FI PAYRENTS
7: Gud Moaral Standadz
WEH IH MEEN?
Payrents, yoo set di standadz weh yu waahn liv bai. Fi egzampl, if yoo chrai haad fi bee aanis eena evriting weh yu du, fi shoar yu wahn chrai help yu chiljren fi liv bai da saym standad.
Yu aalso waahn teech dehn rait fahn rang. Fi egzampl, fahn dehn yong yu waahn help dehn fi bee haad-werkin, fyaa, ahn kansidarayt a adaz.
BAIBL PRINSIPL: “Chrayn wahn chail eena di way ih fi goh; eevn wen ih groa oal ih noh wahn schray fan it.”—Proverbs 22:6.
WAI GUD MOARAL STANDADZ IMPOATANT?
Schrang moaral prinsiplz impoatant, espeshali eena dis taim weh evribadi yooz teknalaji. Wahn ma weh naym Karyn seh: “Bikaaz a teknalaji, ih eezi fi mek wi chiljren fain tingz weh noh gud fi mek dehn wach er lisn tu. Dehn ku deh rait neks tu wi di wach er lisn tu sohnting weh noh prapa, ahn wee nat eevn noatis.”
BAIBL PRINSIPL: “Machoar peepl. . . chrayn dehnself fi tel di difrens bitween gud ahn bad.”—Heebrooz 5:14.
Gud manaz impoatant tu. Fi egzampl, yu ku teech yu chiljren fi seh “pleez” ahn “tank yu” ahn fi shoa dat dehn kay bowt adaz. Peepl tudeh moa inchrestid eena dehn ilekchranik divais, soh ih haad fi fain peepl weh shoa gud manaz ahn weh kay bowt adaz.
BAIBL PRINSIPL: “Chreet adaz di saym way how unu waahn dehn chreet unu.”—Look 6:31.
WEH YOO KU DU?
Mek yu moaral prinsiplz bee klyaa tu dehn. Fi egzampl, sohn risaach shoa dat wen payrents eksplayn tu dehn teenayja dat seks bifoa marij rang, moa dan laikli dehn noh wahn ga seks bifoa dehn geh marid.
SOHNTING WEH KU HELP UNU: Fi staat wahn kanvasayshan wid yu chiljren bowt moaral standadz, yu ku pik sohnting weh jos kom op pahn di nyooz. Fi egzampl, if di nyooz da bowt wahn kraim weh hapm, yu ku seh sohnting laik: “Ih sad fi si how peepl eezi fi geh beks wid adaz. How yu tink peepl en op di bihayv laik dat?”
“Ih haada fi mek chiljren chooz bitween rait ahn rang if nobadi teech dehn weh rait ahn weh rang.”—Brandon.
Teech yu chiljren gud manaz. Eevn lee pikni ku laan fi seh “pleez” ahn “tank yu.” Dehn ku aalso laan fi shoa dat dehn kay bowt adaz. Di buk weh naym Parenting Without Borders seh: “If chiljren andastan dat dehn da paat a wahn famili, wahn skool, er wahn kamyooniti, ih wahn eeziya fi mek dehn bee kain tu adaz ahn noh tink onli bowt dehnself.”
SOHNTING WEH KU HELP UNU: Gi yu chiljren werk fi du rong di hows fi help dehn si dat ih gud fi du tingz fi adaz.
“If chiljren geh yoostu help owt rong di hows, dehn noh wahn fain it haad wen dehn goh liv pahn dehn oan. Dis wahn help dehn fi bee rispansabl bikaaz dehn mi don geh di chraynin fahn dehn yong.”—Tara.
