Ujayele ukwenzani nxa kumele ukhethe phakathi kokuqondileyo lokungaqondanga? Abanye balandela umzwangedwa wabo kumbe izinto abazifundiswayo. Ikanti abanye benza izinqumo belandela imibono yabanye. Wena kuyini okukuncedayo ukuthi ukwazi okuqondileyo lokungaqondanga? Kuyini okungakunceda ukuthi wenze izinqumo ezizakwenza ukuthi wena lemuli yakho libe lekusasa elihle?