Omunywani Otari wa Buzima

Teera akashushani oine “omunywani” ou waakuzire nawe kuruga omu bunyeeto. Akaba naakureetera kwehurira nk’okuzire kandi akaba naakureetera kuhurira gye waaba ori n’ab’orwingano rwawe. Ku waabaire oyerarikirira, akaba akureetera “kwikaikana.” Buzima, akuhweraire omu mbeera nyingi.

Kwonka bwanyima y’obwire, otandika kureeba ebibi bye. Naayenda ngu obe nawe akaire koona, n’obu emyanya emwe erikukureetera kwehurira kubi. Kandi, n’obu akureeteire kwehurira nk’okuzire, akikozire arikuhitsya akabi aha magara gaawe. Okukira munonga, aibire ekicweka kihango ky’entaatsya yaawe.

Kandi hati, n’obu orikuteeraho kuhendera omukago gwanyu, tarikukwikiriza kukikora. Ahindukire mukama waawe. Nooyefuuza ahabw’enki waamunywanire.

OMUKAGO nk’ogwo nigwo abarikureetsa baingi baine na tsigara. Omukazi orikwetwa Earline bwanyima y’okumara emyaka 50 arikureetsa, naagira ati: “Tsigara ekaba neempwera kukira omuntu. Ekaba neekira omunywani ou mmazire nawe obwire buraingwa, obumwe niyo munywani wenka ou naabaire mba nyine.” Nk’oku Earline yaayetegyereize, tsigara nk’omunywani otari owaabuzima kandi ow’akabi munonga. Buzima, ebigambo ebi twatandika nabyo bikaba nibigamba ahariwe. Kwonka, ku yaamanyire ngu okureetsa ni kibi omu maisho ga Ruhanga ahabw’okugira ngu nikishiisha emibiri yaitu, akacwa omuze ogwo.—2 Abakorinso 7:1.

Omushaija orikwetwa Frank nawe akacwa omuze ogwo kugira ngu ashemeze Ruhanga. Kwonka bwanyima y’eizooba nka rimwe arekyeire aho okureetsa akeeshanga arikwajura ahansi omu nsi ye arikusherura obutsigarira bwa tsigara. Franka naagira ati “ekyo kikandabura. Okushanga ninyajura ndikusherura omuri kasasiro obutsigarira bwa tsigara, n’ekintu ekyabaire nikinugwa ahariinye. N’ahabw’ekyo tindagarukire kureetsa.”

Ahabw’enki kigumire munonga okucwa okureetsa etaabe? Abacondooza batungire enshonga nyingi: (1) Okukoresa ebirikukorwa omu taabe nikibaasa kuhinduka omuze nk’emibazi y’ekitabura bwongo. (2) Etaabe erimu obwanga oburikubaasa kuhika aha bwongo omu butikitiki mushanju bwonka. (3) Obwire obwingi okureetsa niguhinduka omuze gugumire eicwa aha muntu ahabw’okumanyiira kukikora nk’ebindi bindi bikorwa, nk’okurya, okunywa, okugaaniira, okutuubya aha birikukwerarikiriza, n’ebindi.

Kwonka, nk’oku kyahikire ahari Earline na Frank, nikibaasika kucwa omuze gw’akabi ogu. Waaba nooreetsa kwonka orikwenda kurekyera aho, okushoma ebicweka ebirikukurataho nikiza kukuhwera kutandika embeera nsya.