Kunengi esikuzwayo okwenza imitshado ichitheke. Kodwa kuyini okwenza eminye iphumelele?

• Kusukela ngomnyaka ka-1990 kusiyaku-2015, inani labantu abadivosayo abaleminyaka engu-50 laliphindwe kabili njalo elabaleminyaka ephezu kwengu-65 laliphindwe kathathu e-United States.

• Abazali abasakwazi ukuthi benzeni: Ezinye izingcitshi zithi abantwana kumele bahlale benconywa kodwa ezinye zithi kufanele baphathwe ngesandla esiqinileyo.

• Abasakhulayo baze babengabantu abadala bengelalwazi olungabenza baphumelele.

Lanxa kunjalo iqiniso yikuthi . . .

• Umtshado ungahlala isikhathi eside njalo ube lentokozo.

• Abazali bangenelisa ukuqondisa abantwababo ngothando.

• Abasakhulayo bangaluthola ulwazi oluzabanceda sebekhulile.

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