3:1-13) eninum rūth ondrum vaaliba pen kidaiyaadhu. aval oru vidhavai. enavē nichayamaagavē avalukku kalyaanam seidhukolgira vayadhu irundhadhu. endraalum, paitthiyamaaga bōvaas pinnaalēyē sutritthirigiravalaaga aval irukkavillai. adharku badhilaaga, thirumanatthai kuritthu kadavul kodutthirundha sattangalai aval gavanamaaga pinpatrinaal.​—⁠ubaagamam 25:5-10.

sari, ungalukku kalyaana vayasu aagivittadhu endrum nīngal oruvarai virumbugirīrgal endrum vaitthukkollungal. nīngal virumbugira nabar ungalai virumbugiraaraa illaiyaa enbadhu theriyaamal ungal manadhil iruppadhaiyellaam avaridam kottividuvadhu dharmasangadatthai ērpadutthum vishayam. appadi seivadhu ungal idhayatthai edutthu vēroruvar kaiyil vaippadhu pōla irukkum. avar adhai menmaiyaaga vaitthukkolvaaraa alladhu kīlē pōttu udaitthuviduvaaraa? ippadippatta anaavasiyamaana dharmasangadatthai thavirppadharkum manamudaindhu pōgaamal iruppadharkum baibil niyamangalai pinpatruvadhu sirandhadhu.

vivēgamaai nadandhukollungal

vegu sulabamaaga nīngal kaadhal kanavugalil mūlgividalaam. ēn, ungal kalyaana naal, adhan piragu vaalkkai ivatrai kuritthukkūda nīngal karpanaiyil midhakkalaam. unmaidhaan, ippadippatta pagal kanavugal romba inimaiyaaga irukkalaam. aanaal avai verum maayaiyē. adhumattumalla, ungalaal thirupthi seiyavē mudiyaadha alavukadandha aasaigalai avai usuppividum. endraalum, avatrai ungalaal adaiyavē mudiyaadhu. baibil solgirapadi, ‘nedungaalamaai kaatthirutthal irudhayatthai ilaikkappannum.’ (nīdhimoligal 13:12) nīngal nyaayamaaga sindhikka mudiyaadhapadiyum pagal kanavugal ungal manadhai pōttu kulappalaam. eninum nīdhimoligal 14:15 solgiradhu: “vivēgiyō than nadaiyinmēl gavanamaayirukkiraan.” nadaimurai arivum nyaayamaaga sindhikkum munmadhiyum udaiyavanē vivēgi. sari, kaadhalil eppadi vivēgatthudan nadandhukolvadhu?

mudhalil ‘arivōdu nadandhukolla’ muyarchi seiyungal. (nīdhimoligal 13:16) “oruvarai purindhukollaamal avarai unmaiyil kaadhalikkavē mudiyaadhu” endru oru ilainji solgiraal. ungal idhayatthai oruvaridam parikoduppadharku mun, avar enna seigiraar, eppadi pēsugiraar, matravargalai evvaaru nadatthugiraar enbadhaiyellaam gavaniyungal. “avar eppadippattavar enbadhai therindhukolla avarudaiya nanbargalidamum avarai nandraaga arindha periyavargalidamum kēlungal” engiraar oru vaalibar. avar kristhava sabaiyil ‘narsaatchi petravaraayirukkiraaraa?’ enbadhaiyum visaariyungal. (appōsthalar 16:2) adhōdu, “grūppaaga sērndhu pōvadhum avarudaiya kudumbatthaarai therindhu kolvadhum romba udhaviyaaga irukkum” ena isaabel endra vaaliba pen solgiraal. ippadi nīngal matravargaludan sērndhu grūppaaga selvadhu endha tenshanum illaamal avarai patri therindhukolla udhavum.

ippadi oruvarai therindhukolvadharku nēramum porumaiyum avasiyappattaalum avarudaiya manappaanmai, palakkavalakkam, subaavam aagiyavatrai purindhukolla ungalukku udhaviyaaga irukkum. appōdhu ungalukku ērpatta unarchigal innum urudhippadalaam alladhu avai maarividalaam. nīdhimoligal 20:11 ivvaaru solgiradhu: ‘pillaiyin [ilainyanin] seigai sutthamō semmaiyō enbadhu avan nadakkaiyinaal vilangum.’ aam, avarudaiya seyalgal avarudaiya unmaiyaana subaavatthai kaalappōkkil velippadutthividum.

enavē, ungal unarchigal urupperumun vēgatthil pōi avasarappattu avatrai sollividaadhapadi nyaanamaaga nadandhukollungal. avasarappattu avaridam ungal kaadhalai solli, adharku avarum sari endru thalaiyaatta, pirpaadu avar ungalukku ētra thunaiyalla enbadhai nīngal unara, ēn indha vambu. d nīngalē pōi avarai kaadhalippadhaaga sollivittu piragu pōi nīngalē uravai arutthukkondaal adhu andha ilainyanin manadhai oruvēlai kadumaiyaagavē punpadutthividum.

ungal nadatthai

nīngal andha ilainyarai gavanippadhu pōlavē avarum ungalai gavanitthu kondiruppaar! nīngal dhēva bakthiyulla gunangalai udaiyavar endru matravargal solvadharkērpa nīngal thōtramalikkirīrgalaa? “niraiya pengal olungaagavē udutthuvadhillai” endru isaabel solgiraal. “aanmīga kannōttatthai udaiya oru nabar ungalai gavanikka vēndumendru nīngal ninaitthaal adakkamaana udai udutthungal.” fēshan edhuvaayirundhaalum sari, “thagudhiyaana vasthiratthinaalum, naanatthinaalum, thelindha butthiyinaalum” ungalai alangaritthu kollungal. adhuvē aanmīga kannōttatthai udaiyavarin kannukku ungalai adhiga idhamaanavaraai thōndra seiyum.​—1 thīmōtthēyu 2:10.

‘vaartthaiyil . . . munmaadhiriyaayiru’ endru ilam kristhavargalai baibil urchaagappadutthugiradhu. (1 thīmōtthēyu 4:12) aam, nīngal pēsugira vidham ungalai patri pakkam pakkamaaga sollum. nīngal virumbugira andha nabaridam pēsuvadharkaana oru sandharppam varumpōdhu enna seiya vēndum? avarukku kūcha subaavamendraal oruvēlai pēsuvadharkē avar vetkappadalaam, bayappadalaam. adhanaal, “avarudaiya riyaakshanai therindhukolvadharku nīngaldhaan mudhalil pōi pēsa vēndiyirukkum” endru abi endra ilam pen solgiraal.

pēchai eppadi aarambippadhu? nirutthaamal ungalai patriyē pēsikkondu irundhīrgalendraal nīngal sariyaana oru suyanalavaadhi endrum, mērpōkkaana iyalbudaiyavar endrum manadhukkullēyē avar ungalukku ‘sartifikēt’ kodutthuviduvaar. “ungalul ovvoruvarum than nalatthaiyē naadaadhu, pirar nalatthaiyum naada vēndum” endru baibil aalōsanai valangugiradhu. (pilippiyar 2:4, thamil katthōlikka baibil) avarai patri, avarukku īdupaadulla vishayangalai patri sila kēlvigalai nīngal kētkalaam, appadi kētpadhu avar thannudaiya unarchigalai patri pēsa vaaippalikkum.

‘kabada naavaiyum,’ ‘poi udhadugalaiyum’ payanpadutthi mugasthudhi seiyaadhīrgal. (sangīdham 120:2) appadippatta pēchugal ullatthilirundhu varaadhavai enbadhai nyaanamulla oruvar sattena kandukolvaar. adhē samayatthil, avar idhaitthaan kētka virumbugiraar endru nīngalaagavē ninaitthukkondu pēsi kondirukkaadhīrgal. mukkiyamaaga ungaludaiya aanmīga ilakkugal pōndra sīriyasaana vishayangalai patri pēsumpōdhu idhil migavum gavanamaayirungal. eppōdhum unmaiyai pēsungal; nērmaiyaai irungal. ippadiyaaga nīngal nīngalaagavē irungal. appōdhudhaan nīngal iruvarumē ottha ilakkugalai kondirukkirīrgalaa enbadhai therindhukolla mudiyum.

badhil kidaikkavillai endraal

nīngal ennadhaan vivēgamaaga nadandhum avarudaiya manadhil kaadhal thī patravillai endraal enna seivadhu? ippadiyē pala vaarangal kadandhu vidugindrana, pala maadhangalum parandhu vidugindrana. innum avar ungal mīdhu endha akkaraiyum kaattavillai endru vaitthukkollungal. avarudaiya kūcha subaavatthaaldhaan avar appadi irukkiraar endru ninaitthu vittuvidalaamaa? pinvarum kēlvigalai ungalukkul kēttukkollungal: ‘avar unmaiyilēyē andhalavukku kūcha subaavam ullavaraaga irundhaal kalyaanam seidhukolvadharku avar thayaaraa? appadiyē avarai naan kalyaanam seidhukondaalum kudumba thalaivanin poruppugalai avar ērpaaraa? illai, naandhaan andha poruppugalai ērka vēndumena edhirpaarppaaraa?’ (1 korindhiyar 11:3) yōsikka vēndiya innoru kēlvi: ‘avar unmaiyilēyē kūcha subaavamullavar thaanaa? alladhu ennai avarukku pidikkavillaiyaa?’ avarukku ungalai pidikkavillai enbadhu ungalukku theriyavandhaal ungal manam vēdhanaippadumenbadhu unmaidhaan. aanaal adhai therindhukolvadhan mūlam ungalai kaadhalikkaadha oruvaridam ungal kaadhalai theriyappadutthuvadhaal ērpadum dharmasangadatthai ungalaal thavirkka mudiyum.

avar ungalai kaadhalippadharkaana atthaatchiyai nīngal kandadhaaga ungalukku thōndralaam. aanaal than kaadhalai solvadharku avar rombavum thaamadhikkiraarē allaamal vērondrumalla ena nīngal ninaikkalaam. vaaivittu avaraagavē adhai solla avarukku konjam undhudhal thēvaiyendrum nīngal ninaikkalaam. appadikkūda irukkalaam. aanaal nīngalē valiyappōi ungal kaadhalai solla thīrmaanitthaal, adhil aabatthu irukkiradhu enbadhai ninaivil vaiyungal. nīngal enna solla pōgirīrgal enbadhu mattumalla, eppōdhu solvadhu porutthamaaga irukkum enbadhaiyum nandraaga yōsikka vēndum.

udhaaranatthirku, “ungalai kaadhalikkirēn” ena velippadaiyaaga solvadharku badhilaaga avarudaiya gavanatthai pera virumbugirīrgal enbadhai ilaimarai kaayaaga theriyappaduttha ninaikkalaam. appadiyaanaal, oru porutthamaana, amaidhiyaana sūlalil ‘ungalai patri innum therinjukka virumbarēn’ endru avaridam nīngal sollalaam. appadi sollumpōdhu engē vaartthaigalai ularividuvīrgalō ena ninaitthu kavalaippadaadhīrgal. ungaludaiya ullappūrvamaana unarchigal ungaludaiya vaartthaigalaivida adhigatthai pēsum. ichamayatthil, avarōdu palaga virumbugirīrgal enbadhai mattumē solla pōgirīrgalē thavira kalyaanam seiya virumbuvadhaaga solla pōvadhillai enbadhai ninaivil vaiyungal. endraalum, nīngal appadi pēsiyadhē avarukku edhirpaaraadha ondraaga irukkalaam. adhanaal nīngal enna solla vandhīrgal enbadhai purindhukolla avarukku taim kodungal.

sari, indha vaalibarai nandraaga purindhukondu avar anbaanavar, karisanaiyaanavar enbadhai kandukondīrgal. ippōdhu avaridam ungal kaadhalai sollumpōdhu engē ungal unarchigalai avar punpadutthividuvaarō, avamaanappadutthividuvaarō endrellaam nīngal bayappada vēndiyadhillai. aanaal ungal kaadhalai avar naasūkkaaga adhē samayam urudhiyaaga marutthuvittaal nīngal eppadi nadandhukolla vēndum? indha maadhiriyaana sandharppatthil oru vaaliban enna seiya vēndum? aduttha katturai indha kēlvigalukku badhilalikkum. (g04 10/22)

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avarudaiya nadatthaiyai paartthu ungal abippraayatthaiyē oruvēlai nīngal maatrikkolvīrgal

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nīngal avarai kaadhalikkirīrgal endraal, avarai nandraaga arindha poruppaana periyavargalidam pēsungal