Umfazi oncomekayo wenza umkakhe abe lesithunzi. Ngesikhathi seNkosi uLemuweli indoda eyayilomfazi okhutheleyo ‘yayihlonitshwa enkundleni.’ (Zag 31:23) Lamuhla amadoda ahloniphekayo akhonza njengabadala lezinceku ezikhonzayo. Ikanti nxa betshadile indlela omkabo abaziphatha ngayo lendlela ababancedisa ngayo yiyo ezakutsho ukuthi bayafaneleka yini. (1Tim 3:4, 11) Ibandla kanye labomkabo bayawabonga amakhosikazi enza kuhle kangaka.

• ngokumkhuthaza ngamazwi amahle.—Zag 31:26

• ngokumnika isikhathi sokwenza imisebenzi yebandla.—1The 2:7, 8

• ngokusuthiseka ngalokho abalakho.—1Tim 6:8

• ngokungabuzi izindaba zebandla eziyimfihlo.—1Tim 2:11, 12; 1Phe 4:15