1-2. (a) Kambuy Paul wakimba kulond ik palonday anch rukat wawiy mwikadil ‘ujim’? (b) Yipul ik tukushinshikina?

 CHISU chisambinay kambuy Paul piur pa ritiy, ruchingej, ni rukat, wapwisha ni kulond anch “chom chijim chipandakenamu yawonsu,[rid] rukat.” (1 Kor. 13:13) Paul wakimba kulond ik? Mu machuku ma kurutu, tukwikalap ni kuswir kwa ritiy mu kushilamu kwa Nzamb piur pa ngand yisu ap ruchingej piur pa kuwanyin kwa kushilamu kwinoku mulong kushilamu kwawonsu kukwikal kwawanyidin kal. Pakwez tukwikal ni kuswir kwa rukat mulong wa Yehova ni antwend. Chawiy, rukat retu mulong wa awiy rikudandamen kukul chikupu.

² Tukwikal ni kuswir kwa rukat chisu chawonsu, tukushinshikin yipul yisatu. Chakusambish mulong wak tufanyidin kukatijan umwing ni mukwau? Cha kaad mutapu ik tukutwisha kumekesh rukat kud umwing ni mukwau? Cha kasatu, mutapu ik tukutwisha kulam rukat rikash mulong wa muntu ni mukwau?

3. Mayingishin ik tukweta ma kukatijan umwing ni mukwau?

³ Mulong wak chid cha usey kud etu kukatijan umwing ni mukwau? Rukat rid pakach pa mayingishin mamekeshina anch tud in Kristu akin. Yesu wayileja atwimbuy end anch: “Anch niyen wakatijanany mwamu, chawiy antu awonsu akez kwijik anch, en udiany in kwilejam.” (Yoh. 13:35) Chikwau  kand, kukatijan umwing ni mukwau kukat kutukwash kushal mu uumwing. Paul watazuka rukat anch “mwoj wa kukukasany mu umwing uwanyidina.” (Kol. 3:14) Pakwez, kud diyingishin dikwau da usey tufanyidina kukatijan umwing ni mukwau. Kambuy Yohan wayifundina ambay nend in Kristu anch: “muntu mwawonsu umukatila Nzamb, ufanyidin kand kumukat mwanamakwend.” (1 Yohan 4:21) Anch twakatijan umwing ni mukwau, tumekeshina anch tumukatin Nzamb.

4-5. Rumburil mulong wak rukat retu mulong wa Nzamb rikwatijadin ni rukat tukweta mulong wa muntu ni mukwau.

⁴ Mutapu ik ukwatijadina rukat retu kud Nzamb ni rukat tuyimekeshidina akadivar nau anambaz? Chilakej, shinshikin kukwatijan kuda pakach pa ridwung retu ni yikunku yikwau ya mujimbu. Anch dokter wapim mutapu ubudina ridwung retu ukwijik anch rikasiken ap riziyin, ukutwish kwijik mutapu uda ridwung retu. Dilejan ik tukutwisha kwilejin ku chilakej chinech?

⁵ Mud dokter ukutwisha kushinshikin nawamp jinsangu piur pa ukash wa mujimbu wetu kusutil kushinshikin mutapu usadina ridwung, chilik chimwing niyetu tukutwish kushinshikin kukasikan kwa rukat retu mulong wa Nzamb kusutil kushinshikin rukat retu mulong wa antu akwau. Anch twajingunin anch rukat retu mulong wa ambay netu in Kristu ni antu akwau riziyin, chinech chikutwish kumekesh kand anch rukat retu mulong wa Nzamb riziyin. Pakwez anch twayimekeshin ambay netu in Kristu rukat chisu chawonsu, chikwikal chijingidij cha usey nakash chimekeshina anch rukat retu mulong wa Nzamb rikasiken.

6. Mulong wak ud ubaj anch tuyikatinap akadivar nau anambaz? (1 Yohan 4:7-9, 11)

⁶ Anch rukat retu mulong wa akadivar nau anambaz riziyin winou ud mulong ujim nakash. Mulong wak? Mulong chirumburikin anch tud mu ubaj wa mu spiritu. Kambuy Yohan wovikesha patok chisu chalonday anch: “Anch muntu kamukatilap mwanamakwend umenay ku mes, kakutwishap kumukat Nzamb wakad kumekan ku mes.” (1 Yohan 4:20) Yom ik twilejidinaku? Yehova ukat kutusanger ching anch “[tukatijadin] muntu ni mukwau.”​—Tang 1 Yohan 4:7-9, 11.

7-8. Mu mitapu ik tukutwisha kumekesh rukat kud muntu ni mukwau?

⁷ Dizu da Nzamb ditukasikeshin tupamp ni tupamp anch “[tukatijan] muntu ni mukwau.” (Yohan 15:12, 17; Rom 13:8; 1 Tes. 4:9; 1 Pita 1:22; 1 Yohan 4:11) Pakwez, rukat ud mwikadil udiokila mu muchim, ap untu wa chivadik, ni kwikil muntu ukutwisha kuman yom yidia mu muchim wetu. Chawiy, mutapu ik tukutwisha kumekesh rukat retu patok kud muntu umwing ni mukwau? Chid kusutil mu mazu ni mu yisal.

⁸ Kud mitapu yivud tukutwisha kuyimekeshin akadivar nau anambaz netu anch tuyikatin. Ey yawiy yilakej yimwing: “Londany uyakin kudi muntu ni mukwau.” (Zak. 8:16) “Shakamany nich chisambu kudi muntu ni mukwau.” (Mar. 9:50) Chifanyidin “kulimishijan amwing ni akwau.” (Rom 12:10) “Akijanany muntu ni muntu.” (Rom 15:7) ‘Dandamenany kulikishijadin umwing ni mukwau.’ (Kol. 3:13) ‘Kwashijanany, kwambulijan yisend muntu ni mukwau.’ (Gal. 6:2) “Kasikeshijanany mu ritiy muntu ni mukwau.” (1 Tes. 4:18) ‘kwashijanany . . muntu ni mukwau.’ (1 Tes. 5:11) “Lembilijadilany muntu ni mukwau.”​—Jak. 5:16.

9. Mulong wak kuyikasikesh antu akwau ud mutapu umwing wa usey umekeshina anch tuyikatin? (Tal kand chipich)

 ⁹ El tushinshikinany mutapu umwing tukutwisha kumekesh rukat kud antu akwau. Tukushinshikin yom yalonday Paul anch: “Kasikeshijanany mu ritiy muntu ni mukwau.” Mulong wak kukasikeshijan umwing ni mukwau kud kwa usey mulong wa kuyimekeshin antu akwau anch tuyikatin? Kukwatijan ni mazu mamwing ma Bibil, dizu dasadinay Paul anch “kukasikesh” dirumburikin “kwikal kumutambu wa muntu mulong wa kumukasikesh chisu chirishinay ni yakamish yikash.” kusutin kumukasikesh tukat kumukwash mbay netu mu ritiy urishina ni yikokujol kwiman daang ni kudandamen kwendin mwinjil ya mwom. Chisu chawosu tumukasikeshina mukadivar ap nambaz , tumekeshina anch tumukatin.​—2 Kor. 7:6, 7, 13.

10. Kukwatijan ik kuda pakach pa riy ni kukasikeshan?

¹⁰ Kuyovil antu riy ni kuyikasikesh yid yom yovijadina. Mu mutapu ik? Muntu ukweta ranaken rikat kumubachik kuyikasikesh antu akwau ni kuyikwash chisu chidau mu mar. Chakusambish anch twayovil antu riy; chinech chikutubachik kuyikasikesh. Shinshikin mutapu ukwatakeshinay Paul riy ra Yehova ni kukasikesh Kwend. Paul umulejen Yehova mud “Tatuku mwin riy ni Nzamb ukata kupan kwongoj kwawonsu.” (2 Kor. 1:3) chisu wilejina shinshikin mutapu mumurumburilau verse winou, Paul usadidin mazu “mwin riy” Mulong wa kurumburil yovil ya kuyovil antu akwau riy. Chauy, “chimutazukidinau Nzamb anch Tatuku , ap anch Musul wa riy mulong riy ridokil kud ndiy.” Ni riy rikat kumubachik kutukasikesh ap kutwongoj “mu mar metu mawonsu.” (2 Kor. 1:4) Mud mutapu ukata mem mawamp madiokila ku musul kutalesh pa muchim wa muntu ukweta impu, Yehova ukat kudutish ni kukasikesh antu ada mu mar. Mutapu ik tukutwisha kumwimburij Yehova mu kuyovil antu akwau riy ni kuyikasikesh? Mutapu umwing ukutwisha kutukwash kusal mwan ud wa kukudish mikadil yiney mu michim yetu mulong wa kuyikasikesh antu akwau. Mikadil ik yimwing tufanyidina kukudish?

11. Kukwatijan ni Kolosay 3:12 ni 1 Pita 3:8, tukwet kuswir kwa kukudish mikadil ik mulong wa kwikal ni rukat rikutwisha kutubachik kuyikasikesh antu akwau?

¹¹ Yom ik yikutwisha kutukwash kulam rukat tukweta nich kuswir mulong wa “kudandamen kukasikeshijan umwing ni mukwau” dichuku dawonsu? Tukwet kuswir kwa kukudish mikadil mud yiney, yovil mulong wa arund, rukat ra ukadivar, ni ranaken. (Tang Kolosay 3:12; 1 Pita 3:8.) Mutapu ik ukutwisha mikadil yiney kutukwash? Anch twayovil akadivar netu riy ni twayibangin chakin kamu, tukwikal ni maku makash ma kuyikasikesh chisu chidau mu mar. Mud mwalonday Yesu anch “mulong kan ka muntu kakat kubudish yom yizwila mu muchim wend. Muntu muwamp ukat kubudish yom yiwamp mu chipau cha yom yiwamp ya mu muchim wend.” (Mat. 12:​34, 35) Kuyikasikesh akadivar nau anambaz netu adia mu maswir ud mutapu wa usey nakash tumekeshina rukat retu kud awiy.

12. (a) Mulong wak tufanyidin kucha ku mes chakwel kangal tushadisha rukat mulong wa antu akwau? (b) Yipul ik tukimbina kushinshikin katat?

¹² Etu awonsu tufanyidin ‘kudandamen kukatijan umwing ni mukwau.’ (1 Yoh. 4:7) Pakwez, chid cha usey nakash kud etu kuvurik kubabesh kwa Yesu anch “rukat ra antu avud rikez kukep.” (Mat. 24:12) Yesu kalondap  anch chinech chafanyina kuyikangesh in kwilej kumekeshijadin rukat amwing ni akwau. Pakwez tufanyidin kubabal chakwel kangal mwikadil wa kuburen rukat wa antu a mangand utukangesh kukatijan umwing ni mukwau. Pitulamina chitongijok chinech mu manangu, el tushinshikinany chipul chinech cha usey: Yom ik yikutukwasha kwjik anch rukat retu mulong wa akadivar rikasiken?

13. Yom ik yikutwisha kupak rukat retu?

¹³ Mutapu umwing wa kuman anch rukat retu rikasiken ud wa kushinshikin yom yimwing tusadina mu mashakamin metu. (2 Kor. 8:8) Yom yimwing ayijimbula kud kambuy Pita anch: “Kupandakan yom yawonsu, dandamenany nich rukat, mulong [rukat rikat kubwik miril ya yitil].” (1 Pita 4:8) Chawiy kuziy ni kuburen kuwanyin kwa antu akwau kukutwish kupak rukat retu.

14. Kukwatijan ni 1 Pita 4:8, tukwet kuswir kwa rukat ra mutapu ik? Let chilakej.

¹⁴ El tutongijokinany nawamp pa mazu ma Pita. Chikunku cha kusambish cha verse wa 8 chisambidin mulad wa rukat tufanyidina kwikal nich​—‘rukat rikurikina.’ Dizu disadidinay Pita anch ‘rikurikina’ dikimbin kurumburik anch “kwikal ni rukat ripandakena kud umwing ni mukwau.” Chikunku cha kaad cha  verse winou chirumburil usu ukutwisha kwikal ni rukat rikurikina. Rukat rikurikina mulong wa akadivar netu rikutwish kubwik yitil yau. Tukutwish kutongin mu mutapu ou: Tukat kusal usu wa kulam rukat retu ni makas maad, mud chikunku cha diswun chidadimukina, ni kuchilam kushik ni pichikubwikina kadap ching chitil chimwing ap yaad, pakwez miril ya yitil.” Mulong “kubwik” ud mutapu umekeshina anch kulikishin. Mud mutapu ukutwisha chibel cha diswun kubwik pa chitaj, rukat ni rawiy rikutwish kubwik kuziy ni kuburen kuwanyin kwa antu akwau.

15. Yom ik tukutwisha kusal anch rukat retu mulong wa akadivar nau anambaz rid rikash? (Kolosay 3:13)

¹⁵ Rukat retu mulong wa antu akwau rifanyidin kwikal rikash kushik ni mu chilik cha kuyilikishin ambay netu in Kristu kuburen kuwanyin kwau, ap anch chikasiken nakash kusal mwamu. (Tang Kolosay 3:13.) Anch twatwish kuyilikishin akwetu tukumekesh anch rukat retu rikasiken ni tukumusangaresh Yehova. Chom ik kand chikutwisha kutukwash kulikishin kurumbok kwa antu akwau ni kulik kushinshikin pa yom yiyimp yisadinau?

16-17. Yom ik kand yikwau yikutwisha kutukwash kulik kushinshikin pa kurumbok kwa antu akwau? Let chilakej. (Tal kand chipich)

¹⁶ Shinshikin pa yom yiwamp yisadinau akadivar nau anambaz, pakwez yom yiyimp bwat. Shinshikin chilakej ech. Tongin bil anch ud mu chisak pamwing ni akadivar nau anambaz.  Wasutishang chisu chiwamp nakash ni kupwa kwa mambamb wasambish kutal yipich wakwatangana. Anch wanon yipich yaad, chakusambish kachikwatangap nawamp. Katat ukwet yipich yisatu. Pakwez chimwing pakach pa yipich yiney, mukadivar kadingap kasipina. Chipich chinech ukuchisal nchik? Ukuchijip mulong ukwet yipich yikwau yaad wakwatangana pasipinay mukadivar.

¹⁷ El twilakeja yipich yaad twashalang nich mulong wa kuyilam. Katat tukwet mutapu wa kuvurik chisu chiwamp twasutishang pamwing ni akadivar nau anambaz. Pakwez chisu chimwing chashiken anch, mukadivar ap nambaz walond ap wasal chom chitukisishina. Yom ik tukutwisha kuvurik piur pa mulong winou? Tufanyidin kusal usu wa kuyivuramen mu manangu, mud mutapu twajimisha chipich (Jnsw. 19:11; Efes 4:32) Tufanyidin kusal usu wa kuvuramen kurumbok kwa akadivar nau anambaz, mulong tuvurikin chisu chiwamp twasutisha nau. Yiney yawiy yom yiwamp ya kuvurik tufanyidina kulam ni ya usey.

18. Yom ik yikwau twashinshikina kal piur pa rukat mu mutu wa mulong winou?

¹⁸ Mulong wak tufanyidin kulam rukat rikash mulong wa muntu ni mukwau? Mud mutapu twamanang, anch twayikat akadivar nau anambaz chimekeshin anch tumukatin Yehova. Mutapu ik tufanyidina kuyikat ambay netu in Kristu? Mutapu umwing tufanyidina kusal mwamu ud wa kuyikasikesh. Tukutwish kusal mwamu anch ‘twadandamen kukasikeshijan umwing ni mukwau’ chisu tuyovidina antu akwau riy. Mutapu ik tukutwisha kulam rukat rikash umwing ni mukwau? Kusutin kusal usu wa kuyilikishin akwetu kurumbok kwau.

19. Mulong wak chid cha usey nlel kumekeshijadin rukat kud muntu ni mukwau?

¹⁹ Mulong wak chid cha usey nakash nlel kumekeshijadin rukat umwing ni mukwau? Tal diyingishin diletinay Pita: ‘Disudiel dia yom yawonsu didi piswimp. Chawiy, . . . Ikalany ni rukat rikurikina kud muntu ni mukwau.’ (1 Pita 4:7, 8) Mulong disudien da mangand minam mayimp did piswimp, yom ik tufanyidina kuchingejin? Pisambay Yesu nau in kwilej end, watakela kulond anch: “Antu awonsu akez kukukisany mulong wa kwingambat am.” (Mat. 24:9) Mulong wa kushal ashinshamena kud Yehova chikalap nchik rukis, tufanyidin kwikal mu uumwing. Anch twasal mwamu, Satan kakutwishap kutwauril, mulong tukatijadin ni rukat rida “mwoj utukasina mu uumwing uwanyidina.”​—Kol. 3:14; Fil. 2:1, 2.