1-2. Kumno ka nuksa jong u apostle Paul ka lah ban ïarap ïa ki rangbah balang mynta?

 THE apostle Paul loved his brothers. He worked tirelessly in their behalf. (Acts 20:31) In turn, his fellow believers had deep affection for Paul. On one occasion, “quite a bit of weeping broke out” when the elders from Ephesus learned that they would never see him again. (Acts 20:37) Our devoted elders likewise love their brothers and sisters very much and spare no effort when it comes to helping them. (Phil. 2:16, 17) Sometimes, however, elders experience challenges. What can help them to overcome these?

² Our hardworking elders can consider the example of Paul. (1 Cor. 11:1) He was not superhuman. Paul was an imperfect man who at times struggled to do what was right. (Rom. 7:18-20) And he had to contend with various hardships. But Paul did not give up or lose his joy. By imitating Paul, elders can overcome the challenges they face and maintain their joy while serving Jehovah. Let us see how.

3. Kaei kaba ngin ïa pule ha kane ka lynnong, bad kan ïarap ïa ngi ba leh aïu?

³ In this article, we will examine four common challenges that elders face: (1) balancing their preaching work with other responsibilities, (2) being caring shepherds, (3) coping with personal weaknesses, and (4) dealing with the imperfections of others. We will discuss how Paul overcame each challenge and how elders can imitate his example.

4. Balei ki rangbah balang ki lah ban shem jingeh ban pyllait por ban leit ïalap?

⁴ Why it can be a challenge. Elders have many responsibilities in addition to taking the lead in the preaching work. For example, many take turns presiding over the midweek meeting and conducting the Congregation Bible Study. They may also care for other speaking assignments. They are active in training ministerial servants and are happy to provide ongoing encouragement to the brothers and sisters. (1 Pet. 5:2) Some elders work on the building and maintenance of Kingdom Halls and other theocratic facilities. Still, like all in the congregation, an elder is first and foremost a minister of the good news.​—Matt. 28:19, 20.

5. Kaei ka nuksa kaba u Paul u la pyni kum u nongïalap?

⁵ Paul’s example. The key to Paul’s success is found at Philippians 1:10, where he urges us: “Make sure of the more important things.” Paul followed his own advice. He had been assigned a ministry, and for decades he viewed that ministry as one of the more important things. He preached “publicly and from house to house.” (Acts 20:20) He did not limit his preaching activity to a certain time of day or to one day of the week. He took advantage of every opportunity to preach! For example, while waiting for his companions in Athens, he introduced the good news to a distinguished group of people, with some positive results. (Acts 17:16, 17, 34) Even while in “prison bonds,” Paul preached to those who were around him.​—Phil. 1:13, 14; Acts 28:16-24.

6. Kaei ka jinghikai kaba u Paul u la ai ïa kiwei?

⁶ Paul made the best use of his time. He often invited others to join him in the ministry. For example, on his first missionary tour, he took John Mark, and on his second, Timothy. (Acts 12:25; 16:1-4) No doubt Paul endeavored to teach these men how to organize a congregation, how to carry out the shepherding work, and how to become effective teachers.​—1 Cor. 4:17.

7. Kumno ki rangbah balang ki lah ban bud ïa ka jinghikai jong u Paul kumba la thoh ha Ephesos 6:14, 15?

⁷ Lesson. Elders can imitate Paul not only by preaching from door to door but also by being ready and willing to give a witness on every occasion. (Read  Ephesians 6:14, 15.) For example, they can give a witness when out shopping or at their place of employment. Or when caring for theocratic building projects, they can share the good news with neighbors and vendors. Like Paul, elders can use the time spent in the ministry to train others, including ministerial servants.

8. Teng teng, ki rangbah balang ki donkam ban leh aïu?

⁸ Elders should never be so busy caring for assignments in the congregation or in the circuit that they have no time for the preaching work. To remain balanced, they may on occasion need to say no to some assignments. After prayerful consideration, they may realize that they could not care for an assignment without neglecting the more important things. Such things would include conducting family worship each week, having a full share in the preaching work, or training their children in that activity. Some find it difficult to refuse a privilege of service, but they can be sure that Jehovah understands their desire to be balanced in all things.

9. Kaei ka jingeh kaba ki rangbah balang kiba bunkam ki mad?

⁹ Why it can be a challenge. Jehovah’s people experience many trials. During these last days, all of us need encouragement, support, and comfort. And at times some need help to avoid wrong conduct. (1 Thess. 5:14) Of course, elders cannot remove all the trials that Jehovah’s people face. Even so, Jehovah wants elders to do what they can to encourage and protect his sheep. How can busy elders find the time to provide the needed assistance?

10. Kumba la thoh ha 1 Thessaloni 2:7, kumno u Paul u la phikir ïa ki briew jong U Jehobah?

¹⁰ Paul’s example. Paul looked for ways to commend his brothers and build them up. Elders do well to follow his loving example by treating Jehovah’s people with tender affection. (Read 1 Thessalonians 2:7.) Paul assured fellow worshippers that he loved them and that Jehovah loved them. (2 Cor. 2:4; Eph. 2:4, 5) Paul treated those in the congregation as friends, spending time with them. He showed that he trusted them by speaking openly about his own fears and weaknesses. (2 Cor. 7:5; 1 Tim. 1:15) Paul, however, did not focus on his own problems. Rather, he wanted to help his brothers.

11. Balei u Paul u la sneng ïa ki parabangeit?

¹¹ At times, Paul needed to counsel his brothers and sisters. But he never did so to vent his frustration. He gave counsel  because he cared about them and wanted to protect them from various dangers. He tried to make his counsel easy to understand, and he cared about how it was received. For example, in a letter to the Corinthians, Paul gave strong counsel. After writing that letter, he sent Titus to them. Paul was anxious to learn how they responded to his letter. How happy he was to find out that they had taken the counsel well!​—2 Cor. 7:6, 7.

12. Kumno ki rangbah balang ki lah ban pynshlur ïa la ki parabangeit?

¹² Lesson. Elders can follow Paul’s example by spending time with fellow worshippers. One way to do this is to arrive early at congregation meetings in order to have meaningful conversations with others. It often takes just a few minutes to provide some loving encouragement that a brother or a sister needs. (Rom. 1:12; Eph. 5:16) An elder who follows Paul’s example will also strengthen fellow worshippers by using God’s Word to build them up and to assure them of God’s love for them. Further, he expresses his love for those under his care. He keeps in touch with them and looks for opportunities to commend them. When an elder must offer counsel, he bases it on God’s Word. He is specific but kind because he cares about how his words are received.​—Gal. 6:1.

13. Kumno ki jingtlot jong u rangbah balang ki lah ban ktah ïa u?

¹³ Why it can be a challenge. Elders are not perfect. Like everyone else, they make mistakes. (Rom. 3:23) They may at times struggle to have a balanced view of their weaknesses. Some might focus on their limitations so much that they become discouraged. Others might be quick to excuse their failings, causing them to become complacent and not make the needed adjustments.

14. Katkum na Philipi 4:13, kumno ka jingsngewrit ka la ïarap ïa u Paul ban ïaleh bad la ki jingtlot?

¹⁴ Paul’s example. Paul humbly recognized that he could not cope with his weaknesses on his own. He needed the strength that God can provide. Earlier, Paul had been a headstrong, harsh persecutor of Christians. But later, he acknowledged his shortcomings and was willing to change his attitude and personality. (1 Tim. 1:12-16) With Jehovah’s help, Paul became a loving, compassionate, humble shepherd. He was  painfully aware of his imperfections; yet, he chose to trust in Jehovah’s forgiveness rather than dwell on his failings. (Rom. 7:21-25) He did not expect to be perfect. Instead, he worked hard to improve his Christian personality and humbly relied on Jehovah’s help to accomplish his work.​—1 Cor. 9:27; read Philippians 4:13.

15. Kumno ki rangbah balang ki dei ban sngew shaphang ki jingduna la jong?

¹⁵ Lesson. Elders are not appointed because they are perfect. Jehovah, though, does expect them to admit their mistakes and to cultivate a Christian personality. (Eph. 4:23, 24) An elder should examine himself in the light of God’s Word and make any needed adjustments. Then Jehovah will help him to be happy and successful.​—Jas. 1:25.

16. Kaei kaba lah ban jia lada u rangbah balang u peit tang ïa ki jingduna jong kiwei?

¹⁶ Why it can be a challenge. Elders may become aware of the imperfections of those in the congregation because of working closely with them. If not careful, however, elders could become frustrated, harsh, or judgmental. Paul warned Christians that Satan would like them to do that.​—2 Cor. 2:10, 11.

17. Kumno u Paul u sngew shaphang ki parabangeit jong u?

¹⁷ Paul’s example. He kept a positive view of his brothers and sisters. He was well-aware of their mistakes, for at times their actions even affected him personally. Nevertheless, Paul knew the difference between bad conduct and bad people. He loved his brothers and focused on their good qualities. If his brothers and sisters were struggling to do the right thing, he assumed that their motives were good and that they simply needed help.

18. Kaei ka jinghikai kaba phi la ïoh na ka jingleh jong u Paul ha kaba ïadei bad ka Ïuodia bad ka Suntukhi? (Philipi 4:1-3)

¹⁸ Consider, for example, how Paul dealt with two sisters in the congregation in Philippi. (Read Philippians 4:1-3.) Euodia and Syntyche seemed to have allowed personal differences to cause a rift between them. Paul was not harsh or judgmental; he focused on their good qualities. They were faithful sisters who had built up a fine record. Paul knew that Jehovah loved them. Paul’s positive view of these sisters motivated him to encourage them to resolve their differences. His outlook also allowed him to keep his joy and maintain strong friendships with those in that congregation.

19. (a) Kumno ki rangbah balang ki lah ban don ka jingpyrkhat kaba bha ïa la ki parabangeit? (b) Kaei ka jinghikai kaba phi lah ban ïoh na ka dur jong u rangbah balang uba pynkhuid ïa ka Ïing Hima?

 ¹⁹ Lesson. Elders, look for the good qualities that your brothers and sisters possess. Each one is imperfect; yet, each one has qualities we can admire. (Phil. 2:3) True, elders may from time to time need to adjust the thinking of a brother or a sister. But like Paul, elders should strive to look beyond a person’s irritating words and actions. Instead, they do well to focus on that individual’s love for Jehovah, his endurance in serving God, and his potential for doing good. Elders who have a positive view create a warm and nurturing environment in the congregation.

20. Kumno ki rangbah balang ki lah ban ïai myntoi na ka nuksa jong u Paul?

²⁰ You elders will find it helpful to continue studying Paul’s example. For instance, in the Watch Tower Publications Index, you could look under the main heading “Paul” and then the subheading “example for elders.” As you read some of the material listed there, ask yourself, ‘How can Paul’s example help me to maintain my joy while accomplishing my work as an elder?’

21. Ki rangbah balang ki lah ban thikna ïa kaei?

²¹ Elders, remember that Jehovah is not asking you to be perfect; he is asking you to be faithful. (1 Cor. 4:2) Jehovah appreciated Paul’s hard work and faithfulness. You can be sure that God also values what you do in his service. Jehovah will never “forget your work and the love you showed for his name by ministering and continuing to minister to the holy ones.”​—Heb. 6:10.