kade-na-kade tuhade bachya nu asafalta ja haar da samna karna painda hai. par tusi apne bachya di madad kive kar sakde ho?

•  tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda?

•  tusi kee kar sakde ho?

 asafalta zindagi da hissa hai. bible kehndi hai ki “asi sare jane . . . galtiya karde ha.” (yakoob 3:2) so bache vi galtiya karde han. asafalta da changa asar ho sakda hai kyoki is naal tuhada bacha mushkla de bavjood date rehna sikhega. bachya vich janam to hi eh kabliyat nahi hundi, par oh eh kabliyat paida kar sakde han. laura dassdi hai: “mera te mere pati da mann-na hai ki sanu apne bachya di madad karni chaheedi hai ki oh apni asafalta nu kabool karan atey ihna da samna karna sikhan. nale jado bachya diya umeeda mutabak kujh nahi hunda, taa vi oh agge vadh-de rehnge.”

 bahut sare bache asafalta da samna nahi kar paunde. kayi bache asafalta da samna karna nahi sikh paunde kyoki ohna de maape ohna nu ehsas karaunde han ki ohna ne koi galti nahi keeti. misal layi, je kise bache de number ghatt aaunde han, taa kujh maape sara dosh teechra nu dinde han. je kise bache da apne dost naal jhagrra ho janda hai, taa maape sara dosh os dost de mathe marh dinde han.

 par je maape bachya nu galtiya de natijya to bachaunge, taa bache apnia galtiya nu kabool karna kive sikhange?

•   apne bachya nu sikhao ki har kamm de change-maarre natije nikalde han.

   bible kehndi hai: “insaan jo beejda hai, ohi vadd-da hai.”—galatiya 6:7.

   har kamm da koi-na-koi natija nikalda hai. jado asi koi nuksan karde ha, taa sanu os di keemat chukauni paindi hai. bachya nu eh asool pata hona chaheeda hai ki oh jo vi kamm karde han os de change-maarre natije nikalde han. is layi apne bachya diya galtiya da dosh doosrya de mathe na mado atey na hi bahane banao. is di bajaye, bachya di umar mutabak ohna nu natija bhugtan dyo. bina shakk is tarha karan naal bache nu ehsas hovega ki maarre kamma de maarre natije nikalde han.

•   mushkla da hall labhan layi apne bachya di madad karo.

   bible da asool: “dharmi satt vari digg ke utth khaloda hai.”—kahauta 24:16.

   asafalta dukhdaik ho sakdi hai, par is da matlab eh nahi ki is da koi hall hi nahi hai. apne bachya di madad karo ki oh apna sara dhyaan mushkla da hall labhan utte laun na ki mushkla ’te. misal layi, je tuhada munda school de kise taisat vicho fel ho janda hai, taa os di eh samjhan vich madad karo ki oh sakht mehnat kar ke agli vaar change number lai sakda hai. (kahauta 20:4) je tuhadi kudi di kise dost naal behes ho jandi hai, taa os di madad karo ki oh maafi mangan vich pehel kare, bhave galti jis di marzi hove.—romiya 12:18; 2 timothius 2:24.

•   bachya nu sahi nazria rakhna sikhao.

   bible da asool: “mai . . . tuhanu har ik nu kehnda ha ki tusi apne aap nu lorro vadh na samjho.”—romiya 12:3.

   apne bache nu eh kehna ki oh “sabh to vadiya” hai, is vich naa taa koi sachayi hai te na hi is naal bache di koi madad hovegi. je dekhya jave, taa jehrre bache parhayi vich hushyaar hunde han ohna de vi har vaar vadiya number nahi aaunde. nale jehrre bache kheda vich vadiya hunde han ohna nu vi kade-na-kade haar da muh dekhna hi painda. oh bache jo khud bare sahi nazria rakhde han, ohi sahi tareeke naal asafalta atey haar da samna kar paunde han.

   bible kehndi hai ki mushkla sanu mazboot kar sakdiya atey dheeraj da gunn paida karan vich madad kar sakdiya han. (yakoob 1:2-4) bhave asafalta atey haar karke dukh taa laggda hai, par tusi apne bache di madad karo taaki oh nirasha vich na dubbe.

   bachya nu mushkla de bavjood date rehen di sikhya deni ik hunar sikhaun vang hai jis vich sama atey takat taa laggegi hi. par tuhanu tuhadi mehnat da fal odo milega jado tuhade bache allad umar vich pair rakhange atey mushkla da samna karan layi tyaar honge. pyaar atey vishvas naal apne bache nu azaadi dyo (angrezi) kitab kehndi hai, “jinha naujavana vich mushkla da samna karan di kabliyat hundi hai, oh moorkhta bhare kamm karan to bach sakde han. nale oh achanak paida hoye kise vi halaat da sahi dhang naal samna kar sakde han.” bina shakk mushkla de bavjood date rehen de faide ohna nu vadde hon te vi hunde rehnge.

 sujhaa: misal rakho. tusi jis tareeke naal nirash karan vale halaata da samna karde ho, tuhade bache vi ose tareeke naal ajehe halaata da samna karna sikhange.