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LESSON 48

Be Careful When You Making Friends

Be Careful When You Making Friends

Our close friend them can make us happy when we in good times, and they can help us when we going through hard times. But the Bible warn us that not everybody can be good friend. So how you can make good friends? Think about this question them:

1. How your friend them can affect you?

Most of the time, we can be like the people we always around. If that good people, they will benefit us. If that bad people, they will harm us. It can happen whether we together with the person or we talking on the internet. The Bible say, “the one walking with the wise will become wise, but the one who has dealings with the stupid [people who not love Jehovah] will fare badly.” (Proverbs 13:20) Friends who love and worship Jehovah can help you to stay close to him and they can help you to make good decisions. But our close friend them who not serving Jehovah can make us to stop serving him. That the reason why the Bible encourage us to be careful when we making friends! When we make friends with people who love God, we can benefit and they can benefit too. We will be able to “keep encouraging one another and building one another up.”—1 Thessalonians 5:11.

2. How Jehovah can feel about the friends we make?

Jehovah can take time to choose his friend them. “His close friendship is with the upright.” (Proverbs 3:32) How Jehovah can feel when we make friends with people who not love him? He can really feel bad! (Read James 4:4.) But Jehovah will be happy and he will make us his friend if we not go around bad friends. He will also be happy when we draw close to him and people who love him.—Psalm 15:1-4.

LEARN MORE

Learn why it very important to make good friends and how you can make good friends that will make your life better.

3. Be careful not to make bad friends

Bad friends, that people who not love God and his laws. Play the VIDEO, and answer the question together.

  • How we can start making friends with the wrong people without knowing it?

Read 1 Corinthians 15:33, and answer the question them together:

  • What kind na person will not be good friend for you? Why?

Read Psalm 119:63, and answer the question together:

  • How you can know that somebody will be good friend for you?

One rotten apple can spoil the rest. How might one bad associate affect you?

4. People who different from us can be good friends to us too

The Bible talk about two men who were living in Israel way back, David and Jonathan. Jonathan was older than David plenty years and his pa was king. But still, two of them were best friends. Read 1 Samuel 18:1, and answer the question together:

  • Why we must not only make friends with our equal or people who we and them on the same level?

Read Romans 1:11, 12, and answer the question together:

  • How friends who love Jehovah can encourage each other?

In this video, see how one young brother make friends with people who he was not thinking could be his friends. Play the VIDEO, and answer the question them together.

  • In the video, why Akil parents were worrying about the kind na friend them he was making in school?

  • In the beginning, wetin make him to like his friend them?

  • Wetin help him to not be lonely?

5. How you can make good friends

Learn how you can make good friends and how you yourself can be good friend. Play the VIDEO.

Read Proverbs 18:24 and 27:17, and answer the question them together:

  • How true friends can help each other?

  • You get good friend them like that? If you not get some, wetin you can do to get good friends?

Read Philippians 2:4, and answer the question together:

  • To get good friends, you yourself must be good friend. How you can do it?

To get good friends, you yourself must be good friend

SOME PEOPLE CAN SAY: “You can make friend with anybody.”

  • Wetin you will say?

MAIN POINTS

When we make good friends, it can make Jehovah happy and we ourselves can benefit.

Review

  • Why the kind na friend them we can make important to Jehovah?

  • What kind na friend them we must avoid?

  • How you can make good friends?

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LEARN OTHER THINGS

See how good friends can help us when we facing problems.

“Make Good Friends Before the End Come” (The Watchtower, November 2019)

Wetin you must know about making friends on the internet?

Be Careful When You Talking With People on the Internet (4:12)

Find out what make one man to change his friend them. Read the story with the title, “I Wanted a Father.”

“The Bible Can Change People Lives” (The Watchtower, April 1, 2012)