Proverbs chapter 31 contains a weighty message to King Lemuel from his mother. Her wise counsel taught him what to look for in a capable wife.

31:10-12

• She provides valuable suggestions concerning family decisions while remaining submissive

• Her husband trusts her to make wise decisions, not insisting that she obtain his approval for every matter

31:13-27

• She learns to be thrifty and live modestly so that her family can be neatly dressed, presentable, and well-nourished

• She works hard and watches over her household day and night

31:30

• She fears God and cultivates a personal relationship with him