MUTU WA MULONG WA KWILEJ WA 2
MUMINY 132 Katat Tudi Mujimbu Umwing
Mutapu Ukutwishau Amakundj Kumekesh Rukat ni Kalimish kud Akajau
“Niyen amakundj, . . .Yilimishany kand.”—1 PITA 3:7.
MU WISWIMP
Tukuman mutapu ukutwishay ikundj kumumekeshin mukajend kalimish mu mazu ni mu yisal.
1. Diyingishin ik dimwing datwinkishinay Yehova chipan cha uruw?
YEHOVA ud ‘Nzamb wa musangar,’ ni ukatin anch niyetu twikala ni musangar. (1 Tim. 1:11) Watwinkishin kal yipan yivud yitukwashina kwikal ni musangar. (Jak. 1:17) Uruw ud pakach pa yipan yiney. Anch ikundj ni mband atijan, akat kushilamu kukatijan ni kulimishijan umwing ni mukwau. Anch ikundj ni mband adandamen kukatijan umwing ni mukwau, akutwish kwikal ni musangar nakash.—Jnsw. 5:18.
2. Yom ik yishikedina mu ma uruw mavud nlel?
2 Cha ushon, nlel ambay a uruw avud kalimishinap kwau machip masalau pa dichuku da uruw. Chawiy, kakwetap kamu musangar. Rapor wa katat wa Organisation mondiale de la santé ulejen anch amakundj avud akat kuyisadin akajau kwa chisum ku mujimbu, mu mazu ni mu manang. Ikundj ukweta chaku chinech ukat kumekesh anch umulimishin mukajend anch ud nau antu akwau, pakwez ku chikumbu ukat kumumesh mar. Amakundj avud akat kutal pornografi, ni chinech chikat kusal anch amband iyova anch kayikatinap ni akat kunenganan.
3. Yom ik yikutwisha kumubachik ikundj kumumesh mukajend mar?
3 Yom ik yikata kuyibachik amakundj kuyimesh akajau mar? Yikutwish kushiken anch muntu amulila kud tatuku ukweta chisum, chawiy ukutwish kutong anch chidap kwau chiyimp kumumesh mband mar. Antu akwau chid mulong wa yibachikin ya chaku cha ndond yishichau, yikutwisha kuyibachik kutong anch “ikundj wakin” ufanyidin kusadin usu wend chakwel mukajend amana anch ndiy ntakel. Amakundj akwau kayifundishap kwau mutapu wa kudutish yovil ni ujim wau. Amakundj amwing ayipishin kal chitongijok chau piur pa amband ni kulalijan, mulong wa chaku cha kutal pornografi. Chikwau kand, marapor malejen anch chipupu cha KOVID-19, chapandakeshin yom yiney. Chikalap nchik mwamu, ikundj kakwetap diyingishin ap dimwing da kumumesh mukajend mar.
4. Yom ik yifanyidinau amakundj in Kristu kubabel, ni mulong wak?
4 Amakundj in Kristu afanyidin kubabal chakwel kangal imburij chitongijok chiyimp cha mangand piur pa amband. a Mulong wak? Diyingishin dimwing did anch yom yitonginay muntu, ukat kushikenang kuyisal. Kambuy Paul wayibabesha in Kristu azizidinau many a mu Rom “[kulik] kwimburij mangand minam.” (Rom 12:1, 2) Kambuy Paul payifundinay in Kristu a ku Rom, chikumangen chading chasadin kal mivu yivud. Pakwez, mazu ma Paul mamekeshin anch antu amwing mu chikumangen ading ni yibachikin ya yishankur ni mutapu wa kutong wa mu mangand. Chawiy chayibabeshay chakwel aswimp mutapu wau wa kutong ni yaku yau. Chiyul chinech chiyitadin kamu amakundj in Kristu nlel. Cha ushon, amwing pakach pau alikidina mutapu wa kutong wa mangand kuyitakel ni kusambish kuyimesh akajau mar. b Yehova ukatin anch amakundj ashakam mutapu ik ni akajau? Tutanin chakul mu verse wa mutu wa mulong winou.
5. Kukwatijan ni 1 Pita 3:7, mutapu ik ufanyidinay ikundj kushakam ni mukajend?
5 Tang 1 Pita 3:7. Yehova uyilejin amakundj kuyilimish akajau. Ikundj umulimishina mukajend ukushakam nend mu mutapu uwamp ni wa rukat. Mu mutu wa mulong winou, tukwisambin mutapu ukutwishay ikundj kumumekeshin mukajend kalimish. Cha kusambish, el twisambinanyaku mikadil yimwing yakad kuyilimish amband.
IPUK MWIKADIL WAKAD KUMULIMISH MUKAJEY
6. Yehova ukat kwiyov mutapu ik anch ikundj wamubul mukajend? (Kolosay 3:19)
6 Ikundj kafanyidinap kumubul mukajend. Yehova ukisin muntu mwawonsu ukweta chisum. (Kus. 11:5) Yehova kakatiningap muntu ukata kumumesh mukajend mar. (Mal. 2:16; tang Kolosay 3:19.) Kukwatijan ni verse wa mutu wa mulong, 1 Pita 3:7, anch ikundj kashichap nawamp ni mukajend, urund wend ni Nzamb ukuyip. Chimeken anch Yehova kakuteshap kwend malembil mend.
7. Kukwatijan ni Efes 4:31, 32, amakundj afanyidin kwipuk mazu ma mutapu ik? (Tal kand “Kurumburil Dizu.”)
7 Ikundj kafanyidinap kumubarokin mukajend ap kumulond yom yiyimp. Amakundj amwing akat kuyiswejin akajau ni kuyilond mazu makash makata kuyitap ku muchim. Pakwez Yehova ukisin ‘ujim, kuswej, kubarok ni mazu ma masaal.’ c (Tang Efes 4:31, 32.) Ukat kutesh yom yin yawonsu. Yehova ukat kushinshikin mutapu ukatay ikundj kulond kud mukajend ap anch ad kwau ayinau. Ikundj ukata kumulond mukajend yom yiyimp kayipishinap kwend ching uruw wend, pakwez uyipishin kand urund wend ni Nzamb.—Jak. 1:26.
8. Mutapu ik umeningay Yehova pornografi, ni mulong wak?
8 Ikundj kafanyidinap kutal pornografi. Mutapu ik umeningay Yehova pornografi? Umukisining nakash. Chawiy ikundj ukata kutal yipich yijondila ukat kuyipish urund wend ni Yehova ni ukat kumupipej kand mukajend. d Yehova ukatin anch ikundj amushinshamen mukajend mu yisal ni mu yitongijok. Yesu walonda anch muntu mwawonsu ukumutala mband nich maku mayimp wasal kal chitil cha makaj “mu muchim wend.” e—Mat. 5:28, 29.
9. Mulong wak Yehova kakatap kusangar anch ikundj wamushindil mukajend kusal yom yakaday kukat chisu chilalijadinau?
9 Ikundj kafanyidinap kumushindil mukajend kusal yom yakaday kukat chisu chilalijadinau. Amakundj amwing akat kuyishindil akajau kusal yom yakadau kukat ni yikata kurumbangesh kom kau chisu chilalijadinau. Yehova ukisin yaku yiney yiyimp yakad kumekesh rukat. Ukatin anch ikundj amukat mukajend ni kubangin yovil yend. (Efes 5:28, 29) Chid nchik anch ikundj Mwin Kristu ukweting chaku cha kumushindil mukajend kusal yom yakaday kukat, kumubul, kumulond yom yiyimp ap kutal pornografi? Mutapu ik ukutwishay kuswimp yitongijok ni yisal yend?
MUTAPU UKUTWISHAY NGATAN KULIKAP YAKU YIYIMP
10. Chilakej cha Yesu chikutwish kuyikwash angatan mutapu ik?
10 Yom ik yikutwisha kumukwash ngatan kulikap chisum ni kumushindil mband kusal yom yakaday kukat? Ukutwish kwikasikesh kumwimburij Yesu. Ap anch Yesu katanap kwend, mutapu wayisadinay in kwilej end chid chilakej chifanyidinau angatan kwimburij piur pa mutapu wa kuyisadin akajau. (Efes 5:25) Chilakej, shinshikin yom yikutwishau angatan kwilej kusutin mutapu Yesu wayisadinangay atwimbuy end ni kusutin mutapu wambambangay nau.
11. Yesu wayisadina atwimbuy end mutapu ik?
11 Yesu wayisadinang atwimbuy end mu mutapu uwamp ni wa kalimish. Kadingap muntu wa chisum ap mwin kwitutul. Ap anch wading Nsalejau, Yesu kasadinap ulabu wend mulong wa kwizambwish ap kuyovish wom. Pakwez wayisadina nich kwikepish. (Yoh. 13:12-17) Wayileja in kwilej end anch: “Ilejinany kud am, mulong am nid mwin kwitudish ni mwin kwikepish mu muchim, chad ukwiswedishany.” (Mat. 11:28-30) Umen anch verse winou ulondin anch Yesu wading mwin kwitudish. Muntu witudishina kadap muntu uziyina bwat. Pakwez, ud muntu ukweta mwikadil wa kwilam. Anch amujimesh, ukat kuninet zoong ni kushinshikin yovil yend.
12. Mutapu ik walondangay Yesu kud antu akwau?
12 Yesu wayikasikeshang antu kusutin mazu mend. Kayibarokinangap in kwilej end. (Luka 8:47, 48) Ap chisu chamusaalau ni kumusarumun kud akankuny nend, ‘ndiy kayichirishinap masaal.’ (1 Pita 2:21-23) Yisu yimwing, Yesu wakwatang mupak wa kuninet pa ndond pa kwakul ni ujim. (Mat. 27:12-14) Chilakej chiwamp mud ik kud angatan ada in Kristu!
13. Mud mulejenau mu Mateu 19:4-6, mutapu ik ukutwishay ngatan “[kulamat] kud mukajend”? (Tal kand chipich.)
13 Yesu wayikasikesha angatan kushal ashinshamena kud akajau. Wachirikina mazu ma Tatukwend malondina anch ngatan ufanyidin “[kulamat] kud mukajend.” (Tang Mateu 19:4-6.) Dizu dikarumwinau mu verse winou anch ‘kulamat’ mu Grek dirumburikin “kulimik.” Chawiy rukat ra ngatan ni mukajend rifanyidin kwikal rikash mu chilik cha kwikal mud ayilimikin pamwing. Anch umwing wa pakach pau wasal chom chikutwisha kuyipish uruw wau, awonsu aad akuman mar. Ngatan umukatina mukajend mu chilik chinech, kakutwishap kutal milad yin yawonsu ya pornografi. Kapamp kamwing ukudosh mes mend “ku yom yamwamu.” (Kus. 119:37) Mud Job, ukukwat mupak wa kulik kutal mband win mwawonsu nich maku mayimp.—Job 31:1.
Ngatan ushinshamena kakatap kutal pornografi (Tal paragraf wa 13) g
14. Ngatan ukata kumumesh mukajend mar ufanyidin kusal yom ik mulong wa kuwapish urund wend ni Yehova ni mukajend?
14 Ngatan ukata kumubul mukajend ap kumulond yom yiyimp ufanyidin kusal yom yivud mulong wa kurijek urund wend ni Yehova ni kutenchik yom ni mukajend. Yom ik yifanyidinay kusal? Cha kusambish, ufanyidin bil kwijik anch ukwet mulong ujim. Kwikil kwau chom chijingamining ku mes ma Yehova. (Kus. 44:21 TMK; Mul. 12:14; Heb. 4:13) Cha kaad, ufanyidin kulikap kumubul mukajend ni kuswimp yaku yend. (Jnsw. 28:13) Cha kasatu, ufanyidin kumujikitish mukajend ni Yehova ni kuyit dilikishin. (Mid. 3:19) Ufanyidin kand kumwit Yehova chakwel amukwasha kuswimp mutapu wa kutong, wa kulond ni kusal yom yikatinay Yehova. (Kus. 51:12-14; 2 Kor. 10:5; Fil. 2:13) Cha kanying, ufanyidin kusal kukwatijan ni malembil mend ni kulik mitapu yin yawonsu ya chisum ni mazu mayimp. (Kus. 97:10) Cha katan, ufanyidin kukimb ukwash pakad kulab kud amakurump a chikumangen. (Jak. 5:14-16) Cha musamban, ufanyidin kukwat mipak yikutwisha kumukwash chakwel kangal asala kand yom yiyimp. Ngatan ukata kutal pornografi ufanyidin niyend kusadin yom yiney musamban. Yehova ukuyukish usu ukusalay mulong wa kuswimp yaku yend. (Kus. 37:5) Pakwez ngatan kafanyidinap kwend ching kwimen pa kulikap yaku yiyimp. Ufanyidin kand kwijik mutapu wa kumulimish mukajend. Mutapu ik ukutwishay kusal mwamu?
MUTAPU WA KUMEKESH ANCH UMUKATIN NI UMULIMISHIN MUKAJEY
15. Mutapu ik ukutwishay ngatan kumumekeshin mukajend rukat?
15 Mumekeshina rukat. Akadivar amwing akweta musangar mu uruw akweting chaku cha kusal yom yimwing dichuku dawonsu yimekeshina anch ayikatin akajau. (1 Yoh. 3:18) Ngatan ukutwish kumumekeshin mukajend rukat kusutin kusal tuyom tukemp tukemp mud, kumulamaku ku chikas ap kand kumubwikataku. Ukutwish kumutumin mesaj ni kumulej anch: “Nikutongin nakash” ap kumwipulaku anch “dichuku dey dasut kal nchik?” Chisu ni chisu, ukutwish kumufundinang yom yimekeshina anch umukatin. Anch ngatan wasal yom yiney, ukumulimish mukajend ni kukasikesh uruw wau.
16. Mutapu ik ukutwishay ngatan kumubaz mukajend?
16 Muleja anch ud wa usey kud ey. Ngatan umulimishina mukajend, umukwatining ni usey ni kumukasikesh. Ukat kusal mwamu kusutin kusanger yom yawonsu yisadiningay mukajend mulong wa kumukwash. (Kol. 3:15) Anch ngatan wamulej mukajend yom yimukatidinay, ukwiyov nawamp nakash. Mwamu mband ukwiyov anch ud mu diking, amukatin ni kumulimish.—Jnsw. 31:28.
17. Mutapu ik ukutwishay ngatan kumumekeshin mukajend kalimish?
17 Ikal ngatan muwamp ukweta kalimish. Ngatan umukatina mukajend ukat kumubangin nakash. Ukat kumuman mukajend mud chipan chiwamp chidokila kud Yehova. (Jnsw. 18:22; 31:10) Mud chibudikin, ukat kumusadin mu mutapu uwamp ni wa kalimish, ap pa chisu cha kulalijan. Kafanyidinap kumushindin mukajend kusal yom yakaday kukat ni yikutwisha kurumbangesh kom kend chisu chilalijadinau. f ufanyidin kand kudandamen kulam kom kada zwang ku mes ma Yehova.—Mid. 24:16.
18. Mupak ik ufanyidinau angatan kukwat? (Tal kand mushet “ Mitapu Yinying ya Kumekesh Anch ud Ngatan wa Kalimish.”)
18 Angatan, ikalany ni kashinsh anch Yehova umen ni usangaredin usu usadinanya mulong wa kuyilimish akajen mu yom yawonsu. Kwat mupak wa kumulimish mukajey kusutin kwipuk mwikadil wawonsu wakad kumulimish. Ikal muntu muwamp, mwin kalimish ni mwin kumumekeshin mukwau rukat. Anch wasal mwamu, ukumekesh anch umukatin mukajey ni umukwatin ni usey. Anch wamulimish mukajey, ukulam urund wey wa usey nakash, charumburik anch urund wey ni Yehova.—Kus. 25:14.
MUMINY 131 ‘Chabombakeshay kal Nzamb’
a Angatan akutwish kutaninamu nakash anch atang mutu wa mulong uda mu Chinong cha Kalam cha Ngond wa 1, 2024 ulondina anch: “Ov, Uyikwatin Amband Mud Muyikwatinau Kud Yehova?”.
b Anch nfumwey wakusadidin nayimp ukutwish kutan ukwash anch watang mutu wa mulong ulondina anch “De l’aide pour les victimes de violences conjugales” uda mu chikunku “Yom Yikwau” pa jw.org ap mu application JW Library®.
c KURUMBURIL MAZU: “Mazu mayimp,” mu mazu minam mud: kumutazuk muntu mu mutapu wa kumusupish, kumusaal ni kumulond yom yikutwisha kumwovish usany.
d Tal mutu wa mulong ulondina anch: “La pornographie peut briser votre couple” pa jw.org ni mu application JW Library.
e Mband ukweta ikundj ukata kutal pornografi ukutwish kutan ukwash mu mutu wa mulong uda mu Chinong cha Kalam cha Ngond wa 8, 2023 ulondina anch: “Anch Mbay Ney wa Uruw Watal Pornografi.”
f Bibil kalejenap kamu patok yom yida yiyimp ni yiwamp chisu chilalijadinau ikundj ni mband atijadina. Ambay a uruw afanyidin kukwat mipak yimulimishina Yehova, yimusangareshina umwing ni mukwau ni yikuyikwasha kulam kom kishitwila. Mu win yakin, ambay a uruw kafanyidinap kwisamb ni antu akwau piur pa yom yiney ya ujindj nakash.
g KURUMBURIL CHIPICH: Mukadivar umwing amushindidin kutal buku wa pornografi kud ambay nend a mudimu akad kwikal Atuman a Yehova.
