“asi pehli vaar apni dhee naal sharaab bare odo gall keeti jado oh chhe saala di si. asi hairan reh gaye kyoki jinna asi sochde si, oh os nalo kite ziada is bare jaandi si.”​—alexander.

•  tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda?

•  tusi kee kar sakde ho?

•  bible sharaab bare kee kehndi hai?

 bachya naal sharaab bare gall karni zaroori hai. apne bache de alarr umar da hon da intazar na karo. roos da rehen vala hamet dassda hai: “kaash asi apne munde naal sharaab di sahi varto bare odo hi gall keeti hundi jado oh aje chhota hi si! mai apne kaurre tajarbe to sikhya ki is bare gall karni kinni zaroori hai. mainu pata lagga ki 13 saal di umar to mera munda sharaab peenda si.

 tuhanu is gall di parvah kyo karni chaheedi hai?

•   sharaab bare bache de nazriye ’te naal parhan valya, mashhooriya atey ti. vi. da asar pai sakda hai.

•   amreeka vich rog niyntran atey roktham kendar di report anusar amreeka vich 11 pratishat sharaab chhoti umar de bache peende han.

 is vich koi hairani vali gall nahi hai ki sehat adhikari maapya nu chhoti umar to hi apne bachya nu sharaab peen de khatrya bare dassan di salah dinde han. oh eh kive kar sakde han?

 socho ki tuhade bache kehrre savaal puchhange. chhote bache jaanan layi utsuk hunde han atey vadde bache taa ohna to vi ziada utsuk hunde han. is layi changi tyaari karo ki tusi kee javab dyoge. misal layi:

•   je tuhada bacha jaan-na chahunda hai ki sharaab da suaad kidda da hunda hai, taa tusi keh sakde ho ki wine da suaad khatte fala de joos jeha hunda hai atey beer thodi ziada kaurri hundi hai.

•   je tuhada bacha sharaab da suaad chakhna chahunda hai, taa tusi keh sakde ho ki eh bachya layi sahi nahi hai. is de asra bare dasso: sharaab naal bande nu sakoon milda hai, par ziada peen naal chakkar aaunde han, oh moorkhta bhare kamm karda hai atey oh galla keh janda hai jis da baad vich pachhtava hunda hai.​—kahauta 23:29-35.

 aap jaankari lo. bible dassdi hai: “har syaana purash budh naal kamm karda hai.” (kahauta 13:16) sharaab sambandhi apne desh de kanoona bare jaano. is tarha karan karke tusi apne bache di madad karan layi tyaar hovoge.

 gall karan vich pehel karo. britain vich rehen vala mark naa da pita dassda hai: “bachya nu pata nahi hunda ki sharaab peeni sahi hai ja galat. is bare mai apne atth saala de munde nu puchhya. mahaul khushnuma hon karke oh khull ke apne vichaar dass sakya.”

 je tusi alag-alag same ’te is vishe bare gall karde ho, taa ziada faida hovega. bache di umar anusar tusi sharaab bare gall karan de naal-naal hor vishya ’te vi gall kar sakde ho, jive sarrak ’te surakhya atey sex bare jaankari.

 misal rakho. bache sponge di tarha hunde han jo sara kujh sokh lainde han. khojkar dassde han hai ki bachya ’te sabh to ziada asar maapya da hunda hai. is da matlab hai ki je tusi shanti paaun ja tanaa ghataun layi mukh taur te sharaab peende ho, taa ohna nu laggega ki zindagi diya chintava to bachan layi sharaab zaroori hai. is layi apne bachya layi vadiya misal bano. yakeeni banao ki tusi sharaab di varto samajhdari naal karde ho.