“Taem mi gat 15 yia, mi agri fulwan long ol rul we papa mo mama i putum, be naoia we mi gat 19 yia, mi harem se mi sud fri moa.”—Sylvi.

 ?Yu yu gat sem filing olsem Sylvi? Sipos yes, save ya bambae i halpem yu blong yu tokbaot samting ya wetem papa mo mama blong yu.

•  Samting we yu mas save

•  Samting we yu save mekem

•  Sam yangfala oli talem wanem

 Bifo we yu toktok wetem Papa mo Mama long saed blong ol rul we tufala i putumap, i gud yu tingbaot se:

•  Sipos i no gat ol rul, laef bambae i olbaot nomo. Traem tingbaot wan rod we i fulap long ol trak. Sipos i nogat ol saen we oli soem spid we yu mas ron long hem, o weples yu mas stop long hem, bambae i save gat trabol i kamaot. Ol rul blong haos oli sem mak. Oli givhan blong mekem se ol samting oli stap long oda.

•  Ol rul oli soemaot se papa mo mama i lavem yu. Sipos papa mo mama i no putum eni rul, hemia i min se tufala i no kea sipos wan samting i hapen long yu. Sipos tufala i mekem olsem, tufala i no gudfala papa mo mama.

 ?YU YU SAVE? !I gat ol rul we ol papa mo mama tu oli mas folem! Sipos yu no save samting ya, ridim Jenesis 2:24; Dutronome 6:6, 7; Efesas 6:4; mo 1 Timoti 5:8.

 ?Yu save mekem wanem sipos yu harem yet se ol rul we papa mo mama i putum oli no stret?

 Bifo we yu tokbaot, i gud yu tingting fastaem. Taem Papa mo Mama i putum ol rul, ?yu yu stap obei long ol rul ya? Sipos yu no stap obei long ol rul ya, ating hemia i no wan stret taem blong askem long tufala blong letem yu yu fri moa. Yu save luk haf ya, “?Olsem Wanem Blong Mekem Se Papa Mo Mama i Trastem Mi?”

 Sipos yu stap obei gud, rerem ol tok we yu wantem talem long papa mo mama blong yu. Raetem daon ol tingting blong yu, hemia bambae i givhan blong save sipos samting we yu wantem askem long tufala i stret. Afta, yu askem long papa mo mama blong putum wan stret taem mo ples blong yufala i save storian gud. Biaen, taem yu toktok wetem tufala, tingbaot se yu mas gat ol fasin olsem:

 Soemaot respek. Baebol i talem se: ‘Sipos yu tok strong long wan man, bambae yu mekem hem i kros moa.’ (Ol Proveb 15:1) Taswe i gud blong tingbaot oltaem se: Sipos yu rao wetem papa mo mama blong yu mo yu talem se tufala i no mekem i stret, bambae storian blong yufala i no save gohed gud.

 “Taem mi mi respektem papa mo mama blong mi, tufala tu i soemaot respek long mi, mekem se i moa isi blong mifala i agri long wan tingting o plan.”—Bianka 19 yia.

 Lesin gud. Baebol i talem se yumi mas ‘rere oltaem blong lesin, mo no hareap blong toktok.’ (Jemes 1:19) Yu mas tingbaot se yu stap storian wetem Papa mo Mama, yu no stap toktok nomo blong tufala i harem yu.

 “Taem yumi stap gruap, maet yumi ting se yumi save moa i bitim papa mo mama blong yumi, be hemia i no tru nating. Yumi mas lesin mo folem ol advaes blong tufala.”—Devan 20 yia.

 Traem kasem save long tingting blong tufala. Traem kasem save from wanem tufala i talem olsem. Yu folem advaes blong Baebol blong ‘no tingbaot yu nomo, be tingbaot ol narafala man tu,’ hemia i minim papa mo mama blong yu tu.—Filipae 2:4.

 “Fastaem, mi luk papa mo mama blong mi olsem se tufala i stap long wan tim, mi stap long narafala tim, mo tufala i agensem mi. Be naoia mi kasem save se tufala i stap lanem olsem wanem blong lukaot gud long mi, mo mi tu mi stap lanem blong kam bigman long tingting. Evri samting we tufala i mekem i blong soemaot se tufala i lavem mi.”—Josua, 21 yia.

 Talem sam rod blong winim problem. Traem tingbaot se yu wantem go long wan pati we i stap longwe, bambae yu mas draevem trak blong wan aoa, nao papa mo mama blong yu i talem ‘no.’ Faenemaot stret from wanem tufala i no wantem se yu go, ?hemia from we yu mas draev longwe, o from pati ya?

•   Sipos i from we yu mas draev longwe, ?bambae tufala i glad moa sipos yu tekem wan fren i go wetem yu, we hem i draev gud?

•   Sipos i from pati ya, ?bambae tufala i glad moa sipos yu talemaot hu olgeta we bambae oli kam, mo hu bambae i lukaot long pati ya?

 Tingbaot se yu mas toktok wetem respek mo lesin gud long wanem we tufala i talem. Soemaot se yu “ona long papa mo mama blong yu” long ol toktok mo fasin blong yu. (Efesas 6:2, 3) ?Bambae tufala i jenisim tingting blong tufala? Maet yes. Maet no. Nating se i olsem wanem, be yu mas . . .

 Respektem desisen blong Papa mo Mama. Maet yu no luksave se hemia nao samting we i save mekem se papa mo mama blong yu, bambae i letem yu yu fri moa. Sipos yu no kasem samting we yu wantem nao yu stat blong rao wetem tufala, bambae yu mekem se i had moa blong toktok wetem tufala nekis taem. Be sipos yu obei long ol rul we tufala i putum, maet bambae tufala i glad blong tekemaot sam rul mo letem yu yu fri moa.