Itegeko rya Musa ryasaba umugabo yaba ariko yiyumvira kwahukana, gutegura icete cemewe n’amategeko. Ivyo vyatuma abantu batihutira gusambura imibano yabo. Ariko mu gihe ca Yezu, abakuru b’idini baroroheje ibijanye no kwahukana. Abagabo barashobora kwahukana n’abagore babo ku mvo iyo ari yo yose. (nwtsty amakuru adufasha kwiga Mr 10:4, 11) Yezu yashimitse ku vy’uko umubano watangujwe na Yehova. (Mr 10:2-12) Umugore n’umugabo bobaye “umubiri umwe,” bakabana igihe cose. Twisunze inkuru isa n’iyo dusanga muri Matayo, ikintu conyene cemewe n’Ivyanditswe cotuma umugabo n’umugore bahukana ni “ubusambanyi.”​—Mt 19:9.

Muri iki gihe, abantu benshi ntibabona umubano nk’uko Yezu yawubona, ahubwo bawubona nk’uko Abafarizayo bawubona. Iyo hadutse ingorane, baca bihutira kwahukana. Ariko abakirisu bobo, barafatana uburemere indagano bagiraniye kandi bakihatira gutorera umuti ingorane mu gushira mu ngiro ingingo ngenderwako zo muri Bibiliya. Nimurabe ividewo ivuga ngo Urukundo n’icubahiro biratuma ingo zunga ubumwe, muce mwishura ibibazo bikurikira:

• Woshira mu ngiro gute Imigani 15:1 mu mubano wawe? Kandi ni kubera iki bihambaye?

• Gushira mu ngiro Imigani 19:11 vyokurinda gute ingorane?

• Igihe umubano wawe ugeze ahatemba, aho kwiyumvira ngo ‘Mbe basha twahukane?’ ni ibibazo ibihe ukwiye kuzirikanako?

• Gushira mu ngiro Matayo 7:12 vyogufasha gute kuba umugabo mwiza canke umugore mwiza?