hetha ditte shabd dekho atey fir agge ditte savaala de javab dyo.

1.  1. filma, ti. vi. atey rasalya vich aksar naujavan kudiya nu kis tarha diya dikhaya janda hai?

2.  2. tusi kee chahoge ki lokaa vich tuhadi keho jehi pachhaan bane?

 laggda hai ki tusi pehle savaal da javab dabbi 1 vicho dyoge atey dooje savaal da javab dabbi 2 vicho dyoge. je ha, taa is da matlab hai ki tusi media duaara dikhaiya jandiya kudiya vang bannan di bajaye vadiya kudiya ban-na chahundiya ho. bahut sariya kudiya ehi chahundiya han. gaur karo ki kyo.

 “filma vich kudiya nu aksar baagi dikhaya janda hai atey ohna da ravaiya vi sahi nahi hunda. idda laggda jidda filma vich sirf dikhaya janda hai ki sariya kudiya ehi sochdiya han ki dooje ohna bare keho jeha nazria rakhde han atey oh chhoti to chhoti gall nu vadha-charha ke pesh kardiya han.”​—arin.

 “filma atey ti. vi. vich kudiya nu dikhaya janda hai ki oh chahundiya han ki sare jane ohna vall dhyaan den. oh apni dikh, kappde, mashhoori atey mundya bare hi sochdiya rehndiya han.”​—naitli.

 “ehi dikhaya janda hai ki ‘mauj-masti’ karan valiya kudiya sharaab peendiya han, mundya naal sambandh banaundiya han atey apne maapya de adheen nahi hundiya. jado kise kudi nu idda de kamm kardya nahi dikhaya janda, taa os nu dharmi ja saoo dikhaya janda hai.”​—maria.

 apne aap to puchho: ‘kee mere kappdya, meri chaal-dhaal atey meri bolchal to pata laggda hai ki mai kaun ha ja mai media vich dikhaiya jandiya kudiya di sirf nakal kardi ha?’

•   bahut sare naujavan sochde han ki oh apni alag pachhaan banaa rahe han, par oh asal vich os cheez di nakal karde han jo media vich dikhaya janda hai. keran naa di naujavan kehndi hai: “mai apni chhoti bhen nu idda kardya dekhdi ha. oh pakhand kardi hai ki os nu kappdya te mundya to ilava kise hor cheez di koi parvah nahi hai. oh bahut hushyaar hai atey mainu pata hai ki os nu hor cheeza di vi parvah hai, par oh dikhava kardi hai ki oh moorkh hai kyoki oh sochdi hai ki is tarha kar ke oh ‘hor kudiya’ vargi bann sakdi hai. oh taa sirf 12 saala di hai!”

   bible dassdi hai: “is duniya de lokaa di nakal karni chhadd dyo.”​—romiya 12:2.

•   media vich eh nahi dikhaya janda ki sariya naujavan kudiya keho jehiya ban-na chahundiya han. 15 saala di alex kehndi hai: “media vich dikhaya janda hai ki kudiya sirf apne vich hi mast rehndiya han, bevakoofi atey nasamjhi vale kamm kardiya han. par mainu idda laggda hai ki ziadatar kudiya samajhdar hundiya han. kudiya kol apni zindagi vich kise sohne munde de supne lain to ilava hor vi bahut sare kamm hunde han.”

   bible dassdi hai: ‘samajhdar lok apni sochan-samjhan di kabliyat nu istemal kar ke sahi te galat vich farak dekhan de mahar bann gaye han.’​—ibraniya 5:14.

•  ihna karke vapaariya nu faida hunda hai, na ki naujavan kudiya nu. vapaariya nu manoranjan, fashion, technology atey rasalya de faidya da pata hai. is layi oh naujavana nu 13 saala de hon to pehla hi nishana banaa lainde han. ik kitab dassdi hai: “mashhooriya banaun vale 10 to 13 saala de bachya nu kehnde han ki je ohna kol nave to nave fashion de kappde, gehne, makeup ja electronic cheeza nahi han, taa oh mashhoor nahi ho sakde. naujavan ihna mashhooriya nu dekhde rehnde han, par ohna nu ihna de khatrya bare nahi pata hunda.

   bible dassdi hai: “kyoki duniya vich jo kujh vi hai yani sareer di lalsa atey akkha di lalsa atey apni dhan-daulat te haisiyat da dikhava, eh sabh kujh pita to nahi, sago duniya to hai.”​—1 yuhanna 2:16.

 zara socho: je tusi har vele mashhoor designer de kappdya bare sochde rehnde ho, taa kis nu sabh to ziada faida hovega? je tusi apne dosta vich mashhoor hon layi nave to nava mobile khareed lainde ho, taa kis nu faida hovega? vapaariya nu kis da fikar hunda hai, tuhada ja apna?

•   media vich jo dikhaya janda hai, os bare socho ki kee sahi hai te kee galat. vadde ho ke tuhade andar inni kabliyat paida ho jandi hai ki tusi cheeza dekh ke bharmaye nahi jande. apni sochan-samjhan di kabliyat vart ke socho ki media vich dikhaiya jandiya cheeza da mere te kee asar pai sakda hai. aalana kehndi hai: “media vich ohi kudi nu sohni dikhaya janda hai jo kappdya to ziada makeup kardi hai. 10 to 13 saala diya bahut sariya kudiya eh gall samajh hi nahi paundiya ki idda karke oh sohniya nahi laggdiya, sago doosrya da dhyaan apne vall khich rehiya hundiya han.”

•   tusi jis tarha de insaan ban-na chahunde ho, os tarha de teeche rakho. misal layi, is lekh de shuru vich dasse gunna bare socho jehrre tusi apne vich paida karne chahunde ho. kyo na hun to hi ihna gunna nu apne vich paida karan ja apne aap vich hor sudhar karan di koshish karo? bible dassdi hai: “nave subhaa nu nave kappde vang pehen lo yani sahi giaan lai ke apne subhaa nu parmeshwar de subhaa anusar nava banaunde raho jis ne is nu sirjya hai.” media vich dikhaye jande naujavana varge na bano.​—kulussiya 3:10.

•   sahi lokaa di rees karo. shayad tuhade parivar vich koi hove, jive tuhadi mummy, masi, chachi. tuhadi koi samajhdar saheli ja koi jaan-pachhaan vali samajhdar aurat ho sakdi hai jis di tusi rees kar sakde ho. tusi yahovah de gavaha diya mandliya vich bahut sariya vadiya aurta di misal to faida lai sakde han.​—titus 2:3-5.

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