Khalidwe la tsankhulo limbamala lini kabodzi na kabodzi. Bziri ninga matenda, kuti yamale pambatenga nthawe. Mpsibodzi-bodzimbo na tsankhulo, pambatenga nthawe kuti limale. Tsono mungacite ciyani kuti mumalise tsankhulo?

‘Bvalani lufoyi, pakuti limbaphatanidzisa wanthu mwamphanvu kwene-kwene kuposa cinthu ciri-centse.’—WAKOLOSO 3:14.

Kodi bzimwebzi bzikuthandauza ciyani? Bzicito bzabwino bzimbathandiza wanthu kukhala wakuphatana. Mukambalatiza kuti mumbafuna wanthu, mun’dzakhala lini na tsankhulo. Ndipo mukadzaza mu mtima mwanu na lufoyi, mu mtimamo mun’dzawoneka lini mbuto ya makumbukidwe yakuipa, ninga ukali na ciwengo.

Penu imwepo muna makumbukidwe yakuphonyeka yakulewa bza mtundu unango wa wanthu, kumbukirani bzomwe mungacite kuti mulatize lufoyi wanthuwo. Mwa ciratizo, bzinthubzo bzingakhale ibzi:

• Kuwalatiza makhalidwe yabwino mwa kuwafungulira msuwo ayai kuwapasa mbuto yanu mukakhala kuti mwapakira kanderendere yomwe muna wanthu azinji.

• Kuyambisa maceza napo kuti iwo ambalewalewa lini bwino cirewedwe canu.

• Kugwesa nfuwa akakhala kuti acita cinthu comwe mukucibvesesa lini.

• Kuwatetekera bwino na kuleka kuwagwata mafala akakhala kuti akufotokoza mabvuto yawo.