1. Vass fa challenge henn awl funn uns?

 EVERY DAY we need to make decisions. Some are relatively easy to make, such as what to have for breakfast or when to go to bed. Other matters are more difficult to decide. They may affect our health, our happiness, our loved ones, or our worship. We want our decisions to benefit us and our family. Above all, we hope that our decisions will please Jehovah.​—Rom. 12:1, 2.

2. Vass zayld dich helfa goodi decisions macha?

² You are more likely to make a wise decision if you (1) get the facts, (2) consider Jehovah’s thinking on the matter, and (3) weigh the options. This article will discuss those steps, and it will also help us see how we can train our powers of discernment.​—Prov. 2:11.

GRIKK DI FACTS

3. Ekshplaynet favass miah di facts havva missa eb ma en decision macht.

³ The first step toward making a good decision is to get the facts. Why is this important? Imagine that a patient consults a doctor regarding a serious medical problem. Would the doctor make a decision about a course of treatment without first examining the patient or asking him questions? Certainly not. You too will make better decisions if you first consider the facts that have a bearing on the situation at hand. How can you do that?

4. Funn vass Shpricha 18:13 sawkt, vass kansht du du fa awl di facts greeya? (Gukket aw’s piktah.)

 ⁴ You can often get the facts by asking questions. Suppose you are invited to a social gathering. Should you attend? If you are not acquainted with the host or the arrangements, you will need to ask him such questions as: “Where and when will the gathering be held? How large will it be? Who will supervise it? Who will attend? What activities are planned? Will alcoholic drinks be served?” The answers to these questions will help you to make a wise decision.​—Read Proverbs 18:13.

5. Vass setsht du du nohch es du di facts hosht?

⁵ Next, facts in hand, look carefully at the full picture. For example, what if you learn that individuals who have no regard for Bible principles will attend the gathering or that alcoholic beverages will be served without supervision? Do you see the potential for this gathering to turn into a wild party? (1 Pet. 4:3) On the other hand, what if the timing of the gathering conflicts with your scheduled congregation meeting or field ministry? When you have seen the whole picture, you will be well on your way to making a good decision. But there is  another step that you should take. You know how you see the situation; but how does Jehovah feel about it?​—Prov. 2:6.

FINN AUS VI JEHOVA SHPIAHT

6. Funn vass Jakobus 1:5 sawkt, favass sedda miah Jehova frohwa fa hilf?

⁶ Ask Jehovah to help you understand his thinking. Jehovah promises to give us the wisdom to discern whether a certain path will please him. He gives such wisdom “generously to all and without reproaching.”​—Read James 1:5.

7. Vi kansht du aus finna vi Jehova shpiaht? Gevvet en example.

⁷ Once you have prayed for Jehovah’s direction, pay careful attention to his answer. To illustrate: If you got lost while traveling, you might ask a local resident for help. But would you then walk away before he had a chance to reply? Of course not. You would listen carefully to his directions. Similarly, after you ask Jehovah for wisdom, try to discern his answer by finding out which Bible laws and principles apply to your situation. For example, when deciding whether to attend the social gathering mentioned earlier, you might consider what the Bible says about wild parties, bad associations, and the need to put Kingdom interests ahead of your personal  preferences.​—Matt. 6:33; Rom. 13:13; 1 Cor. 15:33.

8. Vass kansht du du vann du hilf vitt fa information finna? (Gukket aw’s piktah.)

⁸ Still, at times you may need help to find the information you are looking for. You might get input from an experienced brother or sister. However, you will also benefit from doing your own research. There is a wealth of information in our study tools, such as the Research Guide for Jehovah’s Witnesses and Scriptures for Christian Living. Remember the goal: to make a decision that will please Jehovah.

9. Vi kenna miah shuah sei es unsah decision pleesing is zu Jehova? (Epheser 5:17)

⁹ How can we be sure that our decision will please Jehovah? First of all, we need to get to know him well. “Knowledge of the Most Holy One is understanding,” the Bible says. (Prov. 9:10) Yes, true understanding comes from knowing Jehovah’s qualities, his purpose, and what he loves or hates. Ask yourself, ‘Knowing what I do about Jehovah, what decision can I make that will please him?’​—Read Ephesians 5:17.

10. Favass sinn Bivvel principles may importand es em sei family adda culture?

¹⁰ In order to please Jehovah, we must at times disappoint those who are close to us. For example, some well-meaning parents may insist that their adult daughter marry a man who is financially well-off​—or one who can pay them a large dowry​—even though he is not spiritually strong. True, they want their daughter to be cared for materially, but who will help her to progress as a spiritual person? How does Jehovah view the matter? We find the answer at Matthew 6:33. There, Christians are urged to keep “seeking first the Kingdom.” Although we honor our parents and respect the people in our community, our main concern is to make Jehovah happy.

DEEF DENKA VEYYICH DEI CHOICES

11. Vass fa quality in Philipper 1:9, 10 zayld em helfa denka eb ma en decision macht?

¹¹ Once you have considered the Bible principles involved in your decision, you need to evaluate your options. (Read Philippians 1:9, 10; see study note on “full discernment.”) The quality of discernment will enable you to perceive the potential outcome of each option. Sometimes the decision can be easily made. But not all decisions are that straightforward. Discernment will help you to make wise decisions even in complex situations.

12-13. Vass kansht du du fa en goodah decision macha veyyich en job?

¹² Consider this scenario. You are looking for a job to support your family. Two jobs are available. You review all the facts, taking note of the type of work, the schedule, the travel time, and so on. In both cases, the work itself is Scripturally acceptable. Perhaps you favor one option because you prefer the type of work or because the salary is higher. There are other factors, though, to consider before making a decision.

¹³ For example, would either job conflict with your congregation meeting schedule? Would either job cut into the time you need to care for your family’s emotional and spiritual needs? Asking such questions will help you to put “the  more important things”​—your worship and your family’s needs​—ahead of material advantages. Then you can reach a decision that Jehovah will bless.

14. Vi zayld shtobba un denka un aw leevi veisa uns helfa fa nett anri stombla?

¹⁴ Discernment also moves us to consider how our decision might affect other people so that we can avoid “stumbling others.” (Phil. 1:10) This is important when we make personal decisions in such areas as dress and grooming. For example, we may prefer a particular style of clothing or grooming. But what if others inside or outside the congregation would be offended by it? Discernment will help us to respect their feelings. Love will motivate us to seek the advantage of “the other person” and to be modest. (1 Cor. 10:23, 24, 32; 1 Tim.  2:9, 10) We will then make a decision that reflects our love and respect for others.

15. Vass sett ma denka diveyya veil’s ma en decision macht?

¹⁵ If you are making a major decision, think about what it would take to implement it. Jesus taught us to “calculate the expense.” (Luke 14:28) So consider the amount of time, resources, and effort that you would need to invest to make the decision work. In some cases, you might consult your family to determine what each member would need to do to support the decision. Why is this kind of planning valuable? It may reveal that your decision needs some adjustments or that a different option is more practical. And when you involve your family members and listen to their input, they will more readily work with you to make the decision succeed.​—Prov. 15:22.

MACH EN DECISION ES GOOT AUS SHAFT

16. Vass zayld dich helfa en decision macha es goot aus shaft? (Gukket aw di box “ How to Make Wise Decisions.”)

¹⁶ If you have followed the steps outlined above, you are ready to make a wise decision. You have obtained the facts and examined the principles that will help you make a decision that is pleasing to Jehovah. Now you can ask Jehovah to help you make your decision succeed.

17. Vass is’s mensht importand ding es em helfa kann goodi decisions macha?

¹⁷ Even if you have made many successful decisions in the past, remember that the key to making good decisions is to rely, not on your own intelligence or experience, but on the wisdom from Jehovah. He alone can give you true knowledge, understanding, and discernment​—the building blocks of wisdom. (Prov. 2:1-5) Jehovah can help you to make decisions that please him.​—Ps. 23:2, 3.