Mufwile ukwishiba ico mulelandila ilyashi. Nga ca kuti ilyashi lyenu lilelanda pa kulenga abantu beshibe fimo, bashininkishe ukuti fimo fya cine, nelyo nga lilebakoselesha ukucitapo cimo, mulingile ukulanda ukulingana ne fyo fine. Ifishinka ifikalamba ifili mu lyashi filingile ukulenga mwafishapo ico mulelandila ilyashi.

Mulekomaila pa mutwe we lyashi. Ilyo mulelanda ilyashi mulebwekeshabwekeshapo amashiwi yamo ayali mu mutwe we lyashi nelyo kuti mulebomfya amashiwi ayapalana ubupilibulo na mashiwi yali mu mutwe we lyashi.

Mulelanda ifishinka ifikalamba mu nshila iyayanguka pa kuti fyaumfwika. Mulesala fye ifishinka fikalamba ifyampene no mutwe we lyashi ifyo mwingasambilisha bwino ukwabula ukupula mu nshita. Mwilafusha ifishinka fikalamba, mulelanda bwino cila cishinka, mulepemwina ilyo mushilatendeka ukulanda pa cishinka cimbi, kabili ifishinka ifikalamba fifwile fyaikatana bwino.