madhubaanam-kadavulin paarvaiyil!
yegōvaa namakku niraiya parisugalai kodutthirukkiraar. andha parisugalai payanpadutthuvadharku, sondhamaaga thīrmaanam edukkum sudhandhiratthaiyum kodutthirukkiraar. ivatrai ninaitthu naam sandhōshappadugirōm. yegōvaa kodutthirukkum parisugalil dhraatchamadhuvum ondru! “unavu siritthu magilvadharku udhavum, dhraatchamadhu sandhōshamaaga vaalvadharku udhavum” engiradhu baibil. (pra. 10:19; sang. 104:15) aanaal, madhubaanatthai payanpadutthum vishayatthil silarukku prachinaigal vandhirukkindrana. madhubaanatthai payanpadutthuvadhai patri, vitthiyaasamaana kalaachaarangalil vitthiyaasamaana karutthugal irukkindrana. appadiyendraal, indha vishayatthil kristhavargal eppadi oru nyaanamaana mudivai edukkalaam?
naam engē vaalndhaalum sari, eppadippatta kalaachaaratthil valarndhirundhaalum sari, kadavul thandhirukkum aalōsanaigalinpadi mudivugalai edutthaal vaalkkai sandhōshamaaga irukkum.
indru, madhubaanam kudippadhu saadhaaranamaaga aagivittadhu; modaa kudikaarargalum irukkiraargal. madhubaanam eduppadhu manadhukku amaidhiyai tharugiradhu endru silar solgiraargal. ‘prachinaigalai marappadharkaaga kudikkirōm’ engiraargal innum silar. vērusila idangalil, thannai oru periya aalaaga, alladhu oru ‘aambalaiyaaga’ kaattikkolvadharkaaga kudikkiraargal.
nammai padaitthavar idhu sambandhamaaga niraiya aalōsanaigalai kodutthirukkiraar. adhigamaaga kuditthaal mōsamaana vilaivugalai sandhikka vēndiya nilaimai varum endrum echarikkiraar. indha echarippai nīdhimoligal 23:29-35-il paarkkirōm. bōdhaiyil iruppavar ennavellaam seivaar endrum avarukku eppadippatta prachinaigal varum endrum andha padhivu thathrūbamaaga vivarikkiradhu. a airōppaavil vaalgira daaniyel endra mūppar, oru kristhavaraaga maaruvadharku munbu thannudaiya vaalkkai eppadi irundhadhu endru solgiraar: “alavukku adhigamaaga kudikkira palakkam enakku irundhadhaal thavaraana mudivugalai edutthēn. adhanaal vandha kasappaana anubavangal, maraiyaadha thalumbugalai vittuvittu pōyirukkindrana.”
indha vishayatthil, kristhavargal thangalukku irukkum sudhandhiratthai eppadi nyaanamaaga payanpadutthalaam? adhigamaaga kudippadhaal varum prachinaigalai eppadi thavirkkalaam? kadavul kodutthirukkum aalōsanaigalin adippadaiyil mudivugalai eduppadhan mūlamdhaan!
madhubaanatthai patriya baibilin karutthu enna? silar ēn adhai kudikkiraargal? ippōdhu idhai alasippaarkkalaam.
baibil tharum aalōsanai
alavōdu kudippadhai baibil vēndaam endru solvadhillai. dhraatchamadhu kudippadhu sandhōshatthai tharum endru adhu otthukkolgiradhu. “nī pōi sandhōshamaaga saappittu, aanandhamaaga dhraatchamadhu kudi” endru adhu solgiradhu. (pra. 9:7) yēsuvumkūda sila samayangalil dhraatchamadhu kuditthaar. yegōvaavin matra ūliyargalum silasamayam madhubaanam edutthirukkiraargal.—mat. 26:27-29; lū. 7:34; . 1 thī. 5:23
alavōdu madhubaanam eduppadharkum kudiverikkum irukkum vitthiyaasatthai baibil thelivaaga kaattugiradhu. ‘kudiveriyai vittuvidu’ endru adhu solgiradhu. (ebē. 5:18) adhōdu, “kudikaarargal . . . kadavuludaiya arasaangatthukkul anumadhikkappada maattaargal” endrum solgiradhu. (1 ko. 6:10) bōdhai thalaikkērum alavukku kudippadhaiyum kudiveriyaiyum yegōvaa verukkiraar endru indha vasanangal kaattugindrana, illaiyaa? nammudaiya kalaachaaratthil enna palakkam irundhaalum sari, madhubaanam kudippadhu sambandhamaaga kadavul kodutthirukkum aalōsanaiyai kadaippidippadhu nalladhu.
‘evvalavu kuditthaalum naan nidhaanamaaga iruppēn’ endru silar ninaikkalaam. aanaal, indha ninaippu aabatthaanadhu! ‘dhraatchamadhuvukku adimaiyaagira’ aanō pennō, olukkam thavarivida vaaippirukkiradhu; yegōvaavōdu irukkira bandhatthaiyum ilakka vaaippirukkiradhu. (thīth. 2:3; nīdhi. 20:1) kadavuludaiya arasaangatthukkul pōga mudiyaadhapadi “kudiveri” oru thadaiyaagalaam endru yēsuvum sonnaar. (lū. 21:34-36) appadiyendraal, adhigamaaga kuditthu padukuliyil vilundhuvidaamal irukka kristhavargal eppadi thangalaiyē paadhugaatthukkollalaam?
ēn? eppōdhu? evvalavu? yōsiyungal...
ungaludaiya ūril irukkiravargal podhuvaaga evvalavu kudikkiraargal... eppōdhellaam kudikkiraargal... enbadhai paartthu adhēpōl seiya ninaippadhu aabatthaanadhu. adhanaaldhaan, kudippadhu saappiduvadhu sambandhappatta vishayangalil kristhavargal yegōvaavukku pidittha maadhiri nadandhukolgiraargal. “nīngal saappittaalum kuditthaalum edhai seidhaalum, ellaavatraiyum kadavuludaiya magimaikkaagavē seiyungal” endru baibilum solgiradhu. (1 ko. 10:31) naam yōsitthuppaarkka vēndiya sila kēlvigalaiyum baibil niyamangalaiyum ippōdhu paarkkalaam:
matravargal munbu vitthiyaasamaaga theriya kūdaadhu endra orē kaaranatthukkaaga naan kudikkirēnaa? yaatthiraagamam ippadi solgiradhu: “niraiya pēr thappu seigiraargal enbadharkaaga nīngalum avargaludan sērndhukondu thappu seiya kūdaadhu.” yegōvaa indha echarippai isravēlargalukku kodutthaar. thannai vanangaadha makkalai maadhiriyē isravēlargal nadandhukolla kūdaadhu enbadharkaaga appadi sonnaar. indha aalōsanai indru vaalum kristhavargalukkum porundhum. madhubaanam kudikkum vishayatthil matravargal yōsikkira maadhiriyē naamum yōsikka aarambitthaal, konjam konjamaaga yegōvaavudaiya sattangalai mīra aarambitthuviduvōm. kadaisiyil, avarukkum namakkum irukkira bandhamkūda udaindhuvidum. — 23:2rō. 12:2.
‘naan oru periya aal’ endru kaattikkolvadharkaaga kudikkirēnaa? sila kalaachaarangalil adhigamaaga kudippadhaiyum adikkadi kudippadhaiyum ētrukkolgiraargal. (1 pē. 4:3) aanaal, 1 korindhiyar 16:13-il enna nyaanamaana aalōsanai irukkiradhu endru paarungal: “vilippudan irungal, visuvaasatthil urudhiyaaga nilaitthirungal, aanmaganaaga seyalpadungal, balamadaiyungal.” madhubaanam oru nabarai unmaiyilēyē balamulla oru aanmaganaaga aakkumaa? illai! madhubaanatthai adhigamaaga edukkum oru nabaraal thelivaaga yōsikkavō seyalpadavō mudiyaadhu. bōdhaiyil irukkum oru nabar thallaaduvaar endrum thadumaaruvaar endrum ēsaayaa 28:7 solgiradhu. idhellaam vaitthu paarkkumpōdhu, adhigamaaga kudippadhaal makkal ungalai oru periya aalaaga paarkka maattaargal. adharku badhilaaga, balavīnamaana muttaalthanamaana oruvaraagatthaan paarppaargal.
yegōvaadhaan unmaiyilēyē namakku balam tharugiraar. avar tharum balatthai petrukkolla naam vilippudan irukka vēndum, visuvaasatthil urudhiyaaga nilaitthirukka vēndum. (sang. 18:32) idhai eppadi seivadhu? jaakkiradhaiyaaga iruppadhan mūlamum, yegōvaavōdu irukkum bandham murindhuvidumpadi endha oru mudivaiyum edutthuvidaamal iruppadhan mūlamum appadi seiyalaam. yēsu būmiyil irundhapōdhu balamullavaraaga irundhaar. thanakkum yegōvaavukku idaiyil irundha bandhatthai balamaaga vaitthirundhaar. adhanaal avar dhairiyamaanavaraagavum sariyaanadhai seivadhil urudhiyaanavaraagavum irundhaar. makkalin madhippu mariyaadhaiyai sambaadhitthirundhaar.
prachinaigalil irundhu thappippadharkaaga naan kudikkirēnaa? “kavalaigal ennai thinaraditthapōdhu, nīngal [yegōvaa] enakku aarudhal thandhu, en idhayatthukku idhamalitthīrgal” endru sangīdhakkaarar eludhinaar. (sang. 94:19) prachinaikku mēl prachinai ungalai thinaradikkumpōdhu udhavikkaaga madhubaanatthai thēdi pōgaadhīrgal. yegōvaavidam pōngal. andhamaadhiri samayangalil yegōvaavidam adikkadi jebam pannungal. sabaiyil irukkira oru mudhirchiyulla nabaridam aalōsanai kēlungal. unmaiyai solla vēndum endraal, adhigamaaga kudikkumpōdhu ungalaal nidhaanamaaga yōsikka mudiyaamal pōividum. sariyaanadhai seiya vēndum endra urudhiyum illaamal pōividum. (ōsi. 4:11) naam munbu paarttha daaniyel solvadhai gavaniyungal: “tenshanai kuraippadharkaaga naan kuditthēn. aanaal kutra unarvudhaan adhigamaanadhu. naan kuditthadhaal ennudaiya prachinaigal kuraiyavillai, adhigamaagatthaan aanadhu. nalla nanbargalai naan ilandhuvittēn. ennai patri ninaikkumpōdhu enakkē kēvalamaaga irundhadhu.” kudippalakkatthilirundhu daaniyelaal eppadi veliyē vara mudindhadhu? “prachinaigalai samaalikka enakku yegōvaadhaan thēvai, madhubaanam kidaiyaadhu enbadhai piragudhaan purindhukondēn. adhanaal, prachinaigalilirundhu ennaal oru valiyaaga veliyē vara mudindhadhu” endru avar solgiraar. aalamaaga kinatril maattikkondadhupōl nammudaiya sūlnilaimai irundhaalum yegōvaa nammai thūkkividuvaar.—pili. 4:6, 7; 1 pē. 5:7.
nīngal avvappōdhu kudippīrgalaa? indha vishayatthil nīngal ēdhaavadhu maatrangal seiya vēndumaa endru therindhukolla indha kēlvigalai yōsitthuppaarungal: ‘ennudaiya kudumbatthil irukkiravargal alladhu nerungiya nanbar naan adhigamaaga kudikkirēn, adikkadi kudikkirēn endru solgiraargalaa?’ appadi solgiraargal endraal, nīngal ungalukkē theriyaamal kudippadhai oru palakkamaaga aakkikkondu irukkirīrgal endru arttham. ‘eppōdhum kudippadhaivida ippōdhellaam naan niraiya kudikkirēnaa?’ aamaam endru thōndrinaal, kudippalakkatthukku nīngal konjam konjamaaga adimaiyaagikkondu irukkirīrgal endru arttham. ‘konja naalkūda ennaal kudikkaamal irukka mudiyavillaiyaa?’ aamaam endraal, kudippalakkatthukku ērkenavē adimaiyaagivittīrgal endru arttham. nīngal oru daaktaridam pōi udhavi edutthukkolvadhu nalladhu.
kudippadhaal ivvalavu prachinaigal varuvadhaal sila kristhavargal madhubaanam pakkamē pōgakkūdaadhu endru mudivedutthu irukkiraargal. vēru silar, madhubaanatthin suvai pidikkaadhadhaal adhai eduppadhillai. indha maadhiri oru kaaranatthaal alladhu vēru ēdhōvoru kaaranatthaal ungalōdu irukkum oruvar kudikka vēndaam endru mudivedutthaal, avarai kindal pannaadhīrgal. avar edukkira mudivai madhitthu nadappadhan mūlam avarmēl anbu kaattungal.
kudikkum vishayatthil sila kristhavargal thangalukkendru sila varambugalai vaitthukkolgiraargal. evvalavu kudikka vēndum enbadhai oru kristhavar munnaadiyē mudivu seiyalaam. alladhu, evvalavu adikkadi kudippadhu endru mudivu seiyalaam. udhaaranatthukku, vaaratthil oru dhadavai kudikka avar ninaikkalaam. illaiyendraal, saappaattōdu konjamaaga kudikka ninaikkalaam. vēru sila kristhavargal eppadippatta madhubaanatthai kudikka vēndum enbadhai mudivu seidhu vaitthukkolgiraargal. avvalavaaga bōdhai ēraadha vain, bīr maadhiriyaana baanangalai alavōdu kudikka avargal mudivu seiyalaam. adhigamaaga bōdhai ērugira baanangalai kudikka vēndaam endra mudivai avargal edukkalaam; avatrai matra baanangalōdu kalandhukūda kudikka vēndaam endru avargal ninaikkalaam. oru nabar indha maadhiri varambugalai vaitthukkondaal, adhai kadaippidippadhu avarukku sulabamaaga irukkum. ippadiyellaam varambugal vaitthukkondaal matravargal asingamaaga ninaippaargalō endru oru mudhirchiyulla kristhavar kavalaippada vēndiya avasiyam illai.
kudippadhai patri mudivu edukkumpōdhu matravargalaiyum manadhil vaippadhu nalladhu. rōmar 14:21 ippadi solgiradhu: “iraichi saappiduvadhō dhraatchamadhu kudippadhō vēredhaavadhu seivadhō ungal sagōdharanudaiya visuvaasatthai balavīnamaakkinaal, adhai seiyaamal iruppadhē nalladhu.” indha aalōsanaiyai naam eppadi kadaippidikkalaam? sagōdhara anbai kaattuvadhan mūlamaaga! nīngal kudippadhaal innoruvarudaiya unarvugal punpadum endraal nīngal enna seiyalaam? avarmēl ungalukku anbu irundhaal, andha samayatthil nīngal kudikkaamalkūda irukkalaam. ippadiyellaam seidhaal avarmēl ungalukku akkaraiyum madhippu mariyaadhaiyum iruppadhai kaattugirīrgal. adhumattumalla, ungalukku prayōjanamaanadhai mattumē thēdaamal matravargalukku prayōjanamaanadhai manadhil vaitthirukkirīrgal endru arttham.—1 ko. 10:24.
adhumattumalla, kuditthuvittu vandi ōtta kūdaadhu, meshingalai iyakka kūdaadhu, oru kurippitta vayadhukkukkīl irukkiravargal kudikka kūdaadhu pōndra sattangalai arasaangam pōttirukkalaam. indha sattangalaiyum manadhil vaitthu oru kristhavar mudivedukka vēndum.—rō. 13:1-5.
yegōvaa namakku niraiya parisugalai kodutthirukkiraar. andha parisugalai anubavippadharkaana sudhandhiratthaiyum kodutthu nammai gauravappadutthi irukkiraar. edhai saappiduvadhu, edhai kudippadhu endru mudivu seigira sudhandhiramum adhil ondru. adhanaal, nammudaiya appaa yegōvaavai sandhōshappadutthugira mudivugalai eduppadhan mūlam avar kodutthirukkum sudhandhiratthai pokkishamaaga ninaikkirōm enbadhai naam kaattalaam.
a adhigamaaga kudippadhaal kolai, tharkolai muyarchi, paaliyal kutrangal, thunaiyai thunburutthuvadhu, aabatthaana seks palakka valakkangal, karuchidhaivu maadhiriyaana aabatthugal varugindrana endru amerikkaavil irukkira nōi kattuppaadu matrum thaduppu maiyangalin arikkai solgiradhu.