maaf karan da matlab hai ki na ta galti bare sochde rehna te na hi narazgi palni. maaf kar ke tusi eh nahi keh rahe hunde ki galti hoi hi nahi ja gal bahut mamooli si.

bible da asool: “je kise ne tuhanu kise galo naraz keeta vi hai, ta vi tusi ik-dooje di sehnde raho atey ik-dooje nu dilo maaf karde raho.”​—kulussiya 3:13.

“jado tusi kise naal pyaar karde ho, ta tusi os diya kamiya-kamzoriya val dhyaan den di bajaye eh dekhde ho ki oh viakti apne aap vich sudhar karan layi ki kar reha hai.”​—aaron.

narazgi nu pali rakhan naal tuhadi seht atey bhavnava te maarra asar pai sakda hai. itho tak ki tuhade vyaahuta rishte vich vi dararr pai sakdi hai.

“ik vari mere pati ne mainu kise galo dukh pahunchaya. os ne mere to maafi ta mangi, par mere layi os nu maaf karna bahut mushkal si. aakhar mai os nu maaf kar ditta, par mainu is gal da bahut pachhtava hai ki mai os nu chheti kyo nahi maaf keeta. naraz hon naal sadde rishte vich faltu da tanaa paida ho gaya.”​—julia.

apni janch karo

agli vaar tuhada sathi kujh ajeha kare ja kahe jis karke tuhanu dukh pahunche, ta apne aap nu puchho:

• ‘ki mai chheti gal dil te la lainda ha?’

• ‘ki galti inni vaddi hai ki mere sathi nu maafi mangni chaheedi hai ja ki mai os gal nu bhula sakda ha?’

apne sathi naal mil ke inha savaala te charcha karo

• aapa ik-dooje nu kinni ku jaldi maaf kar dinde ha?

• aapa ik-dooje nu hor jaldi maaf karan layi ki kar sakde ha?

sujhaa

• jado tuhanu gussa charhda hai, ta eh na socho ki tuhade sathi ne jaan-bujh ke kujh keeta hai.

• apne sathi diya chhotiya-motiya galtiya nu nazarandaz karo, yaad rakho ki “asi sare jane kayi vaar galtiya karde ha.”​—yakoob 3:2.

“jado dove janya da kasoor hunda, ta maaf karna saukha hunda. par idda karna odo aukha ho sakda hai, je galti sirf ik jane di lagge. maaf karan te maafi mangan layi nimarta di lorr hai.”​—kimberly.

bible da asool: “jaldi to jaldi os naal samjhauta kar lai.”​—matti 5:25.