jado pati-patni ikatthe mil ke kamm karde han, ta oh jahaz de pilot atey sahayak pilot varge hunde han jinha di iko manzal hundi hai. mushkla kharhiya hon te vi pati ja patni eh nahi sochde ki “mere layi” ki changa hai, sago eh sochde ki “sadde layi” ki changa hai.

bible da asool: “oh do nahi, sago ik sareer han.”​—matti 19:6.

“vyaahuta bandhan nu sirf ik jana safal nahi bana sakda, sago pati-patni dona nu mil ke eh kamm karna chaheeda hai.”​—christopher.

jehrre pati-patni mil ke kamm nahi karde, oh jhagrra hon te apna dhyaan jhagrre nu suljhaun te nahi, sago ik-dooje vich kasoor kadhan te launde han. oh masle nu rayi da paharr bana dinde han.

“vyaahuta rishte vich mil ke kamm karna bahut zaroori hai. je asi mil ke kamm na karde hunde, ta asi pati-patni nahi, sago ik chhatt thale rehnde do ajnabiya varge hunde. nale eham faisle kardya saddi soch ik nahi honi si.”​—alexandra.

apni janch karo

• jehrre paise mai kamaye han, ki mai ohna nu sirf “apne hi” samjhda ha?

• ki changi tarha aaram karan layi mainu apne sathi to door rehen di lorr paindi hai?

• ki mai apne sathi de rishtedara to door rehnda ha bhave mere sathi di ohna naal changi bandi hai?

apne sathi naal mil ke inha savaala te charcha karo

• asi kinha galla vich vadiya tareeke naal mil ke kamm karde ha?

• asi kinha galla vich sudhar kar sakde ha?

• mil ke kamm karan di aadat vich hor sudhar karan layi asi kehrre kadam chukk sakde ha?

sujhaa

• mann lo ki tusi tennis match khed rahe ho. hun socho ki tusi ki kar sakde ho taaki tusi ik-dooje de khilaf khedan di bajaye ik team vajo khed sako atey mushkla khilaf larr sako.

• eh sochan di bajaye ki ‘mai kive jitt sakda’ eh socho, ‘asi dove kive jitt sakde?’

“eh na socho ki kaun sahi hai te kaun galat. is gal nalo vyaahuta rishte vich ekta te shanti liaauni ziada zaroori hai.”​—ethan.

bible da asool: “tusi apne bare hi na socho, sago doosrya de bhale bare vi socho.”​—filippiya 2:3, 4.