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Mutapu ik Nikutwisha Kupandakan Usany?

Mutapu ik Nikutwisha Kupandakan Usany?

 Rusang ruyimp: Usany ukutwish kukukangesh kupat arund awamp ni kwikal ni yom yisangareshina.

 Rusang ruwamp: Usany udingap uyimp chisu chawonsu. Ukutwish kukukwash kutong kurutu kwa kulond ni ukutwish kukubachik kushinshikin yom nawamp ni kutesh nawamp.

 Rusang ruwamp nakash: Usany ushichingap chikupu, chawiy ukutwish kusop yibudikin yiyimp yidokila ku usany. Mutu wa mulong winou ukukulej mutapu wa kusal.

 Shinshikin yom yikata kukwovish wom

 Usany ukutwish kukushikij ku kwidjidjek kwambamb ni muntu mes ni mes. Mud chibudikin, ukutwish kwiyauril ni antu akwau, ni ukwiyov mud ud amwiney mu kapalakany muda mididim. Chinech chikutwish kamu kukwovish wom. Pakwez anch wakimb kwijik yom yikata kukwovish wom, ukutwish kuman anch yikwetap kwau dishin. Shinshikin yilakej yisatu ey.

  •   Wom wa #1: “Nijap yom nifanyidina kulond.”

     Win yakin: Antu kakatap kuvurikang nakash yom yiyilejinau, pakwez akat kuvurikang nakash mutapu wiyovilay muntu uyilejina yom yiney. Ukutwish kusop wom wey kusutin kukudish ukaliweny wey wa kutesh ni kusutin kubangin nakash yom yilondinau antu akwau.

     Cha kutongijokin: Ov, ey ukatin kwikal ni arund a mutapu ik? Muntu ukatining kulond chisu chawonsu, anch muntu ukata kutesh nawamp?

  •   Wom wa #2: “Antu akutong anch niyiziyishin.”

     Win yakin: Antu akwikal ni yitongijok kanang piur pey, wikala mwin usany ap bwat. Ukutwish kusop wom wey​—ni kuyikwash antu kwikal ni chitongijok chiwamp piur pey—​anch wayilik chakwel akumana kamu mud muuda.

     Cha kutongijokin: Anch utongin anch antu awonsu akat kukurumburishang nayimp, ov, kadap ey uyirumburishina awiy kusutin kutong yom yiyimp piur pau?

  •   Wom wa #3: “Nikwov usany nakash anch nalond chom chiyimp.”

     Win yakin: Antu awonsu akat kurumbukang. Ukutwish kusop wom wey kusutin kuman kurumbok mud mutapu wa kumekesh anch wikwatinap nich usey nakash.

     Cha kutongijokin: Ov, ukatinangap kwikal pamwing ni antu akata kwitiyin anch kadap antu awanyidina?

 Ov, wij? Antu amwing akat kutong anch kakwetingap usany mulong akat kufundang ma mesaj nakash. Pakwez chiswapel kwikal nau arund awamp anch ukat kwambamb ni antu mes ni mes. Sherry Turkle, ukata kwilej yaku ya antu pantaliken ni teknoloji wafunda anch: “Chisu tukata kuman yifu ya antu akwau ni kutesh mazu ma antu akwau pawiy tukata kwikal mu uumwing nakash amwing ni akwau.” a

Anch watwish kusop wom wey, ukuman anch kwambamb ni muntu mes ni mes kwovishenap kwau wom mud mutapu wading utongidina

 Cha kusal

  •   Ipuk kwifanakesh ni antu akwau. Ukwetap kuswir kwa kwikal muntu ukata kulondang nakash. Pakwez, itekina rutong ra kusop nawamp usany wey chakwel kangal uburen kwikal nau arund awamp ni kusanger yom yiwamp.

     “Mambamb mafanyidinap kwikal malemp nakash ni makad kupwang, ni ufanyidinap kwakul ku chom chin chawonsu chiwisambidinanya. Iyijikishaku kwey pakemp kud muntu wakad kukwijik, ap ipul yipul yikemp kwau mwamu.”​—Alicia.

     Mbil ya Bibil: “Chifanyidin muntu mwawonsu kwirumburish amwinend. Anch yisalijok yend yidi yiwamp, ndiy ukutwish kwibaz amwinend wakad kwiyilikej ni yisalijok ya muntu mukwau.”​—Galatia 6:4.

  •   Ikal mwin kutal. Yitala antu akweting arund ni shinshikin mutapu ukatau kwambamb ni antu akwau. Yom ik yitwishinau kusal? Yom ik yikangenyau kusal? Ukaliweny ik ukwetau ukatina niyey kukudish?

     “Tal ni ilejina kud antu akata kuta urund swa. Tal mutapu usadinau ni yom yilondinau anch atanijan ni muntu kapamp ka kusambish.”​—Aaron.

     Mbil ya Bibil: “Utad ukat kuusaul utad, mwamu ni muntu ukat kuwapish muchim wa mukwau.”​—Jinswir 27:17.

  •   Ipul yipul. Yisu yivud antu akatining kupan yitongijok yau piur pa chom kanang, chawiy kuyipul yipul ud mutapu uwamp wa kusambish nau mambamb. Chikwau kand, kwipul yipul kukatap kupwitin nkeu nakash pad ey.

     “Kwirijek kurutu kukutwish kukukwash kukepish kwiyakamish. Chilakej, kurutu kwa kuya kwi ndond kwakutazukangau, ukutwish kutong piur pa yom kanang ukwambambinanya ap yipul ukwipula. Anch wasal mwamu, ukwiyakamishap nakash anch watanijan nau antu wakad kwijik.”​—Alana.

     Mbil ya Bibil: “Chifanyidin muntu ni muntu atala nawamp ku yom ya mwom wa mukwau, wakad kutal nawamp ching kusu ku yom ya mwom wend amwinend.”​—Filip 2:4.

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