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Wajiya gutangiza egi ushigo diago nu ngolo ndo! Uvi ha gumanesela mulonga wene, ushigo naye phamba gulua nu mafuta aye. Luholo lutshi?

•   GUHUENA TEDIE. Biblia idi muzuela egi: ‘Gihulu giana guzola khabu jiagio jiagasue, uvi muthu wa ndunge wana gukanda khabu jienji mu mutshima.’ (Ishima 29:11) Gula wahuena tedie—mu ndaga yagasue—mafuta aye adi gugusagesa ajiya gubemba gugusagesa.

• GUVUTULA NDO GUBOLA. Biblia yazuela egi: “Muvutuilago muthu gubola gu gubola.” (Lomo 12:17) Gukamba guvutuila muthu gubola guana guvudisa luko ndaga.

• UZODIGO NGUMA. Biblia yazuela egi: “Muthu watema, udi mulenga hadi muene mumona malamba muza.” (Ishima 22:3) Gula luholo ludi guene, lenga athu ana guzola nguma nga ndaga jiajiya guzola nguma.

• GUHANA MVUTU YABONGA. Biblia idi muzuela egi: ‘Gutaya mu mbimbi ya tuluga, guana gulebesa jikhabu.’ (Ishima 15:1) Wajiya guhana mvutu yajiya gulelesa. Tufezegese: gula muthu udi gugusegulula waguwambela egi yala wakoma diago, wajiya gunyigisa phanga, gungima umuwambele egi: “Wazuela giamatshidia yala, gula watshigina ngajiya gugusumbisa ndambo ya kilo giami!”

• KATUGA HA FUNDO DIENE. Nora udi nu ivo 19 wazuela egi: “Guhuena tedie guana gumonesa egi udi muthu wagukula, udi nu ngolo gubalega muthu udi gugusagesa. Guana gumonesa luko egi udi muthu wahuiminyina; uvi athu adi gugusagesa ashigo nu khadilo diene.”—2 Timote 2:24.

• DIHAGELE MUTSHIMA. Matangua ako, gila muthu gashigo gudihagela mutshima, nga gajiyago guzuela, asageshi ana gukotelesa ndaga yene muphushi. Uvi, gula asageshi amona egi ushigo guahana njila ya gugusagesa, mbaagubemba.

• WAMBELA MUTHU MUKO NDAGA YENE. Ndombi mumoshi wazuela egi: “Muthu wagasue udi musagesewa, awambele athu ako mulonga wene. Gukalagla luholo luene gudi ndaga yabonga, guajiya gukuatesa muthu muko ha gula asagesewago.”