Anzathu apamtima amatithandiza kuti tizisangalala komanso amatilimbikitsa tikamakumana ndi mavuto. Koma Baibulo limatichenjeza kuti tizisamala tikamasankha anthu ocheza nawo. Ndiye kodi mungasankhe bwanji anthu abwino oti muzicheza nawo? Mungachite bwino kuganizira mafunso omwe ali m’munsiwa.

1. Kodi zochita za anthu amene mungasankhe kucheza nawo zingakukhudzeni bwanji?

Anthufe timatengera zochita za anthu amene timacheza nawo. Zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti tikhoza kutengera makhalidwe abwino kapena oipa a anthu amene timacheza nawo pamasom’pamaso kapena pa intaneti. Mpake kuti Baibulo limati: “Munthu woyenda ndi anthu anzeru adzakhala wanzeru, koma wochita zinthu ndi anthu opusa [anthu omwe sakonda Yehova] adzapeza mavuto.” (Miyambo 13:20) Mukamacheza ndi anthu omwe amakonda komanso kulambira Yehova, angakuthandizeni kuti nanunso mukhale pa ubwenzi ndi Yehova komanso kuti muzisankha zinthu mwanzeru. Koma kucheza kwambiri ndi anthu amene sakonda Yehova, kungachititse kuti tisiye kumukonda. N’chifukwa chake Baibulo limatilimbikitsa kuti tizisankha mwanzeru anthu ocheza nawo. Tikamacheza ndi anthu omwe amakonda Mulungu, timatengera zochita zawo zabwino ndipo nawonso amatengera zochita zathu zabwino. Choncho, ‘timapitiriza kutonthozana ndi kulimbikitsana.’​—1 Atesalonika 5:11.

2. Kodi Yehova angamve bwanji ngati mutasankha kumacheza ndi anthu oipa?

Yehova amasamala posankha anthu amene akufuna kuti akhale anzake. Baibulo limanena kuti iye “amakonda anthu owongoka mtima.” (Miyambo 3:32) Kodi Yehova angamve bwanji ngati titasankha kumacheza ndi anthu omwe samamukonda? Iye angakhumudwe kwambiri. (Werengani Yakobo 4:4.) Komabe, Yehova angasangalale kwambiri ndipo angatisankhe kuti tikhale anzake tikamapewa kucheza ndi anthu amakhalidwe oipa n’kumacheza ndi anthu omwe amamukonda.​—Salimo 15:1-4.

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4. Anthu amene timasiyana nawo zinthu zina akhoza kukhala anzathu abwino

Baibulo limafotokoza za Davide ndi Yonatani omwe anali mabwenzi apamtima. Iwo ankagwirizana kwambiri ngakhale kuti Yonatani anali wamkulu kwa Davide komanso anali mwana wa mfumu. Werengani 1 Samueli 18:1, kenako mukambirane funso ili:

• N’chifukwa chiyani anzathu sayenera kukhala anthu okhawo amene timafanana nawo msinkhu komanso zinthu zina?

Werengani Aroma 1:11, 12, kenako mukambirane funso ili:

• Kodi anthu amene amakonda Yehova amalimbikitsana bwanji?

Muvidiyoyi, onani mmene wachinyamata wina anapezera anzake kudera limene anasamukira. Onerani VIDIYO, kenako mukambirane mafunso otsatirawa.

• N’chifukwa chiyani makolo a Akil ankadera nkhawa za anthu amene ankacheza nawo kusukulu?

• N’chiyani chinachititsa kuti Akil ayambe kugwirizana ndi anthu amenewa?

• N’chiyani chinamuthandiza kuti apeze anzake?

5. N’chiyani chingakuthandizeni kuti mupeze anzanu abwino?

ZOMWE TAPHUNZIRA

Tikamasankha bwino anthu ocheza nawo, timasangalatsa Yehova ndiponso ifeyo timakhala osangalala.

Kubwereza

• Kodi Yehova angamve bwanji ngati mutasankha kumacheza ndi anthu oipa?

• Kodi tiyenera kupewa kucheza ndi anthu otani?

• Mungatani kuti mupeze anthu abwino ocheza nawo?