yahovah de gavah mannde han ki bible de asool atey hukam ajehe faisle karan vich saddi madad kar sakde han jinha to rab khush hunda hai atey sanu vi faida hunda hai. (yasayah 48:17, 18) eh hukam atey asool asi nahi banaye, par asi ihna mutabak chalde ha. aao dhyaan deyiye ki ihna vicho kujh asool dating naal kive sambandhit han. *

•   viah da bandhan umar bhar layi hai. (matti 19:6) yahovah de gavah dating nu gambheerta naal lainde han jis to baad oh viah karaa sakde han.

•   dating sirf ohna layi hai jinha di umar viah karan di ho gayi hai. oh ‘javani di kachi umar langh chukke’ hunde han ja odo ohna diya kamuk ichhava inniya zabardast nahi hundiya.​—1 kurinthiya 7:36.

•   jehrre dating kar rahe han, ohna nu viah karaun vich koi haraz nahi hona chaheeda. jinha kujh lokaa da kanooni taur te talaak hoya hai, ohna nu rab dobara viah karan de layak nahi samajhda. rab de myaar mutabak talaak lain da ikko jaaiz kaaran hai haramkari.​—matti 19:9.

•   jehrre masihi viah karauna chahunde han, ohna nu hukam ditta gaya hai ki oh sirf yahovah de kise gavah naal hi viah karan. (1 kurinthiya 7:39) yahovah de gavaha mutabak eh hukam sirf ohna ’te hi nahi laagu hunda jo sadde vishvasa di kadar karde han, sago ohna baptisma-prapat gavaha ’te vi laagu hunda hai jo doosrya nu ihna vishvasa bare dassde han atey khud vi ihna ’te chalde han. (2 kurinthiya 6:14) rab ne hamesha to apne bhagta nu salah ditti hai ki oh yahovah nu mannan vale kise viakti naal hi viah karaun. (utpat 24:3; malaki 2:11) maujooda khojkara mutabak eh salah ajj vi faidemand hai. *

•   bachya nu apne maapya da kehna mann-na chaheeda hai. (kahauta 1:8; kulussiya 3:20) jehrre bache apne maapya de naal rehnde han, ohna nu dating bare maapya de faislya nu mann-na chaheeda hai. ihna faislya vich shayad eh vi shamal hove ki puttar ja dhee kis umar vich dating karni shuru kar sakda hai atey os nu kehrre kamm karan di ijazat hovegi.

•   bible diya hidayata mann ke ik gavah khud faisla kar sakda hai ki oh kis naal atey kado dating shuru karega. eh gall is asool anusar hai: “harek nu aapo apni zimmevari da bhaar aap chukkna pavega.” (galatiya 6:5) jado dating di gall aaundi hai, taa kayi samajhdari naal tajarbekar gavaha di salah lainde han jo ohna di dilo bhalayi chahunde han.​—kahauta 1:5.

•   dating naal jurre kayi kamm asal vich gambheer paap han. misal layi, bible sanu haramkari to door rehen da hukam dindi hai. is vich sirf sareerak sambandh hi shamal nahi han, sago anviahe lokaa vallo hor gande kamm karne vi shamal han jive kise de gupt anga nu palosna ja maukhik atey gudda sambhog (oral and anal sex). (1 kurinthiya 6:9-11) viah to pehla kamuk ichhava nu jagauna vi rab diya nazra vich “gand-mand” hai. lok sochde han ki is tarha karan naal oh sach-much sex nahi kar rahe. par rab ihna kamma to bahut naraaz hunda hai. (galatiya 5:19-21) bible vich gandiya galla di nindya keeti gayi hai jinha vich “ashleel galla” karniya vi shamal han.​—kulussiya 3:8.

•   sadda andarla insaan yani dil dhokhebaz hai. (yirmiyah 17:9) eh ik insaan kolo idda de kamm karva sakda hai jo os nu pata hai ki eh galat han. je dating kar rahe jode chahunde han ki ohna da dil ohna nu gumrah na kare, taa ohna nu ajehiya thava ’te nahi jana chaheeda jithe ohna to galat kamm ho sakde han. oh is tarha di samajhdari vart sakde han jive oh change lokaa de group de naal-naal reh sakde han ja kise samajhdar saathi nu apne naal leja sakde han. (kahauta 28:26) jehrre anviahe masihi jeevan-saathi di talash vich han, ohna nu online dating karan de khatrya bare pata hai, khaas karke ohna naal rishta jorran de khatre bare jinha bare ohna nu bahut ghatt pata hai.​—zaboora di pothi 26:4.