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121 SUBA ISHEI We Need Self-Control

Athembada Tadanaba Ngaak Sellu

Athembada Tadanaba Ngaak Sellu

“Nakhoi athembada tadanaba miseng khangu amasung haijou.”MAATHI. 26:41.

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To help us appreciate the need to avoid committing a sin as well as the steps that lead up to it.

1-2. (a) Jishuna mahakki seboksingda karamba cheksinningai oiba wapham khanghankhibage? (b) Seboksing aduna Jishubu thadoktuna chenkhriba karigino? (Laising asisu yengbiyu.)

 “THE spirit, of course, is eager, but the flesh is weak.” a (Matt. 26:41b) With those words, Jesus showed that he understood our imperfect condition. But his words also included a warning: Beware of overconfidence. Earlier that very night, the disciples had confidently expressed their determination to stick by their Master. (Matt. 26:35) Their motives were good. Still, they did not realize how quickly they could weaken under pressure. Thus, Jesus cautioned them: “Keep on the watch and pray continually, so that you may not enter into temptation.”​—Matt. 26:41a.

2 Sadly, the disciples failed to keep on the watch. When Jesus was arrested, did they stick by him or did they give in to the temptation to flee? Caught off guard, the disciples did exactly what they said that they would never do​—they abandoned Jesus.​—Matt. 26:56.

Jesus admonished his disciples to keep on the watch and guard against temptation, but they abandoned him (See paragraphs 1-2)


3. (a) Jehovahna haiba illaga chatchaba ngamnaba, eikhoina isada ka henna thajaba thamba haibasi touroidouriba karigino? (b) Ngasigi hiram asida eikhoina kari khannagani?

3 We cannot afford to be overconfident. True, we are determined to let nothing turn us away from Jehovah. Yet, we are also imperfect and vulnerable to temptation. (Rom. 5:12; 7:21-23) Without warning, we could find ourselves in circumstances that make the wrong course seem very appealing. To remain loyal to Jehovah and his Son, we need to follow Jesus’ counsel to keep on guard against the temptation to sin. This article can help us do that. First, we will consider in what areas we must especially be on guard. Then, we will discuss how to guard ourselves against temptation. Finally, we will consider how to remain on guard.

EIKHOINA NGAAK SELLAGA LEIGADABA HIRAMSING

4-5. Asoiba macha machasingda phaoba eikhoina cheksinba darkar oiriba karigino?

4 Even sins that are relatively minor can weaken our relationship with Jehovah. Also, they can lead us to commit more serious sins.

5 All of us face temptation to sin. But each one of us has areas of vulnerability, whether it is to commit a serious sin, to engage in some form of unclean conduct, or to fall prey to worldly thinking. For example, one person may be fighting temptation to commit sexual immorality. Another might be strongly inclined toward unclean practices, such as masturbation or viewing pornography. Still another may be struggling with fear of man, independent thinking, a quick temper, or something else. As James states, “each one is tried by being drawn out and enticed by his own desire.”​—Jas. 1:14.

6. Eikhoina isagi maramda karamba wapham munna khangjagadage?

6 Do you know in which areas you are most easily tempted? It does us no good to fool ourselves by denying our weaknesses or concluding that we are too strong to fall into wrongdoing. (1 John 1:8) After all, Paul indicates that even those “who have spiritual qualifications” might give in to temptation if they do not keep on guard. (Gal. 6:1) We must be honest with ourselves and acknowledge the areas in which we are not strong.​—2 Cor. 13:5.

7. Karamba waphamda eikhoina yamna cheksingadage? Khudam ama pibiyu.

7 Once we have identified those areas in which we are most susceptible to temptation, what should we do? Strengthen our resistance! To illustrate, in Bible times the most vulnerable part of a city wall was its gates. Therefore, the gates were the most heavily guarded. Similarly, we need to give special attention to any areas in which we know that we are especially weak.​—1 Cor. 9:27.

EIKHOINA KARAMNA NGAAK SELLAGA LEIGANI?

8-9. Paorou padup 7 da yaoriba naha oiriba nupa asina achouba paap toubadagi karamna lapthoklamba yabage? (Paorou 7:8, 9, 13, 14, 21)

8 How can we guard ourselves? Consider what we can learn from the young man discussed in Proverbs chapter 7. He committed sexual immorality with an immoral woman. Verse 22 tells us that the young man went after her “suddenly.” But as the preceding verses show, he had taken several steps before this that gradually led him to sin.

9 What led up to his sin? First, in the evening, he “passed along the street near [the immoral woman’s] corner.” Then, he marched toward her house. (Read Proverbs 7:8, 9.) Next, when he saw the woman, he did not turn away. Instead, he accepted her kiss and listened as she spoke of the communion sacrifices she had offered, perhaps in an attempt to make him think that she was not a bad person. (Read Proverbs 7:13, 14, 21.) Had the young man avoided the dangers that led up to the sin, he would have guarded himself from the temptations and from the sin.

10. Paorou pandup 7 da yaoriba naha oiriba nupa adugumna ngasisu Christian amana karamna paapta takhiba yabage?

10 Solomon’s account illustrates what can happen to any worshipper of Jehovah. He might fall into serious sin and later feel that everything occurred “suddenly.” Or he might say, “It just happened.” And yet, if he thinks about what actually occurred, he will likely discover that he took some unwise steps that led to his transgression. Those steps might have involved bad association, unwholesome entertainment, or frequenting questionable places​—whether in person or online. Perhaps he had also stopped praying, reading the Bible, attending meetings, or sharing in the ministry. Like the young man discussed in Proverbs, he may not have committed the sin so “suddenly” after all.

11. Paapta tadanaba eikhoina karidagi lapthokkadage?

11 What is the lesson for us? We need to avoid not only the sin itself but also the steps that lead to sin. Solomon makes that very point after relating the account of the young man and the immoral woman. Referring to the woman, he states: “Do not stray onto her paths.” (Prov. 7:25) He also says of such a wayward woman: “Stay far away from her; do not go near the entrance of her house.” (Prov. 5:3, 8) Yes, we guard ourselves from sin by keeping far away from the circumstances that lead to it. b This might include avoiding certain situations or activities that are not off-limits for Christians in general but that are known to lead us into temptation.​—Matt. 5:29, 30.

12. Jobna kari warep loukhibage, amasung maduna mahakpu athembada tadanaba karamna mateng panglamgadage? (Job 31:1)

12 To avoid situations that lead to sin, we will need to make a firm resolve. That is what Job did. He “made a covenant with [his] eyes” never to look lustfully at other women. (Read Job 31:1.) Adhering to that resolve would keep him far away from committing adultery. We too can resolve to avoid anything that is likely to lead to temptation.

13. Eikhoigi wakhal asi ngaak senba yamna maruoiriba karigino? (Laising asisu yengbiyu.)

13 We must also guard our thinking. (Ex. 20:17) Some believe that there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about improper desires as long as an individual does not act on them. But such thinking is wrong. A person who dwells on a wrong desire intensifies the desire. In a sense, he creates a temptation, which he will now have to resist. Of course, wrong thoughts will at times come into our mind. The key is to reject these thoughts immediately and replace them with good ones. When we do, we keep wrong thoughts from growing into a powerful desire that is hard to fight and that might even lead us to committing a serious sin.​—Phil. 4:8; Col. 3:2; Jas. 1:13-15.

We need to avoid anything that is likely to lead to temptation (See paragraph 13)


14. Eikhoina athembada tadanaba atoppa touba yaba amadi karino?

14 What else can we do to guard ourselves against temptation? We need to be absolutely convinced that we will always benefit from obeying Jehovah’s laws. We may on occasion struggle to bring our thoughts and desires into harmony with what God approves, but the peace of mind that we will experience will be well worth the effort.

15. Achumba wakhal hapchinjabana athembada tadanaba karamna mateng panggani?

15 We need to cultivate right desires. If we learn to “hate what is bad and love what is good,” we will strengthen our resolve to do what is right and avoid situations that lead to sin. (Amos 5:15) Proper desires will also fortify us to remain firm if we find ourselves in a tempting situation that we could not have anticipated or prevented.

16. Ishwor ningbaga mari leinaba thabaksing toujabana eikhoina ngaak sellaga leibada karamna mateng pangbage? (Laising asisu yengbiyu.)

16 How can we cultivate right desires? We should be absorbed as much as possible in spiritual activities. When we are at Christian meetings or in the ministry, we are not easily tempted to do wrong. Instead, we build our desire to please Jehovah. (Matt. 28:19, 20; Heb. 10:24, 25) By reading and studying God’s Word and meditating on it, we strengthen our love for what is good and our hatred for what is bad. (Josh. 1:8; Ps. 1:2, 3; 119:97, 101) Remember, Jesus told his disciples: “Pray continually, so that you may not enter into temptation.” (Matt. 26:41) As we spend time with our heavenly Father in prayer, we take advantage of his help and strengthen our determination to please him.​—Jas. 4:8.

A good spiritual routine strengthens us to reject temptations (See paragraph 16) c


NGAAK SELLAGA LEIBIYU

17. Peterna masagi karamba asonba ama hanjin hanjin thengnakhibage?

17 Likely, we can rid ourselves completely of some imperfect tendencies. But we might find that other inclinations continue to give us trouble. Consider the case of the apostle Peter. He gave in to fear of man when he denied Jesus three times. (Matt. 26:69-75) Peter seemed to have overcome that fear when he gave a bold witness before the Sanhedrin. (Acts 5:27-29) However, some years later, “fearing those of the circumcised class,” he temporarily stopped eating with Gentile Christians. (Gal. 2:11, 12) Peter’s fear had returned. Perhaps he was never completely free of it.

18. Isagi asonbasinggi matangda cheksinningai oiba karamba waphamsing leibage?

18 We might find ourselves in a similar situation. How? A tendency that we thought we had put behind us might return to tempt us again. For example, one brother admits: “I resisted pornography for ten years and convinced myself that my problem was over. But the addiction was lying dormant, waiting for the right circumstance to rear its ugly head.” Commendably, he did not give up. He realized that he would need to put forth a daily effort to resist this vice​—perhaps for the rest of his life in this system of things. With the help of his wife and his congregation elders, he took stronger measures to resist pornography.

19. Isagi asonbasing karamna khudum chanba yagani?

19 How can we resist a persistent tendency so that we do not act on it? By following Jesus’ counsel with regard to temptation: “Keep on the watch.” Even during periods when you feel strong, continue to avoid situations that can lead to temptation. (1 Cor. 10:12) Keep applying the strategies that brought you success. Proverbs 28:14 states: “Happy is the man who is always on guard.”​—2 Pet. 3:14.

NGAAK SELLAGA LEIJABAGI PHANGGADABA THOUJALSING

20-21. (a) Athembada tadanaba ngaak sellaga leijabana eikhoina karamba thoujalsing phanggani? (b) Eikhoina kanna hotnajarabadi, Jehovahna eikhoigidamak kari toubigani? (2 Corinthiya 4:7)

20 We can be certain that keeping on guard against temptation is worth the effort. Whatever “temporary enjoyment” sin may offer, living by Jehovah’s standards will make us far happier. (Heb. 11:25; Ps. 19:8) That is because we are designed to live according to his ways. (Gen. 1:27) Thus we will enjoy a clean conscience and keep ourselves in line for everlasting life.​—1 Tim. 6:12; 2 Tim. 1:3; Jude 20, 21.

21 True, “the flesh is weak.” But this does not mean that we are helpless. Jehovah stands ready to give us the needed power. (Read 2 Corinthians 4:7.) Note, however, that it is the power beyond what is normal that God provides. The normal power​—the effort we put forth from day to day to guard against temptation—​is our responsibility to supply. If we do our part, we can be confident that Jehovah will answer our prayers for added strength when we need it. (1 Cor. 10:13) Yes, with Jehovah’s help, we can keep on guard against temptation.

47 SUBA ISHEI Pray to Jehovah Each Day

a EXPRESSIONS EXPLAINED: “The spirit” mentioned at Matthew 26:41 is the force within us that causes us to feel or act in the way that we do. “The flesh” is our imperfect sinful state. So we may have the best of intentions to do what is right, but if we are not careful, we could give in to the temptation to do what the Bible says is wrong.

b A person who has fallen into serious sin can find help in the Enjoy Life Forever! book, lesson 57 points 1-3, and in the article “‘Look Straight Ahead’ to the Future” in The Watchtower, November 2020, pp. 27-29, pars. 12-17.

c PICTURE DESCRIPTION: A brother reads the day’s text in the morning, reads the Bible on his lunch break, and attends the midweek meeting in the evening.