1. oru mudhirchiyulla kristhavaraaga aavadharku naam enna seiya vēndum?

 oru kulandhai vēgamaaga valarndhu periya aalaaga aavadhai paarkkumpōdhu namakku aachariyamaaga irukkum. indha valarchi thaanaaga nadakkiradhu. aanaal, mudhirchiyulla oru kristhavaraaga valaruvadhu, thaanaaga nadakkira vishayam kidaiyaadhu. b (1 ko. 13:11; ebi. 6:1) appadi valaruvadharku yegōvaavōdu oru nalla bandham irukka vēndum. adhumattumalla, avarudaiya sakthiyum namakku thēvai. appōdhudhaan, nalla gunangalai valartthukkolla mudiyum, vaalkkaikku udhavugira thiramaigalai valartthukkolla mudiyum, edhirkaalatthil varugira poruppugalai edutthu seiyavum thayaaraaga mudiyum.—nīdhi. 1:5

2. aadhiyaagamam 1:27-lirundhu enna therindhukolgirōm? indha katturaiyil edhai patri paarppōm?

² yegōvaa manidhargalai padaikkumpōdhu avargalai aanaagavum pennaagavum padaitthaar. (aadhiyaagamam 1:27-ai vaasiyungal) aangalum pengalum paarkka vēru vēru maadhiri irukkiraargal enbadhu unmaidhaan. adhēsamayatthil, vēru sila vidhangalilum avargal vitthiyaasappattirukkiraargal. udhaaranatthukku, aangalum pengalum vevvēru poruppugalai seigira maadhiri yegōvaa avargalai padaitthirukkiraar. adhanaal, andha poruppugalai nandraaga seivadharku sila gunangalum thiramaigalum avargalukku thēvai. (aadhi. 2:18) oru  ilam sagōdhari eppadi mudhirchiyulla oru kristhava pennaaga aagalaam enbadhai patri indha katturaiyil paarppōm. aduttha katturaiyil ilam sagōdharargal enna seiyalaam endru paarppōm.

3-4. ilam sagōdharigal yaaridamirundhu ellaam katrukkollalaam? (padatthaiyum paarungal.)

³ yegōvaavai nēsitthu, avarukku unmaiyaaga sēvai seidha niraiya pengalai patri baibil solgiradhu. (“baibilil varum pengal—naam enna katrukkollalaam?” endra aangila katturaiyai jw.org–il paarungal.) mukkiya vasanam solvadhupōl, “palakkavalakkangalil alavukkumīri pōgaadhavargalaagavum, ellaa vishayangalilum unmaiyullavargalaagavum” avargal irundhaargal. avargalidamirundhu naam niraiya katrukkollalaam. adhumattumalla, ungal sabaiyilum mudhirchiyulla sagōdharigal iruppaargal. avargalidamirundhum nīngal niraiya katrukkollalaam.

⁴ ilam sagōdharigalē, ungalukku therindha mudhirchiyulla sagōdharigalai patri yōsitthuppaarungal. avargalidam irukkira nalla nalla gunangalai gavaniyungal. piragu, andha gunangalai nīngal eppadi kaattalaam endru yōsiyungal. sagōdharigalukku thēvaippadugira mūndru mukkiyamaana gunangalai patri ippōdhu paarkkalaam.

5. mudhirchiyulla sagōdhariyaaga aavadharku manatthaalmai ēn romba mukkiyam?

⁵ oru mudhirchiyulla kristhavaraaga iruppadharku manatthaalmai romba mukkiyam. oru sagōdhari manatthaalmaiyaaga irundhaal, avarukku yegōvaavōdum matravargalōdum nalla bandham irukkum. (yaak. 4:6) udhaaranatthukku, yegōvaavai nēsikkira oru sagōdhari, avar ērpadutthiya thalaimai sthaanam endra ērpaattukku kīlppadindhu nadappaar—sabaiyilum! kudumbatthilum! c—1 ko. 11:3.

6. manatthaalmaiyai patri rebekkaalidamirundhu ilam sagōdharigal enna katrukkollalaam?

⁶ rebekkaalin udhaaranatthai edutthukkollungal. avar butthisaaliyaana pen. thannudaiya vaalnaal muluvadhum dhairiyamaaga sila thīrmaanangalai edutthaar. eppōdhu eppadi nadakka vēndum endru therindhuvaitthirundhaar. (aadhi. 24:58; 27:5-17) adhēsamayatthil, avar mariyaadhaiyōdu nadandhukondaar, thalaimai sthaanam ērpaattukku adipanindhu nadandhaar. (aadhi. 24:17, 18, 65) nīngalum rebekkaalai pōlavē manatthaalmaiyaaga yegōvaavin ērpaadugalukku aadharavu kodutthaal, kudumbatthilum sabaiyilum nalla munmaadhiriyaaga iruppīrgal.

7. ilam sagōdharigal eppadi estharai pōl adakkamaaga irukkalaam?

⁷ ellaa kristhavargalukkum thēvaippadugira innoru gunam adakkam. “adakkamaanavargalidam nyaanam irukkum” endru baibil solgiradhu. (nīdhi. 11:2) andha gunatthai  kaattiya kadavulbakthiyulla oru pendhaan esthar. avar adakkamaanavaraaga irundhadhaal, raaniyaaga aana piragum perumaippiditthavaraaga maarividavillai. thannudaiya sondhakkaarar mordhegaai sonnadhai kēttu adhanpadi seidhaar. (esthar 2:10, 20, 22) nīngalum matravargal sollum aalōsanaiyai kēttu nadappadhan mūlam adakkam endra gunatthai kaattalaam.—thīth. 2:3-5.

8. 1 thīmōtthēyu 2:9, 10-il irukkum aalōsanaiyai sagōdharigal eppadi kadaippidikkalaam?

⁸ innoru vidhatthilum esthar adakkam endra gunatthai kaattinaar. avar “romba alagaagavum latchanamaagavum” irundhaar. aanaalum, matravargaludaiya gavanatthai than pakkam īrkka ninaikkavillai. (esthar 2:7, 15) nīngal eppadi estharai pōl nadandhukollalaam? 1 thīmōtthēyu 2:9, 10 solgirapadi seivadhan mūlam nadandhukollalaam. (vaasiyungal.) kristhava pengal adakkatthōdum thelindha butthiyōdum udai uduttha vēndum endru appōsthalan pavul angē solliyirukkiraar. angē payanpadutthappattirukkum grēkka vaartthaigal, kristhava pengal mariyaadhaiyaana vidhatthilum matravargaludaiya unarchigalukkum karutthugalukku madhippu kodukkum vidhatthilum udai uduttha vēndum endra artthatthai kodukkiradhu. sagōdharigalē, adakkamaaga udai udutthum ungalai naangal paaraattugirōm!

9. abigaayilidamirundhu enna katrukkollalaam?

⁹ mudhirchiyulla sagōdharigal kaatta vēndiya innoru gunam paguttharivu. paguttharivu endraal enna? sari edhu, thavaru edhu enbadhai purindhukondu sariyaanadhai thērndhedukkira thiramaidhaan adhu! abigaayilai patri yōsitthuppaarungal. avarudaiya kanavar thavaraana oru mudivai edutthadhaal, avarudaiya vīttil irundha ellaarudaiya uyirum aabatthil irundhadhu. appōdhu abigaayil udanadiyaaga seyalil iranginaar. avar paguttharivai kaattiyadhaal ellaarudaiya uyirum kaappaatrappattadhu. (1 saa. 25:14-23, 32-35) eppōdhu pēsa vēndum... eppōdhu pēsaamal amaidhiyaaga irukka vēndum... enbadhai therindhukollavum paguttharivu kaikodukkum. adhōdu, matravargalmēl akkarai kaattumpōdhu alavōdu iruppadharkum indha gunam udhavum.—1 the. 4:11.

10-11. vaasikkavum eludhavum katrukkolvadhu ungalukkum matravargalukkum eppadi prayōjanamaaga irukkum? (padatthaiyum paarungal.)

¹⁰ vaalkkaikku thēvaiyaana thiramaigalai pengal valartthukkolvadhu mukkiyam! chinna vayadhil katrukkollum thiramaigal vaalnaal muluvadhum kaikodukkum. sila udhaaranangalai ippōdhu paarkkalaam.

¹¹ nandraaga vaasippadharkum eludhuvadharkum katrukkollungal. sila kalaachaarangalil, pengal idhaiyellaam katrukkolla thēvaiyillai endru ninaikkiraargal. aanaal, kristhavargalaaga irukkira ovvoruvarumē indha thiramaiyai valartthukkolvadhu mukkiyam. d (1 thī. 4:13)  adhanaal, kashtamaaga irundhaalum adhai katrukkollungal. appadi seivadhu ungalukku prayōjanamaaga irukkumaa? nichayamaaga! oru vēlaiyai kandupidikka idhu ungalukku udhavum. baibilai nandraaga padikkavum matravargalukku nandraaga katrukkodukkavum indha thiramai thēvai. ellaavatraiyumvida, nīngal baibilai paditthu adhai aalamaaga yōsitthu paarkkumpōdhu yegōvaavidam nerungi pōvīrgal.—yōsu. 1:8; 1 thī. 4:15.

12. pēchu thiramaiyai valartthukkolla nīdhimoligal 31:26 eppadi udhavum?

¹² pēchu thiramaiyai valartthukkollungal. kristhavargalukku pēchu thiramai mukkiyam. idhai patri yaakkōbu ippadi sonnaar: “ovvoruvarum nandraaga kaadhukodutthu kētkiravargalaagavum, yōsitthu nidhaanamaaga pēsugiravargalaagavum irukka vēndum.” (yaak. 1:19) matravargal solvadhai gavanamaaga kētkumpōdhu avargalmēl “anudhaabatthai” kaattuvōm. (1 pē. 3:8) oruvar enna solgiraar alladhu eppadi unargiraar enbadhai ungalaal purindhukolla mudiyavillai endraal porutthamaana kēlvigalai kēlungal. piragu, enna sollappōgirīrgal enbadhai yōsikka sila nodigal edutthukkollungal. (nīdhi. 15:28, adikkurippu) ungalaiyē ippadi kēttukkollungal: ‘naan solvadhu unmaidhaanaa? adhu avarai urchaagappadutthumaa? avarmēl mariyaadhaiyum anbum irukkiradhai kaattumaa?’ pēchu thiramaiyulla mudhirchiyaana sagōdharigalidamirundhu katrukkollungal. (nīdhimoligal 31:26-ai vaasiyungal.) avargal pēsuvadhai gavaniyungal. nīngal endhalavukku indha thiramaiyai valartthukkolgirīrgalō andhalavukku matravargalōdu ungalukku nalla bandham irukkum.

13. vīttu vēlaigalai poruppaaga seivadharku nīngal eppadi katrukkollalaam? (padatthaiyum paarungal.)

¹³ vīttu vēlaigalai seiya katrukkollungal. niraiya idangalil vīttu vēlaigalai pengaldhaan seigiraargal. vīttu vēlaigalai poruppaaga seivadharku thēvaiyaana thiramaigalai valartthukkolla ungal ammaavidamō, vēroru sagōdhariyidamō udhavi kēlungal. sindi endra sagōdhari ippadi solgiraar: “kashtappattu vēlai seidhaal sandhōsham kidaikkum endra mukkiyamaana paadatthai ammaa enakku solli kodutthaar. samaippadhu, suttham pannuvadhu, thuni thaippadhu, maligai saamaangal vaanguvadhu, ivatraiyellaam katrukkondadhu en vaalkkaikku romba prayōjanamaaga irundhadhu. yegōvaavin sēvaiyil niraiya seiyavum udhaviyaaga irundhadhu. eppadi ubasarippadhu endrum ammaa enakku solli kodutthaar. adhanaal, niraiya sagōdhara sagōdharigalōdu palaga mudindhadhu, avargalidamirundhu niraiya katrukkollavum mudindhadhu.” (nīdhi. 31:15, 21, 22) vīttu vēlaigalai poruppaaga seigira... ubasarikkum gunam irukkira... oru pen kudumbatthukkum sabaikkum unmaiyilēyē oru aasīrvaadham!—nīdhi. 31:13, 17, 27; ap. 16:15

14. kristalin udhaaranatthilirundhu enna katrukkondīrgal, edhu ungal kurikkōlaaga irukka vēndum?

¹⁴ ungalai nīngalē paartthukkolla katrukkollungal. ellaa kristhavargalum idhai katrukkolvadhu mukkiyam. adhōdu, iruppadhai vaitthu thirupthiyaaga vaalavum palaga vēndum. (pili. 4:11; 2 the. 3:7, 8) kristal endra sagōdhari solvadhai paarungal: “palliyil naan enna paadatthai thērndhedutthaal en thiramaigalai valartthukkolla mudiyum endru appaa ammaa sonnaargal.  akkavunts paadatthai edutthu padikka appaa sonnaar. adhu enakku prayōjanamaaga irundhadhu.” vēlai kidaippadharkaaga thiramaigalai valartthukkolvadhu mukkiyamdhaan. aanaal, adhumattumē pōdhaadhu. eppadi badjet pōduvadhu endrum, adharku ētrapadi eppadi vaalvadhu endrum nīngal katrukkolvadhu nalladhu. (nīdhi. 31:16, 18) yegōvaavukku niraiya sēvai seiya vēndum enbadhai kurikkōlaaga vaitthukkollungal. adhanaal, thēvaiyillaamal kadan vaangaadhīrgal; elimaiyaaga vaalndhaalē pōdhum endru thirupthiyaaga irungal.—1 thī. 6:8.

15-16. kalyaanamaagaadha sagōdharigal matravargalukku eppadi oru aasīrvaadhamaaga irukkiraargal? (maarku 10:29, 30)

¹⁵ yegōvaavukku pidittha gunangalaiyum vaalkkaikku thēvaiyaana thiramaigalaiyum valartthukkolvadhu edhirkaala poruppugalai nallapadiyaaga seiya udhavum. edhirkaalatthil nīngal edukka vēndiya sila mudivugalai patri paarkkalaam.

¹⁶ konja kaalatthukku kalyaanam seidhukollaamal irukka mudivedukkalaam. sila kalaachaarangalil kalyaanam seiyaamal iruppadhai yaarum virumbuvadhu kidaiyaadhu. appadippatta idangalilkūda, yēsuvin vaartthaigalai manadhil vaitthu silar kalyaanam seiyaamal irukka ninaikkiraargal (mat. 19:10-12) vērusilar, sūlnilaimaiyin kaaranatthaal kalyaanam seiyaamal irukkiraargal. kaaranam ennavaaga irundhaalum sari, appadippattavargalai yegōvaavum yēsuvum thaalvaaga paarppadhillai. ulagam muluvadhum irukkira sabaigalil, kalyaanamaagaadha sagōdharigal nalla munmaadhirigalaaga irukkiraargal. avargal kaattugira anbaalum akkaraiyaalum niraiya pērukku kūdappirandha sagōdharigal maadhiriyum ammaakkal maadhiriyum aagiyirukkiraargal.—maarku 10:29, 30-ai vaasiyungal; 1 thī. 5:2.

17. mulunēra sēvai seiya ilam sagōdharigal eppadi thayaaraagalaam?

¹⁷ mulunēra sēvai seiya mudivedukkalaam. ulagam muluvadhum nadakkira prasanga vēlaiyil, sagōdharigalukku mukkiya pangu irukkiradhu. (sang. 68:11) mulunēra sēvaiyai aarambippadhai patri nīngal ippōdhē yōsitthuppaarungal. payaniyaraagavō, kattumaana ūliyaraagavō, betthēlilō nīngal sēvai seiyalaam. adhanaal, oru kurikkōl vaiyungal. adhai patri jebam seiyungal. ērkenavē andha kurikkōlai adaindhavargalidam pēsungal. adhai adaiya ennavellaam seiya vēndum endru therindhukollungal. piragu, edhaartthamaana oru thittatthai pōdungal. mulunēra sēvaiyai nīngal aarambitthuvittaal, yegōvaavin sēvaiyil ungalukku innum niraiya kadhavugal thirakkum.

18. oru sagōdhari vaalkkai thunaiyai ēn romba gavanamaaga thērndhedukka vēndum? (padatthaiyum paarungal.)

¹⁸ kalyaanam seiya mudivedukkalaam. indha katturaiyil paarttha gunangalum thiramaigalum, oru nalla manaiviyaaga aavadharku ungalukku udhavum. aanaal nīngal kalyaanam seiya ninaitthaal, ungal thunaiyai gavanamaaga thērndhedungal. ēnendraal, vaalkkaiyil nīngal edukkira mukkiyamaana mudivu adhu! kalyaanatthukku piragu avardhaan ungalukku thalaiyaaga iruppaar enbadhai marandhuvidaadhīrgal! (rō. 7:2; ebē. 5:23, 33) indha kēlvigalai yōsitthuppaarungal: ‘avar mudhirchiyulla kristhavaraa? vaalkkaiyil yegōvaavukku mudhalidam kodukkiraaraa? nyaanamaana mudivugalai edukkiraaraa?  thavaru seidhaal adhai otthukkolgiraaraa? pengalai madhikkiraaraa? naan yegōvaavōdu nerukkamaaga irukka avaraal enakku udhava mudiyumaa? ennudaiya thēvaigalai gavanitthukkolvaaraa? ennudaiya unarchigalai purindhu nadappaaraa? avar poruppugalai edutthu seigiraaraa? sabaiyil avarukku ennenna poruppugal irukkindrana, adhaiyellaam eppadi seidhukondirukkiraar?’ (lū. 16:10; 1 thī. 5:8) ungalukku oru nalla kanavar kidaikka vēndumendraal, nīngal oru nalla manaiviyaaga aavadharku ippōdhē thayaaraaga vēndum.

19. manaiviyai ‘udhaviyaalar’ endru baibil solvadhu ēn tharakkuraivaanadhu illai?

¹⁹ oru nalla manaiviyai kanavarukku ‘udhaviyaalar’ endrum, “thunai” endrum baibil solgiradhu. (aadhi. 2:18) ippadi solvadhaal, baibil manaivigalai tharakkuraivaaga pēsugiradhu endru artthamaa? kandippaaga illai! sollappōnaal, sangīdham 54:4, ebireyar 13:6 pōndra vasanangalil yegōvaavaiyum baibil “thunai” endru solgiradhu. mūla moliyil indha vaartthaikkaana arttham “udhaviyaalar.” appadi paartthaal, manaiviyai udhaviyaalar endru baibil solvadhu unmaiyilēyē avargalukku oru gauravam! oru manaivi thannudaiya kanavanukku aadharavu koduppadhan mūlam avarukku udhaviyaalaraaga irukkiraar. udhaaranatthukku, kudumbatthukkaaga kanavar mudivugal edukkumpōdhu adhai seyalpadutthuvadharkaaga kanavarōdu sērndhu otthulaikkiraar. yegōvaavai nēsippadhaal, thannudaiya kanavarukku irukkira nalla peyarai kedukkaadha maadhiri nadandhukolgiraar. (nīdhi. 31:11, 12; 1 thī. 3:11) yegōvaamēl irukkum anbai balappadutthuvadhan mūlamum vīttilum sabaiyilum matravargalukku udhavi seivadhan mūlamum oru nalla manaiviyaaga aavadharku ippōdhē nīngal thayaaraagalaam.

20. kudumbam sandhōshamaaga irukka oru ammaa ennavellaam seiyalaam?

²⁰ ammaavaaga aagalaam. kalyaanatthukku piragu ungalukku kulandhaigal pirakkalaam. (sang. 127:3) adhanaal, oru nalla ammaavaaga aavadharku enna thēvai enbadhai patri munkūttiyē yōsiyungal. oru nalla manaiviyaaga aavadharkum ammaavaaga aavadharkum indha katturaiyil padittha gunangalum thiramaigalum udhavum. nīngal anbaaga, karisanaiyaaga, poruppaaga nadandhukondaal ungal kudumbam sandhōshamaaga irukkum, ungal pillaigalum paadhugaappaaga unarvaargal. avargal oru anbaana sūlalil valaruvaargal.—nīdhi. 24:3.

21. sagōdharigalai patri ninaikkumpōdhu namakku eppadi irukkiradhu, ēn? (attai padatthai paarungal.)

²¹ ilam sagōdharigalē, ungalai naangal romba nēsikkirōm. nīngal yegōvaavukkaagavum avarudaiya makkalukkaagavum niraiya seigirīrgal. (ebi. 6:10) nalla gunangalai valarkkavum vaalkkaikku thēvaiyaana thiramaigalai valarkkavum nīngal kadumaiyaaga muyarchi seigirīrgal. adhanaal, ungaludaiya vaalkkaikkum ungalai sutri irukkiravargaludaiya vaalkkaikkum sandhōsham sērkkirīrgal. adhumattumalla, ungalukku varappōgira poruppugalukkaagavum nīngal nandraaga thayaaraagirīrgal. unmaiyilēyē, nīngal yegōvaavudaiya amaippukku kidaittha periya sotthu!