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Naha Oiribasing, Nakhoi Karamba Makhalgi Punsi Pambage?

Naha Oiribasing, Nakhoi Karamba Makhalgi Punsi Pambage?

“Wakhal tabana nahakpu ngak-sengani.”​—PAO. 2:11.

135 SUBA ISHEI Jehovah’s Warm Appeal: “Be Wise, My Son”

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1. Joyash, Uzziah, amasung Josiahna karamba aruba phibam thengnakhibage?

 IMAGINE becoming a king of God’s people when you are just a child or a teenager! How would you use your power and authority? The Bible tells us about several young ones who became kings of Judah. For example, Jehoash was just 7 years old, Uzziah was 16, and Josiah was 8. Think of the pressure they felt! Difficult as their situation was, all of them had the help needed to overcome challenges and to lead productive lives.

2. Joyash, Uzziah, amasung Josiahgi matangda eikhoina pukning changgadouriba karigino?

2 We are not kings or queens, but we can learn valuable lessons from these three Bible characters. They made good decisions, but they also made bad ones. Using their examples, we will see why we need to choose good associates, remain humble, and keep seeking Jehovah.

APHABA MARUPSING KHALLU

It is possible today to follow Jehoash’s example by listening to good associates (See paragraphs 3, 7) c

3. Purohitlen Jehoiadagi paotak injaduna Ningthou Joyashna karamba achumba warep loukhibage?

3 Imitate Jehoash’s wise decisions. When he was young, King Jehoash made a wise decision. Being without a father, he followed the direction of faithful High Priest Jehoiada. That priest instructed Jehoash as if he were his own son. In response, Jehoash wisely decided to take the lead in pure worship and serve Jehovah. Jehoash even arranged for Jehovah’s temple to be repaired.​—2 Chron. 24:1, 2, 4, 13, 14.

4. Jehovahgi yathangsing mamal leina loujabana eikhoida karamna kannaba pibage? (Paorou 2:1, 10-12)

4 If you are being taught to love Jehovah and to live by his standards, you are being given a valuable gift. (Read Proverbs 2:1, 10-12.) Parents can provide training in many ways. Consider how the father of a sister named Katya helped her to make good decisions. Each day as her father took her to school, he would discuss the daily text with her. “Those discussions,” she says, “helped me to handle difficult situations that came up during the day.” What, though, if the Bible-based direction your parents give you seems to restrict your freedom? What can help you to accept their guidance? A sister named Anastasia recalls that her parents took the time to explain why they made certain rules. She states, “That helped me to accept the limitations, not as mere restrictions, but as loving protection.”

5. Nahakna louba warepsing uraga nahakki ima ipa amasung Jehovahna karamna phaogani? (Paorou 22:6; 23:15, 24, 25)

5 As you apply the Scriptural advice you receive, you will make your parents happy. More important, you will make God happy and will build a lasting friendship with him. (Read Proverbs 22:6; 23:15, 24, 25.) Does that not give you good reason to imitate the example of Jehoash when he was young?

6. Joyashna kanagi paotak inba hourakkhibage, amasung madugi karamba mahei phangkhibage? (2 Itihas 24:17, 18)

6 Learn from Jehoash’s bad decisions. After Jehoiada died, Jehoash chose bad associates. (Read 2 Chronicles 24:17, 18.) He decided to listen to the princes of Judah who did not love Jehovah. You likely agree that Jehoash should have avoided those troublemakers. (Prov. 1:10) Instead, he listened to his so-called friends. In fact, when Jehoash’s cousin Zechariah tried to correct him, Jehoash had him put to death. (2 Chron. 24:20, 21; Matt. 23:35) How terrible and foolish! Jehoash began his life well, but sadly he became an apostate and a murderer. Finally, his own servants killed him. (2 Chron. 24:22-25) How different his life would have turned out had he continued to listen to Jehovah and to those who loved Him! What lesson would you like to take away from that example?

7. Karamba meeoisingbu nahakki marup oina khangadage? (Lai asisu yengbiyu.)

7 One lesson we can learn from Jehoash’s bad decision is that we need to choose friends who will be a good influence on us​—friends who love Jehovah and who want to make him happy. We do not need to limit our association to those in our own age group. Remember, Jehoash was much younger than his friend Jehoiada. Regarding your choice of friends, ask yourself: ‘Do they help me to strengthen my faith in Jehovah? Are they encouraging me to live by God’s standards? Do they talk about Jehovah and his valuable truths? Do they show respect for God’s standards? Do they just tell me what I might want to hear, or do they have the courage to correct me if I stray?’ (Prov. 27:5, 6, 17) Frankly, if your friends do not love Jehovah, you do not need them. But if you have friends who love Jehovah, hang on to them​—they will be good for you!​—Prov. 13:20.

8. Social media sijinnaba matamda eikhoina karamba waphamsing khanthagadage?

8 Social media can be an efficient way to stay in touch with family and friends. However, many people use this form of communication to impress others, posting photos and videos of what they have bought or done. If you use social media, ask yourself: ‘Is my motive to impress others? Is my goal to build others up, or is it to boost my image? Am I allowing the people who use this tool to influence my thinking, speech, and actions in a negative way?’ Brother Nathan Knorr, who served as a member of the Governing Body, gave this advice: “Don’t try to please men. You will wind up pleasing no one. Please Jehovah, and you will please all those who love Jehovah.”

NOLLUKCHARAGA ADUMAK LEIYU

9. Jehovahna Uzziahbu kari tounaba mateng pangkhibage? (2 Itihas 26:1-5)

9 Imitate Uzziah’s good decisions. As a youth, King Uzziah was humble. He learned “to fear the true God.” And Jehovah blessed him for most of his 68 years. (Read 2 Chronicles 26:1-5.) Uzziah defeated many of the nation’s enemies and strengthened Jerusalem’s defenses. (2 Chron. 26:6-15) Uzziah was surely happy with all that God had helped him to do.​—Eccl. 3:12, 13.

10. Uzziahda nollukpa watlakpadagi kari thokkhibage?

10 Learn from Uzziah’s bad decisions. King Uzziah was accustomed to having others follow his instructions. Did that make him think he could do anything he wanted? Well, one day Uzziah decided to enter Jehovah’s temple and presumptuously tried to burn incense on the altar, which kings were not allowed to do. (2 Chron. 26:16-18) High Priest Azariah tried to correct him, but Uzziah got very angry. Sadly, Uzziah ruined his record of faithful service and was punished with leprosy. (2 Chron. 26:19-21) How different his life would have turned out had he remained humble!

Rather than boast about our accomplishments, we should give Jehovah the credit for what we are able to do (See paragraph 11) d

11. Eikhoida nollukpa lei haibasi karidagi khangba ngamgani? (Lai asisu yengbiyu.)

11 When Uzziah became powerful, he forgot that Jehovah was the Source of his strength and prosperity. What is the lesson? We do well to remind ourselves that our blessings and privileges come from Jehovah. Rather than boast about our accomplishments, we should give Jehovah the credit for what we are able to do. b (1 Cor. 4:7) We must humbly realize that we are imperfect and need discipline. A brother in his 60’s wrote: “I have learned not to take myself too seriously. When I receive discipline for the childish mistakes that I sometimes make, I try to get back up and keep moving forward.” The reality is that when we fear Jehovah and keep a humble view of ourselves, our life will turn out well.​—Prov. 22:4.

JEHOVAHBU THIJARAGA ADUMAK LEIYU

12. Naha oiringei matamda Josiahna Jehovahbu karamna thijakhibage? (2 Itihas 34:1-3)

12 Imitate Josiah’s good decisions. Josiah was a teenager when he started to search for Jehovah. He wanted to learn about Jehovah and do His will. However, life was not easy for this young king. He had to take a stand for pure worship when false worship was prevalent. And indeed he did! Before Josiah was 20 years old, he began to remove false worship from the nation.​—Read 2 Chronicles 34:1-3.

13. Nahakna Jehovahgi maphamda katthokchaba haibasigi artha karino?

13 Even if you are very young, you can decide to imitate Josiah by searching for Jehovah and learning to appreciate His qualities. That fine course will move you to dedicate yourself to him. What will that dedication mean in your daily life? Luke, who got baptized at age 14, says, “From now on, I will put serving Jehovah first in my life and will try to make him happy.” (Mark 12:30) What a blessing it will be for you if you desire to do the same!

14. Naha kharana Ningthou Josiahgi matou karamna tambage haibagi khudam khara pibiyu.

14 What challenges might you face as a young servant of Jehovah? Johan, who got baptized at age 12, comments on the pressure that his classmates put on him to use electronic cigarettes​—vaping. To find strength to resist that pressure, Johan reminds himself that vaping could negatively affect both his health and his friendship with Jehovah. Rachel, baptized at age 14, explains what helps her to cope with the challenges she faces at school. She notes: “I try to relate what I see to something spiritual. For example, a history lesson may call to my mind a Bible account or a prophecy. Or a conversation may remind me of a useful scripture I can share with someone.” The challenges you face may differ from those King Josiah faced, but you can be wise and loyal, as he was. Dealing with trials as a youth will prepare you to face other challenges in the years ahead.

15. Jehovahbu haiba injana seba tounaba Josiahbu karina mateng pangkhibage? (2 Itihas 34:14, 18-21)

15 As an adult, King Josiah began to have the temple renovated. During that work, “the book of Jehovah’s Law given through Moses” was found. On hearing it read, the king was moved to take action by complying with what it said. (Read 2 Chronicles 34:14, 18-21.) Would you like to read the Bible regularly? If you are trying, how is it going? Do you keep track of verses that may help you personally? Luke, mentioned earlier, writes down in a journal interesting points that he finds. Would doing something similar help you to recall verses or points that you like? The more you get to know and love the Bible, the more you will want to serve Jehovah. And like King Josiah, you will be moved to action by God’s Word.

16. Josiahna achouba asoiba ama toukhriba karigino, aduga madudagi eikhoina kari tamba phangbage?

16 Learn from Josiah’s bad decision. When Josiah was about 39 years old, he made a mistake that cost him his life. He trusted in himself instead of asking Jehovah for guidance. (2 Chron. 35:20-25) There is a lesson here. No matter how old we are or how long we have been studying the Bible, we must keep searching for Jehovah. That involves regularly praying for his guidance, studying his Word, and benefiting from the advice of mature Christians. We will then be less likely to make big mistakes and more likely to be happy.​—Jas. 1:25.

NAHA OIRIBASING, NAKHOIGI PUNSI NUNGAINA HINGBA YAI

17. Jihudagi Ningthou ahum asigi matangdagi eikhoina karamba maruoiba waphamsing khangba ngambage?

17 Youth is a time of fine opportunities. The record of Jehoash, Uzziah, and Josiah illustrates that young ones can make wise choices and follow a course that pleases Jehovah. True, a good outcome is not guaranteed, as we noted. Nonetheless, we can imitate the good that these kings did and avoid making the mistakes they made. Then we can look forward to a good outcome.

Young David drew close to Jehovah. He gained God’s approval, and his life turned out well (See paragraph 18)

18. Bibleda yaoramba karamba khudamsingdagi eikhoigi punsi nungaina hingba yagani haibasi karamna khangba ngambage? (Lai asisu yengbiyu.)

18 The Scriptures contain accounts of other youths who drew close to Jehovah, had his favor, and saw their life turn out well. David was one of them. At a young age, he chose God’s side and later became a loyal king. Granted, he on occasion made mistakes, but overall God approved of him. (1 Ki. 3:6; 9:4, 5; 14:8) You can be encouraged and motivated by studying about David’s life and faithful service. Or you can focus your study project on the example of Mark or of Timothy. You will see that they served Jehovah from a young age and gained a lasting record of God’s approval; it turned out very well for them.

19. Nahakki punsi karamba makhalgi punsi oihanba yabage?

19 How your life turns out may be determined by how you use it right now. Your trusting in Jehovah and not in your own understanding will lead to His directing your steps. (Prov. 20:24) You can have a happy and rewarding life. Remember, Jehovah values what you do for him. What better way could you use your life than by serving our loving heavenly Father?

144 SUBA ISHEI Keep Your Eyes on the Prize!

a Young ones, Jehovah knows that you face challenges that could test your friendship with him. How can you make wise decisions that will please your heavenly Father? We will consider the examples of three boys who became kings of Judah. See what you can learn from their decisions.

b See the box “Beware of the ‘Humble Brag’” found in the jw.org article “How Important Is Online Popularity?”

c PICTURE DESCRIPTION: A mature sister offers wise advice to a younger sister.

d PICTURE DESCRIPTION: A sister who shares in an assembly part relies on Jehovah and gives him credit.