ellaarum “paaliyal muraikēttukku vilagiyirukka vēndum” enbadhu kadavuludaiya viruppam endru baibil solgiradhu. (1 thesalōnikkēyar 4:3) baibilil payanpadutthappattirukkum ‘paaliyal muraikēdu’ endra vaartthai, vibachaaram, ōrinachērkkai, kalyaanamaagaadha oru aanum pennum vaitthukkollum seks pōndravatrai artthappadutthum.

•  sērndhu vaala aasaippadum oru aanum pennum kalyaanam seidhukolla vēndumendru kadavul ēn solgiraar?

•  irandu pērukkum otthuppōgiradhaa endru paarkka kalyaanatthukku munbu sērndhu vaalvadhu sariyaa?

•  kalyaana vaalkkai vetrigaramaaga amaiya vēndum endraal kanavanum manaiviyum enna seiya vēndum?

•   kalyaanam endra ērpaattai aarambitthu vaitthadhē kadavuldhaan. oru aanaiyum pennaiyum padaitthu avargal kanavan manaiviyaaga vaala vēndum endru kadavul ninaitthaar. ippadi, kalyaana vaalkkai endra ērpaattai avar aarambitthu vaitthaar. (aadhiyaagamam 2:22-24) avargal konja naatkalukku sērndhu vaalndhuvittu piragu pirindhupōga vēndum endru alla, kalyaanamaana avargal kaalam mulukka oruvarukku oruvar unmaiyaaga irukka vēndum endru avar aasaippattaar.

•   manidhargalukku edhu nalladhu endru kadavulukku theriyum. kalyaana vaalkkaiyai endrendrum nilaitthirukkum oru bandhamaagatthaan kadavul uruvaakkinaar. appōdhudhaan, kudumbatthil irukkira ellaarum paadhugaappaaga, sandhōshamaaga iruppaargal enbadhu avarukku theriyum. ippōdhu oru udhaaranatthai gavaniyungal: maratthaal seiyappatta oru tēbilaiyō bīrōvaiyō nīngal vaangugirīrgal endru vaitthukkolvōm. adhu ungalukku thanitthani paagangalaaga kidaitthirukkiradhu. andha paagangalai ondrusērppadharkaana valimuraigalai adhai uruvaakkiyavargal ungalidam kodutthirukkiraargal. avargal solvadhupōl seidhaaldhaan, avatrai sariyaaga ondrusērkka mudiyum. adhēpōl oru kalyaana vaalkkai sandhōshamaaga irukka vēndumendraal, adhai uruvaakkiya kadavul kodutthirukkum valimuraigalpadi seiya vēndum. kadavul solvadhupōl seibavargalin vaalkkai eppōdhumē nandraaga irukkum.—ēsaayaa 48:17, 18.

•   kalyaanam aagaadha oru aanum pennum seks vaitthukkollumpōdhu mōsamaana prachinaigal varum. udhaaranatthukku, edhirpaaraamal garppamaagividalaam, paalvinai nōigal varalaam alladhu thēvaiyillaadha vēdhanaigal varalaam.

•   seks vaitthukkolvadhu mūlamaaga pillaigalai petredukkum thiranai manidhargalukku kadavul thandhirukkiraar. uyirai kadavul parisutthamaana ondraaga paarkkiraar. pillaigalai petredukkum thiranai manidhargalukku kadavul parisaaga kodutthirukkiraar. kalyaanamaana oru aanum pennum mattumdhaan seks vaitthukkolla vēndum endru kadavul ninaikkiraar. avarukku kīlppadiyumpōdhu avar thandha indha parisai madhikkirōm endru kaatta mudiyum.—ebireyar 13:4.

 konja naatkal ondraaga sērndhu vaalndhu paarppadhaal kalyaana vaalkkai nandraaga irukkum endru solla mudiyaadhu. ēnendraal, appadi vaalbavargal endha kadamaiyunarchiyum illaamal, prachinai vandhaal eppōdhu vēndumaanaalum pirindhu pōividalaam endra ennatthildhaan iruppaargal. oru aanukkum pennukkum idaiyil irukkum bandham balamaaga irukka vēndumendraal avargalukku idaiyil kadamaiyunarvu irukka vēndum. a eppadippatta prachinai vandhaalum sērndhu samaalikka vēndum endra ennamum irukka vēndum. kalyaanam aagumpōdhudhaan indha kadamaiyunarchi varum.—matthēyu 19:6.

 prachinai illaadha kalyaana vaalkkaiyē illai. irundhaalum, kanavanum manaiviyum baibil solvadhupōl nadandhukondaal, avargaludaiya kalyaana vaalkkai sandhōshamaaga irukkum. idhō baibil tharum sila aalōsanaigal:

•   ungaludaiya thēvaigalaivida ungal thunaiyin thēvaigalai patri adhigamaaga yōsiyungal.—1 korindhiyar 7:3-5; pilippiyar 2:3, 4.

•   oruvarmēl oruvar anbu kaattungal, oruvarai oruvar madhippōdu nadatthungal.—ebēsiyar 5:25, 33.

•   yōsitthu nidhaanamaaga pēsungal.—nīdhimoligal 12:18.

•   porumaiyaaga irungal, udanē udanē manniyungal.—kolōseyar 3:13, 14.