Chiyul cha Manangu Piur pa Ujich ni Uruw
Chiyul cha Manangu Piur pa Ujich ni Uruw
“Nilondil yom yiney . . . wikalangany nich mwom uwamp wa mutapu uwanyidina. Nisotil kand wipanany kamu nich michim yawonsu ku mudimu wa Nsalejetu.”—1 KOR. 7:35.
1, 2. Ov, mutapu ik ufanyidinay muntu kukimb yiyul ya Bibil piur pa ujich ni uruw?
KUDI yom yikemp mu mwom yiletininga musangar ukash, kuyip, ap yakamish kupandakanamu urund wetu ni muntu wa mujimbu ukwau. Mulong tusotin kurish nich yovil yiney chawiy chikata kutubachik kukimb umutakel wa Nzamb, pakwez kudi kand yibachikin yikwau ya kusal mwamu. Mwin Kristu usotina kushal mujich ukutwish kuman anch dijuku ap arund nend akat kumubachik chakwel atana. Muntu mukwau ukutwish kusot kwatan pakwez kamenap mbay wa uruw ufanyidina. Antu amwing aswiridin umutakel piur pa mutapu wa kwirijek mulong wa kutambul yisend ya kwikal ikundj ap mband. In Kristu ajich ni angatan awonsu akat kurish nich milong yimedina piur pa kumanijan kwa amakundj ni amband.
2 Kudioshaku musangar wetu ayinetu, milong yiney yikwet usu pa mwikadil wetu kudi Yehova Nzamb. Mu shapitre wa 7 wa mukand wend wa kusambish kudi in Korint, Paul wapana chiyul piur pa ujich ni uruw. Rutong rend rading ra kuyikasikesh in kutang end ‘ikala nich mwom uwamp mu mutapu uwanyidina. Ipana kamu nich michim yawonsu ku mudimu wa Nsalejetu.’ (1 Kor. 7:35) Piushinshikidina chiyul chend pa milong yiney ya usey, pakish kutongin pa mwikadil wey—wa ujich ap wa ngatan—mudi mutapu wa kumusadil Yehova nakash.
Mupak Ukash wa Muntu Amwinend
3, 4. (a) Ov, yisu yimwing kulankining yikokujol ya mutapu ik anch antu akat kumubangin nakash murund ap mwanamakwau mujich? (b) Ov, chiyul cha Paul chifanyidin kumukwash muntu mutapu ik chakwel ikala nich chitongijok chisikena piur pa uruw?
3 Mudi chisak cha in Yuda a mu mivu chitot ya kusambish, yaku yivud nlel unou yilejen anch uruw chidi chom chimwing chiwamp nakash. Ang nsand ap changadim wasutish chimbu chimwing cha mivu pakad kwatan, arund ni anamakwend amukatila akutwish kuman anch afanyidin kumwinkish nsand ap changadim winou chiyul. Mu mambamb, akutwish kumuyul anch ndiy ufanyidin kukimb swaa mbay wa uruw. Awiy akutwish kulet yitongijok piur pa chid cha mujimbu ukwau chiwanyidina kwat. Akutwish kusadil ap mipit chakwel ajich aad atanijana umwing ni mukwau. Yisu yivud, yisal yiney yiletining usany, kufa kwa urund, ni kwovishan kuyip.
4 Paul kayibachikap antu akwau chakwel atana ap ashala ajich. (1 Kor. 7:7) Ndiy wasangera kumusadil Yehova pakad mband, pakwez walimisha mbil ya antu akwau ya kusanger uruw. Nlel unou, in Kristu niyawiy akwet mbil ya kukwat mupak ayinau anch akutwish kwatan ap kushal ajich. Antu akwau kafanyidinap kuyibachik chakwel atana ap ashala ajich.
Kutwish Mwikadil wa Ujich
5, 6. Mulong wak Paul wakasikesha ujich?
5 Chom chimekena patok mu mazu ma Paul mayifundilay in Korint chidi chitongijok chend chikasikeshina piur pa ujich. (Tang 1 Korint 7:8.) Ap anch Paul wading mujich, ndiy kibazap amwinend pantaliken ni angatan, mudi musadiningau amakurump ajich a mu Kristendom. Pakwez, kambuy wisambina piur pa chiyukish chimenau ajich avud alejena rusangu ruwamp. Ov, chisu chiyukish chinech?
6 Chiswapeling kudi mwin Kristu mujich kwitiy yisend yikutwishay ngatan kukangany mu mudimu wa Yehova. Paul watambula chisend cha pakampwil cha kwikal “kambuy . . . mwin kuya kudi in michid yikwau.” (Rom 11:13) Tang Midimu mu shapitre wa 13 kushik ku 20, ni ukuman mutapu wafungulau ndiy ni ambay nend amishoner ma teritwar ni kutek yikumangen mu jindond jimwing ni jikwau. Mu mudimu wend, Paul wajijamana mu mar makata kuyishiken antu akemp nlel unou. (2 Kor. 11:23-27, 32, 33) Pakwez musangar wa kuyikwash antu avud chakwel ikala in kwilej wasala anch mar minam mikala ma usey. (1 Tes. 1:2-7, 9; 2:19) Ov, ndiy wela kusal yawonsu yasalay anch ndiy wading ngatan ap anch wadinga ni dijuku? Bwat.
7. Let chilakej chimwing cha Atuman ajich asadila mikadil yau mulong wa kuwanyish yisakin ya Want.
7 Ajich avud in Kristu asadila mikadil yau mulong wa kusal yom yivud mulong wa Want. Sara nenday Limbania, ayibol ajich adinga mu Bolivie, aya ku ul umwing kwading antu akad kutambul uman mu mivu yivud. Ov, kuburen kwa kasu ka nzembu kwikal mulong? Awiy alonda anch: “Kwikil radio ap Televizion, chawiy lel antu kadiap azuwodilau mu mujikit wau wa pakampwil, wa kutang.” Antu amwing adinga mu ul ayileja ayibol makopi ma mikand ya Atuman a Yehova madingau ni kutang machapau pasak. Mulong anambaz atana antu awonsu akat kusanger ku chis ni chis, chawiy chayikasikena kuya ku chikumbu chawonsu mu teritwar. Mband umwing ipal wayileja anch: “Disudiel difanyidin kwikal piswimp mulong Atuman a Yehova atushiken kal katat.” Antu amwing adinga mu ul asambisha kukumangan ku yikumangan ya chikumangen.
8, 9. (a) Ov, chom ik chadingay ni kutong Paul pisambinay mu mutapu uwamp piur pa ujich? (b) Ov, yiyukish ik yikwetau in Kristu ajich?
8 Chakin kamu, in Kristu ajich amen niyawiy yibudikin yiwamp pakatau kulejan rusangu ruwamp mu materitwar ma mar. Pakwez yisend yimwing yikatau kusend kudi ayibol ajich yikutwish kuyikasiken angatan ap ayibol akweta an. Paul watongina piur pa ukaliweny wamanay mu kuya kurutu kwa rusangu ruwamp mu chikumangen cha kwol kwau. Ndiy wasota anch antu awonsu ikala nich musangar mudi ndiy. Chawiy chalonday yom yiwamp piur pa kumusadil Yehova mudi mujich.
9 Nambaz umwing udia chibol mujich mu États-Unis wafunda anch: “Antu amwing itiyijin anch mujich kakutwishap kwikal ni musangar. Pakwez namana anch musangar wa chikupu wimedin pa urund wa muntu ni Yehova. Ap anch ujich udi kwipan, pakwez udi chipan chamushena anch wausadil nawamp.” Piur pa kutan musangar, ndiy wafunda anch: “Ujich ukutwish kulet musangar, kakatap kuukangesh. Nij anch Yehova kakatap kumukish muntu ap umwing, mujich ap ngatan, nich rukat rend ramushena.” Nlel unou, ndiy usadin mwindond mwakad in kulejan Want avud. Anch udi mujich, ov ukutwish kusadil want ipau wey mulong wa kukasikesh mudimu wey mu kuyilej antu akwau uyakin? Niyey ukutwish kuman anch ujich udi chipan cha usey nakash chidiokila kudi Yehova.
Ajich Asotina Kwatan
10, 11. Mutapu ik ukatay Yehova kuyikwash antu achingejina kwatan pakwez kamenap mbay wa uruw ufanyidina?
10 Kupwa kwa kusutish mivu yimwing mu ujich, atushalapol avud ashinshamena a Yehova akwata mupak wa kukimb mbay wa uruw. Mulong ij anch aswiridin umutakel, amwita Yehova chakwel ayikwasha kutan mbay wa uruw uwanyidina.—Tang 1 Korint 7:36.
11 Anch uchingejin kwatijan ni muntu ukweta yitongijok yey ya kumusadil Yehova nich muchim wawonsu, muleja milong yiney mu malembil. (Fil. 4:6, 7) Chikalap nchik kulep kwa chisu ukutwisha kuchingel, kangal washadish ruchingej. Muchingejina Nzamb wetu wa rukat mudi mwin Kukukwash, ndiy ukez kakukwash mu yovil yey kwambatan nich maswir mey.—Heb. 13:6.
12. Ov, mulong wak mwin Kristu ufanyidin kushinshikin nawamp pamulejinau anch asotin kumwat?
12 Mwin Kristu mujich usotina uruw akutwish kumulej kudi muntu kanang wakad mwikadil uwamp wa muspiritu ap wakad kwikal mukaritiy anch usotin kumwat. Anch chinech cha kushiken, vurik anch mar madiokila ku kutond kuyimp kwa mbay wa uruw makutwish kulet kusansan kukash kupandakanamu kwiyov kukatay kwiyov mujich. Ni kupwa kwa kwatijan, mulong wa uwamp ap uyimp, winung kal kudi mbay ney wa uruw mulong wa mwom wey wawonsu. (1 Kor. 7:27) Kangal kwakam kukubachika kukwat mupak wa kwandam mu uruw ukeza kusambish kwinan mu machuku ma kurutu.—Tang 1 Korint 7:39.
Irijeka Mulong wa Milong ya mu Uruw
13-15. Ov, milong ik yikutwisha kulet mar mu uruw yifanyidinau kwisambin ambay aad a uruw pakatau kwiyendil?
13 Ap anch Paul walejana anch chiwapin kumusadil Yehova mudi mujich, ndiy kayipepishap antu akwata mupak wa kwatan. Pakwez, chiyul chend chapepilau chiyikwashin ambay a uruw chakwel arisha nich milong yikata kushiken mu uruw ni kuyikwash ashakama pamwing.
14 Ambay amwing afanyidin kutenchik nawamp yom yichingejinau mulong wa machuku ma kurutu. Pakatau kwiyendil, antu aad akutwish kuman anch rukat rau ridi ra pakampwil, ramushena, ni rimekeshina uruw uyukishinau. Awiy akutwish kwandam mu uruw nich yovil yikash ni kutong anch kwikil chom chikutwisha kuyipish musangar wau. Chitongijok chinech chidiap chakin. Yovil ya rukat mu uruw yisangareshining, pakwez ayinay yikutwishap kumukwash mband ap ikundj chakwel ipuka mar makata kushikenang mu uruw wawonsu.—Tang 1 Korint 7:28. *
15 Ambay a uruw asu avud akat kushimok, ap kuziy pamenau anch ambay nau ashalijadin nau pa milong yimwing ya usey. Awonsu aad akutwish kuman anch ashalijadin piur pa mutapu wa kusadil nfalang ni chisu cha kwiswedish, kutond ndond yikezau kushakam, ni mutapu afanyidina kuyendil anvaj au. Ni muntu ni muntu ukwet kurumbuk kwend kukutwisha kumovish mukwau kuyimp. Pakatau kwiyendil, chiswapel kumurumburil mukwau piur pa usey wa mulong kampand, pakwez ukutwish kulet kusansan kukash mu uruw. Ambay aad a uruw afanyidin kusal usu wa kupwish milong kampand kurutu kwa kwatijan.
16. Ov, mulong wak ambay a uruw afanyidin kwovijan piur pa kurish ni yikokujol ya uruw?
16 Chakwel atwisha ni ikala nich musangar, ambay a uruw afanyidin kupwish milong yau pamwing. Afanyidin kwovijan piur pa kuyipup anau ni mutapu wa kuyilam anvaj au apamina kal. Yipwichik yidiokila ku mar madia mu dijuku yifanyidinap kuyauril. Mu kusadil chiyul chidia mu Bibil, akez kupwish milong yivud, kujijaman mu milong yikwau, ni kushakam pamwing ni musangar.—1 Kor. 7:10, 11.
17. Ov, yakamish ik ya “midimu ya mangand” yifanyidinau kuchingejin ambay a uruw?
17 Paul ulejen yom yikwau yikata kushiken mu uruw mu 1 Korint 7:32-34. (Tang.) Angatan akat “kwiyakamish nich midimu ya mangand,” mudi yakudia, yijal, chikumbu, ni yom yikwau ya kumujimbu. Ov, mulong wak chidi mwamu? Padingay mujich, mukadivar wipana amwinend mu mudimu wa kulejan. Pakwez pikalay ni mband, ndiy wamana anch ufanyidin kusadil chisu chinech ni usu wend mulong wa kumulam mukajend ni kumusangarish. Chidi chilik chimwing ku mutambu wa mband pantaliken ni nfumwend. Mu manangu mend, Yehova wij maswir minam. Ndiy wij anch uruw uwamp witin chisu ni usu wadingau ikundj ni mband kusadil pasak mu mudimu Wend padingau ajich.
18. Ov, yitenchik ik piur pa mijikit ya mu chisak yikutwishau antu amwing kusal kupwa kwa kwatijan?
18 Pakwez malejan madi mavud. Anch ambay a uruw afanyidin kusutish yisu yimwing ni usu mu mudimu wa Nzamb mulong wa kuyibangin akwau, ov, kafanyidinap kusal chilik chimwing nich mapit masadinau pakusambish mulong wa urund padingau ajich? Ov, chikwikal ni usu ik padiay mband anch ikundj wipan nakash mu masengan ni arund nend? Ov, mutapu ik ukutwishay kwiyov ikundj anch mukajend wasutish chisu chilemp mu kwiswedish ni arund nend? Mbay wa uruw ukatau kusha panrend ukutwish kwiyov anch udi amwinend, kakwetap musangar ni kamukatinap. Chitwishikin kwipuk kusal mwamu anch angatan asal usu wau wawonsu mulong wa kukasikesh rukat rau ra ikundj ni mband.—Efes 5:31.
Yehova Witin Mwom Wishitwila
19, 20. (a) Ov, mulong wak antu atijadina kakutwishap kwipuk yoziu ya kusal masandj? (b) Ov, chom ik chikutwisha kuyishiken ambay a uruw anch ashakam kulemp umwing ni mukwau machuku mavud?
19 Atushalapol a Yehova asadining usu wa kwikal nich mwom wishitwila. Antu amwing akwatining mupak wa kwatan mulong wa kwipuk milong ku mutambu winou. Pakwez, uruw, ukatap kuletang diking kapamp kamwing mulong wa kwipuk masandj. Mu chirung chafundau Bibil, musumb wa mpwembu jikash wayilama antu ching kusu pashalau mukach mwa mpwembu jau. Anch muntu wabudik pol pa chisu chadingau ni kusut in chisum ni ij, ndiy ela kumusend ap kumujip. Chilik chimwing, angatan akutwish kwilam ku masandj ching kusu anch ashadin mu rukat ra kumanijan kwa yitekinau kudi mwin Kusambish uruw.
20 Paul wisambina piur pa kumanijan kwinoku mu 1 Korint 7:2-5. Kumanijan ni nfumwend chidi chisend cha pakampwil chikwetay mband; chilik chimwing ikundj ufanyidin kumanijan ching kusu ni mukajend. Muntu ni muntu uchingejin kumusadil mukwau “mudimu wend” mudi mbay wa uruw, ap kumanijan kufanyidinay ngatan kusanger. Pakwez, amakundj amwing ni amband akat kusutishang yisu yilemp muntu ni muntu panrend—kupim muntu ni muntu panrend ap kushakam kulemp umwing ni mukwau mulong wa mudimu wa kumujimbu, kukat kumukish umwing ni mukwau “mudimu wend.” Tongin bil pa uyimp anch mulong wa ‘kuburen usu wa kwilam,’ muntu wawil mu yipwichik ya Satan ni wasal masandj. Yehova ukat kuyiyukish mitu ya majuku yikata kuwanyish maswir ma majuku mau pakad kuyipish uruw wau.—Kus. 37:25.
Yiyukish Yidiokila ku Kuziyil ku Chiyul cha Bibil
21. (a) Ov, mulong wak chikasiken kukwat mipak piur pa ujich ni uruw? (b) Ov, mulong wak chiyul chidia mu 1 Korint shapitre wa 7 chidi cha usey?
21 Mipak piur pa ujich ni uruw yiding pakach pa mipak yikash yikutwishay muntu kukwat. Kuburen kuwanyin, chom chikata kulet milong yivud yidinga mu urund wa antu, kuding pakach pa antu avud. Chawiy lel ap antu itiyijinau ni ayukishinau kudi Yehova kakutwishap kwipuk yikokujol, ikalap nchik ajich ap angatan. Anch wasadil chiyul cha manangu chidia mu 1 Korint shapitre wa 7, ukutwish kukepish milong yiney. Ku mes kwa Yehova ukez ‘kusal nawamp,’ ap anch udi mujich ap ngatan. (Tang 1 Korint 7:37, 38.) Kwikal nich kwitiyik kwa Nzamb ridi rutong rijim nakash ukutwisha kuwanyish. Nich kwitiyik kwend, ukez kudandamen kuya kurutu mulong wa kutambul mwom mu mangand mend masu. Mwinimwa, urund pakach pa ikundj ni mband ukwikalap nich yipwichik yimekena nlel unou.
[Dizu didia Kwishin kwa paj]
^ par. 14 Tal Le secret du bonheur familial, shapitre wa 2, paragraf 16-19.
Ov, Ukutwish Kwakul?
• Ov, mulong wak kwikil muntu ufanyidina kumubachik mukwau chakwel atana?
• Ov, mutapu ik ukutwisha kusadil nawamp chisu chey piudia kashalapol mujich wa Yehova?
• Ov, mutapu ik ukutwishau ambay a uruw akata kwiyendil kwirijek mulong wa yikokujol ya uruw?
• Ov, mulong wak uruw ukutwishap kwikal kapamp kamwing diking mulong wa kwipuk masandj?
[Yipul ya Dilejan]
[Chipich chidia pa paj wa 16]
In Kristu ajich akwet musangar udiokil pakatau kusadil chisu chau mulong wa kwipan mu mudimu wau wa kulejan
[Chipich chidia pa paj wa 18]
Ov, yom ik yifanyidinau antu amwing kusal kupwa kwa uruw wau?