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Bzingadakhala kuti imwepo ndimwe Tomás, mungadacita tani?

Sikuti imwepo mulibiretu mphanvu na ibodziyo! Kulewa cadidi, imwepo mungakwanise kukunda munthu omwe ambakuboneresani mwakusaya kumenyana naye. Kodi mungacite tani bzimwebzo?

•   LEKANI KULATIZA KUTI BZAKUTOKONYANI. Bibliya limbati: ‘Munthu wakupusa ambacosa ukali bwace bwense, koma munthu wanzeru ambakhala wakuderekha na wakubziphata.’ (Mimwani 29:11) Mukaderekha, mucilatiza kuti mulibe kutokonyedwa na bzomwe bzalewedwabzo, napo penu bzakuwawanidi, nyakukuboneresaniyo an’dzacita utofu.

• LEKANI KUBWEZERA. Bibliya limbati: ‘Lekani kubwezera cakuipa na cakuipa.’ (Waroma 12:17) Kubwezera kumbandocitisa kuti bzinthu bziipiretu.

• TCHENKHANI MBUTO ZOMWE WANTHU ANGAKUBONERESENI. Bibliya limbati: ‘Nyakucenjera ngule omwe akawona tsoka ambabisalika.’ (Mimwani 22:3) Citani ciri-cense kuti muleke kukhala pafupi na wanthu ayai mbuto zomwe wanthu angakubonereseni.

• TAWIRANI MU NJIRA YOMWE NYAKUKUBONERESANIYO AKHAIDIKHIRA LINI. Bibliya limbati: ‘Kutawira kwa kuderekha kumbabweza ukali.’ (Mimwani 15:1) Imwepo mungatawire mwa mthabwala. Mwa ciratizo, penu munthuyo akulewani kuti mudanenepa kwene-kwene, imwepo mungatawire kuti: “N’cadidi, ndin’funikadi kuwonda pang’ono.”

• COKANI PA MBUTOPO. Mtsikana munango wa magole 19 yakubadwa omwe dzina lace ni Nora, adati: “Kunyamala, kumbalatiza kuti iwepo ndiwe munthu wakukhwima, ndipo una mphanvu kuposa munthu omwe ankukuboneresayo. Ndipo kumbalatizambo kuti ndiwe munthu wakudziwa kubziphata.”—2 Timotio 2:24.

• LEKANI KUMBABZIPENUKIRA. Wanthu omwe ambaboneresa anzawo ambakwanisa kuwona kuti munthuyu ungamulokotere, iye acisaya kukucita cinthu. Tsono azinji omwe ambaboneresa anzawo, ambasiya kuboneresa wanthu omwe ambabzikhulupira na omwe ambawagopa lini.

• UZANI AKULU-AKULU BZOMWE BZINKUKUCITIKIRANIBZO. Munthu munango omwe adasiya kupfunzisa, adati: “Inepano ndinkulimbisa munthu ali-wense omwe ankuboneresedwa na anzace kuti auze akulu-akulu bzomwe bzinkumucitikirabzo. Imweyi ni njira yabwino yomwe ingathandize kuti wanthuwo asiye kumbamuboneresa.”