parho ki kareena naal kee hoya atey kalpna karo ki tuhade naal vi idda hi hoya hai. je tusi kareena di jagah hunde, taa tusi kee karde?

 kareena: “college jandya mai bahut tez gaddi chala rehi si te ik police vale ne mainu rok lya te mera chalan katt ditta. mai bahut pareshan ho gayi. mai mummy nu dassya te ohna ne mainu keha ki tainu sara kujh apne daddy nu dassna paina. mai daddy nu nahi dassna chahundi si.”

  tusi kee karoge?

1.  1. tusi chupp rahoge te chahoge ki daddy nu pata na lagge.

2.  2. daddy nu sara kujh saaf-saaf dass devoge.

 tuhanu shayad pehli gall saukhi lagge. shayad tuhadi mummy nu lagge ki tusi apne daddy nu sara kujh dass ditta hai atey apni galti mann layi hai. chahe galti chalan kattan di hove ja koi hor, par galti mann-ni hamesha changi hundi hai.

1.  1. is tarha karna sahi hai. masihi hon de nate, sanu bible di eh gall mann-ni chaheedi hai: “asi har gall vich imandari to kamm laina chahunde ha.”​—ibraniya 13:18.

    “mai poori koshish kardi ha ki mai sach bola atey jaldi to jaldi apni galti mann lava.”​—alexis.

2.  2. galti mannan valya nu lok jaldi maaf kar dinde han. bible kehndi hai: “jehrra apne apradha nu luko lainda hai oh safal nahi hunda, par jo ohna nu mann ke chhadd dinda hai oh de utte raham keeta javega.”​—kahauta 28:13.

    “apni galti mannan layi himmat di lorr paindi hai. par is tarha kar ke tusi doosrya da bharosa jitt sakde ho. doosrya nu pata laggda hai ki tusi imandar ho. apni galti mann ke tusi burayi nu bhaliayi vich badalde ho.”​—richrad.

3.  3. sabh to zaroori hai ki galti mannan naal yahovah parmeshwar khush hunda hai. bible kehndi hai: “kabbe to yahovah nu ghin aaundi hai, par sachyaara naal oh di dosti hai.”​—kahauta 3:32.

    “ik gambheer galti karan to baad mainu ehsas hoya ki mainu apni galti mannan di lorr si. yahovah to barkat paaun layi zaroori si ki mai apni galti mann lava.”​—rechal.

 so kareena ne galti hon te kee keeta? os ne apne daddy nu nahi dassya ki os da chalan katt hoya si. par oh eh gall lambe same tak nahi chhupa saki. kareena dassdi hai: “ik saal baad jado mere daddy ne car de beeme de kagaz dekhe, taa ohna nu pata lagg gaya ki mera chalan katt hoya si. mainu daddy ji ne bahut jhirrka mariya, itho tak ki mummy ji vi mainu bahut gusse hoye ki mai daddy nu dassya kyo nahi!”

 sabak: kareena kehndi hai: “galtiya chhupaun naal mushkla vadh-diya hi han. tuhanu kade-na-kade taa apni galti da harjana bhugtna hi painda hai.

 sare hi galtiya karde han. (romiya 3:23; 1 yuhanna 1:8) vadiya hovega ki asi jaldi to jaldi apni galti mann layiye. is tarha kar ke asi samajhdari atey nimarta da saboot dinde ha.

 agla kadam hai, apnia galtiya to sikhna. dukh di gall hai ki kujh naujavan apnia galtiya to nahi sikhde. oh shayad prisila naa di naujavan vang mehsoos karan. oh kehndi hai: “mai apnia galtiya karke bahut ziada nirash ho jandi si. mai apne bare ghatiya mehsoos kardi si. is layi mainu galtiya bhaari bojh vang laggdiya san jis nu mai chukk nahi sakdi si. mai inni nirash ho jandi si ki mai apne aap nu nikamma samjhdi si.”

 kee tuhanu vi kade-kade idda hi laggda? je ha, taa yaad rakho: “apnia galtiya bare sochi jana car chalaunde vele sheeshe raahi pichhe dekhan vang hai. pichhliya galtiya bare sochan naal tuhanu laggega ki tusi nikamme ho atey tusi aaun valiya mushkla da samna nahi kar sakoge.

 is di bajaye, kyo na sahi nazria rakho?

 “apnia pichhliya galtiya bare socho atey ohna to sikho taaki tusi ohna nu duhrao na. par ohna bare inna ziada na socho ki tusi nirash ho jao.”​—elliot.

 “mai koshish kardi ha ki mai apni har galti to sabak sikh ke apne aap vich sudhar karaa atey agli vaar mai fir ohi galti na duhrava. is tarha da nazria rakh ke mainu samajhdar bannan vich madad mildi hai.”​—veera.