je tusi internet vartde ho, taa kade-na-kade tuhadi nazar gandiya tasveera ja kise ashleel website te pai hi javegi. 17 saala di heli kehndi hai: “ajj-kall tuhanu gandiya websitaa dekhan di lorr nahi paindi. eh sitaa tuhanu labh laindiya han.”

 ohna lokaa nu vi gandiya tasveera ja video dekhan di aadat pai sakdi hai jinha ne ihna nu na dekhan da pakka thanya hunda hai. 18 saala da greg kehnda hai: “mai pakka irada keeta si ki mai gandiya tasveera nahi dekhanga, par mai dekh laiya. tusi eh nahi keh sakde ki tuhade naal kade idda nahi hovega.”

 ajj gandiya tasveera ja filma pehla nalo kite aasani naal dekhiya ja sakdiya han. ajj mobile ja internet raahi munde-kudiya ashleel message, apnia ashleel tasveera ja video doosrya nu bhejde han.

 mukh gall: jado tuhade maape, dada-dadi ja nana-nani tuhadi umar de san, odo gandiya tasveera ja filma aasani naal nahi mildiya san. par savaal eh kharha hunda hai, kee tusi gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan to bach sakde ho?​—zaboora di pothi 97:10.

 ha. par eh tuhade te nirbhar karda hai. par pehla tuhanu khud nu eh yakeen hona chaheeda hai ki gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhniya galat han. aao is vishe naal sambandhit kujh sach atey jhooth janiye.

 jhooth: gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhan naal mainu koi nuksan nahi hovega.

 sach: jidda cigarette peen naal tuhade fefrrya te maarra asar painda hai, ose tarha gandiya tasveera atey filma da tuhade dimag te galat asar painda hai. nale is gall layi tuhadi kadar ghatt sakdi hai ki parmeshwar ne do insaana nu mazboot bandhan vich bannhya hai taaki oh umar bhar ik-dooje da saath den. (utpat 2:24) same de beetan naal, tuhanu is gall naal koi farak nahi pavega ki kee sahi hai te kee galat. misal layi, kayi mahar kehnde han ki jehrre aadmi lagatar gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhde rehnde han, oh aasani naal aurta te hath chukk sakde han.

  bible kujh lokaa bare dassdi hai jinha ne “besharmi diya sariya hadda paar kar” dittiya. (afsiya 4:19) ohna di zameer is hadd tak sunn ho gayi ki ohna nu bure kamm kardya koi farak nahi paida.

 jhooth: gandiya tasveera atey filma to tusi sex bare sikh sakde ho.

 sach: gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhan naal tusi lalchi bann jande ho. tusi lokaa nu bas apni havas poori karan da zaria samajhde ho. ik adhiyen to pata lagga hai ki jinha lokaa nu gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhan di aadat hundi hai, ohna nu viah to baad apne jeevan saathi naal sambandh rakh ke vi santushti nahi mildi.

  bible kehndi hai ki masihiya nu “haramkari, gand-mand, kaam-vashna, buri ichha atey lobh” to door rehna chaheeda hai. (kulussiya 3:5) gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhan naal eh ichhava paida hundiya han.

 jhooth: jehrre lok gandiya tasveera atey filma nahi dekhde, oh sex bare gall karan to sharmindgi mehsoos karde han.

 sach: jehrre lok gandiya tasveera atey filma nahi dekhde, ohna da sex bare sahi nazria hunda hai. oh mannde han ki sex ik tohfa hai jo rab ne viahya nu ditta hai taaki ohna da viah da bandhan mazboot ho sake atey oh ik-dooje da saath nibhaun da vaada poora kar sakan. jehrre lok eh nazria rakhde han, ohna nu viah to baad apne viahuta saathi naal sambandh banaa ke ziada santushti mildi hai.

  bible sex bare khull ke dassdi hai. misal layi, is vich patiya nu keha gaya hai: “juaani di vahuti naal anand rahu. . . . atey nitt ose de prem naal mohit rahu.”​—kahauta 5:18, 19.

 odo kee, jado tuhanu laggda hai ki tusi gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan di zabardast ichha te kaabu nahi pa sakde? “gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan di aadat to kive chhutkara payiye?” naa de abhyaas naal tuhadi madad ho sakdi hai.

 yakeen rakho ki tusi gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhan di ichha te kaabu pa sakde ho. je tusi gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhde ho, taa vi tusi ihna nu dekhna band kar sakde ho. idda karan naal tuhanu hi faida hovega.

 kailvin di misal te gaur karo. oh mannda hai ki os nu lagbhag 13 saal di umar vich gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan di aadat pai gayi si. oh dassda hai: “mainu pata si ki mai galat kar reha ha, par mere to gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan di ichha te kaabu nahi ho reha si. eh sara kujh dekh ke mainu apne aap te sharam aaundi si. fir mere daddy nu is bare pata lagg gaya. sachi dassa, mai bahut khush si. hun meri madad karan vala koi si.”

 kelvin ne gandiya tasveera atey filma dekhan di aadat to chhutkara pa lya. oh kehnda hai: “gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan di aadat pa ke mai bahut vaddi galti keeti jis da harjana mai aje tak bhar reha ha kyoki ajj vi meriya akkha agge oh tasveera ghumman lagg paindiya han. nale kade-kade mera dil gandiya tasveera ja filma dekhan nu karda hai. par mai sochda ha ki yahovah di ichha anusar kamm kar ke mai kinna ziada khush ha, mera chaal-chalan shudh hai atey mainu vadiya bhavikh di umeed hai.”